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STOCKER


Question Posted Monday January 31 2005, 7:35 pm

this one boy who likes me but i don't like him. he is constantly abusing me by hitting me and squeezing my arm really tight. he and his sister are very stockish and i need to get away what should i do?! he won't stop following me. i've asked my crush to talk to him but he's too scared. what should i do?!

signed,
running from a stocker


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Lilsweetie428 answered Monday January 31 2005, 8:21 pm:
If he wont leave you alone. you need to tell an adult or go too the athoritys.. This could become serious. Get help! you will feel much better once you do. and you wont always have to look over your shoulder

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azngemini answered Monday January 31 2005, 8:19 pm:
first you should just ignore him n show him no signs of interest. that'll show him you dont like him and maybe he'll back off. if that doesnt work, then you should definately confront him. just tell him you dont like him the way he likes you. if he still acts the way he is, then start yelling at him or talk with him more until he gets the point.

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BabyBlue848 answered Monday January 31 2005, 8:14 pm:
You might should tell some one like a teacher at your school or if your out of school an police man this is a serious matter he can touch you or do some thing to you that he doesnt need to do!! I hope it works out for you...

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haha answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:59 pm:
Ok first I have to point out your errors. Begin your sentences with capital letters. Anyway tell him he is making you nervous. Talk about how he is scaring you. But nicely. I am sorry you just said on my feedback you wanted advice. Usually I don't care. But say, look! I did leave some advice. But kudos to you on using a transition in your feedback. I will not hold this agansit you for using a grammer plus.

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emaleekate answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:54 pm:
maybe he likes u. i have a friend that does that to me alot but hes kidding lol *cough cough* but just talk to him or a teacher sumthing
p.s its spelled stalker

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ToddnDesBffeNe answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:50 pm:
you can tell an audlt. they helped me last year when i had a stocker and well all you have to do is tell and they will prollie do something about it.

signed: ToddsBffe

p.s. hope it goes ok and hope i helped! if you need anything else just ask and i will answer as best that i can.

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xOSarahMarie143Ox answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:46 pm:
you need to tell him the truth, he needs to know that you're not intrested if you want him to stop.

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charmed-cherry21 answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:42 pm:
First off you spell it STALKER second off, call the cops.

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Charmed-Cherry21

EDIT: I did answer you and I thought you just might want to kno how to spell it. So you could at least made it a 2 or 3

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:42 pm:
You can go tell your Teachers,Councelors,Police but if its that serious then you should just go file a Restrainging order. And make sure you always have a cell phone by you just incase you are stuck in a sticky type of situation and anytime you feel you are being Harraased then call your parents anything tell them where you are and everything just so you have records and stuff. I had the samme problem hun but it doesnt go on anymore!! Hope I helped!!

x0x-stephanie-x0x

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Berri answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:40 pm:
You need to tell this STALKER that what he's doing is stupid and wrong, and it doesn't turn you on at all. Don't be afraid to just stand up, look him right in the face, and tell him this. That should get the point across. And if that doesn't work, and you think it's really starting to get serious, tell an adult!

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angieroonie answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:37 pm:
guys do tend to see what they want to see. the only way to deal with it is to tell him that you only see him as a friend. he might get angry but you cant live like you are - running from a stocker. just tell him to back off. that's all i can say. hope i helped.

~ANGE

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