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Thinking about suicide? Think about this
You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out.
Fine--but before you kill yourself consider these facts:
Suicide is not usually successful.
You think you know a guaranteed way?
Ask the 25-year-old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. But, both his arms are gone.
What about jumping?
Ask John. He used to be intelligent , with an engaging sense of humor. That was before he leapt from a building. Now, he's brain- damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. But, worst of all, he KNOWS he used to be normal.
What about pills?
Ask the 12-year-old with extensive liver damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun?
Ask the 24-year-old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide.
You might too.
But...
Who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse that job- -but SOMEONE has to do it. Who will have to cut you down from where you hung yourself or identify your bloated body after you've drowned?
Your father?
Your mother?
Your wife?
Your son?
The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will NEVER completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain.
Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. Look closely at the 4 year old playing with his cars on the rug. Kill yourself tonight, and he may do it ten years from now.
You DO have other choices. There are people who can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend.
Call your minister or priest. Call a doctor or hospital.
Call the police.
They will tell you that there's hope. Maybe you'll find it in the mail tomorrow. Or in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it?
Well, then, I may see you in the psychiatric ward later.
And we'll work with whatever you have left.
I love you all LOTS
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I am an 18 female and I find myself being attracted to other girls bodies. Not that i want to go and mess around with them, but i just enjoy looking at beautiful girls. Like most other girls, i don't have a problem kissing other girls and whatnot its really not a big deal depending on who it is. But I'm not sure if just because i'm a girl and i see a beautiful girl if the reason i am attracted is because i want to look like that or if it is because i could be bi? I've never messed around with another girl other then kissing, and i don't really see it happening but its not totally ruled out. Does this mean I am bi? please help (link)
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no I dont think your Bi I mean lots of girls look at each others butts If you want to be bi you can be but if you dont want to be dont its normal its just like looking at nude woman on the internet or something its not like you bi or a lazbo its jsut you enjoy doing it
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13 female. Theres this guy that i soooooo totally like... alot. He was in all my classes last year and he was sort of nerdy looking but totally awsome in personality. then over the summer it was like, wow, something happened, because when he came back, he was seriously hott. SO i told like one person that i liked him, and then she told other peple, and other peple told other peple who told him... and then my friend asked him out for me without my permission and he said no. Later i found out one of my best friends was still crushin on him from last year, but she's not mad about it. She's actually fine with it. Then Later i found out one of my friends asked him why he said no and he said cuz he doesnt know me that well, and i was like, we were great friends last year!!! when i went back to school on monday 2 days after the "asking out day" ugh, he said hi to me like nothing happened. its just usually i'm the one who always says hi. I really dont know what to do beacause i really like him. sry its long, but i really need help on this so please dont skip it!!! thanks (link)
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Start talking to him more and try to come better friends with him and after a couple of weeks ask him out or in a couple of days always try to make him laugh guys like a girl that make them laugh try to flirt with him allot shoew him you like him hope I hlped and hope it works out
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OK, I am so pissed off right now, I had a crush on these guys and they dared me to wear my short pink lavender skirt to school and wear a thong under it, and bend over while throwing away a piece of paper, so I did it, and when I bent over I let out a huge toot and now they keeping making fun of me! I am embaressed, but now they pobably don't like me, huh?
help please. (link)
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I no how that feels all you can really do is laugh with them I mean they will laugh at you for a while untill you start showing them you dont care. and they dont care about it they probably still like you hope I helepd and good luck and remeber dont let them no it is bothering you
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what does it mean when a guy says "he can't have a gf right now?" is that a way to let the girl down easy or is it the truth?! (link)
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It is a way to let a girl down easy but some times it means the truth but most of the time it is to let a girl down easy
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how do you masterbate? (link)
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It the same as sex
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But I though that it was futher upp.. if someone just fingures you will it really pop it??-- how badly does it hurt? (link)
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it is far up but its like if they finger you with 2 fingers or 3 and if they put there whole finger in it. it is about 6 inches up there
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what is pop your cherry? (link)
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Its is the thing that is up your vagina if some one fingers there self or something it will pop it bleeds along time and hurt but eventually it will stop and heal hope i helped x3
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13/f.....yeah i need UNIQUE ideas for my room. not just ideas to make it more fun...but more interesting and crap...like, please dont say posters or paint or moving furniture! what is a really KOOL idea?!?!?!?!!?!??! (link)
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well I had the same problem as you just get some hip cool chairs and some awsome lights simple but cool hope I helped and hope you room looks awsome check ya lata MeGaN
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My dog just died today and I'm soooo sad! =( She didn't suffer, thank god, but I just can't get over it. She was the greatest dog, and I love her so much. What can I do to feel better?
Thanks (link)
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WEll getting over a pets death is hard some times I still cry when my cat died a year ago. but all you have to think of is all the fun time and some times that will make you feel sad. But if that doesnt work just call up a good friend and go to her house or something to get your mind off that some times it can really hurt but after a while when you get a new pet you will still remeber you old pet but it will feel different I cant realy explan it but its like you still feel sad but yet it doesnt bother you. After a while you will feel better HOpe it works out for you and sorry for your loss
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This is mostly to the females out there: What is the most romantic- meaningful gift you've ever received? (link)
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Well I will have to tell you evan though it sound stupid I would have to say a stuff animal with a rose and a card it is so sweet and none expensive
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I need help QUICK!! Im getting my braces tightened for the first time tomorrow and I know to expect pain but how much? And do they hurt WHILE he's tightening them or AFTER hes done? Should I take advil first? Will i be able to eat/chew food afterwards? How long does it take for him to tighten them? Thanks ill rate high!! (link)
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It hurts after he tightens only about 2 days and take advil right after your done with the apointment and some times it hurts when he tightens them but just for a sec becuz he sometimes pulls hard you can eat for about 2 hours after you get them tighten but then it starts to hurt so you can eat like pudding and all so hope I helped and good luck and a very pretty color for ruber band is pink and green or orange and blue :)
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what does IM mean??? i've been told to IM someone... i'm confused!!! lol. is it some american thingy??? coz i'm australian. (link)
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All it means is instant message and its like so cool your from australian and you would have to have aol to talk to some one on aol
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this one boy who likes me but i don't like him. he is constantly abusing me by hitting me and squeezing my arm really tight. he and his sister are very stockish and i need to get away what should i do?! he won't stop following me. i've asked my crush to talk to him but he's too scared. what should i do?!
signed,
running from a stocker (link)
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You might should tell some one like a teacher at your school or if your out of school an police man this is a serious matter he can touch you or do some thing to you that he doesnt need to do!! I hope it works out for you...
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Im 14/f and ive never had a boyfriend..is this weird...is it normal?? (link)
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Yes it is normal I am sure you will get one soon dont sweat it
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I know this sounds stupid but here it goes..THere is this guy at our school that FLIRTS with all the girls, but he flirts with me the most and all the girls say so to. I really like him too. He always plays footsie ne and like he always drinks out the same cup as me and then he is like oh sorry but I can tell he does it on perpose and he tries to hold my hand. THe only thing is we are not going out, and this has been going on for about 2 months and I just cant stand it why wont he as kme plz type back (link)
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he might just be shy to.. maybe flirt with him to give him a little clue that you like him too
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im going shopping tomorrow and i want to go to deb because i heard that it had some pretty cheap cloths there. do they have jeans below the waist at deb? if so, how much are they? please help. (link)
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Yes it is true and they are about 15-29 $
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is it wrong to like someone younger than you? (link)
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no unless say the person is 24 and they like a 12 year old lol no its completely normal
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Boys like the fact of girls being virgins right? (link)
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WEll different guys like different things but most of them like girls to be virgins and if not I dont think they are cool with me i mean if they whrere my bf lol hope i helped and have a good weekend
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some on sent me one of theese on my column SEND THIS TO 15 PPL IN THE NEXT 143 MIN AND THEN PRESS F6 AND YOUR CRUSHES NAME WILL APPEAR IN BIG LETTERS!!! IT IS SOOOO SCARY CUZ IT WORKS...BUT IF YOU BREAK THE CHAIN...YOU WILL BE CURSED WITH RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS FOR THE NEXT 10 YEARS! SEND It what does it do what is the point in it does it really work think Lotz (link)
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no thery dont work dont send it to any one else on the column you will get band that might be the hole point in them I dont know the point in them
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Please don't delete this question, because I am actually very curious about this. Why do people join this website who aren't even serious about helping people or receiving help? People who need help come here and some ignorant people joke around and even insult these people in need. Don't you think it's time we suspend or expel these rude people? I'm sick of it myself. (link)
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THey do get annoying after a while if you ask a question and they give you a rude answer got to the top of the page and click suggestions and then click report abuse and tell them what the person did to you
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