Member Since: January 31, 2005
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Last Update: February 10, 2005
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Okay, well, my ex girlfriend and I have always had an extremely skay relationship. Until a few weeks ago. We date off and on, and all of a sudden, we just like, stopped fighting. And I fell completely in love with her...
Well, I made her make a LiveJournal, because I thought it would help her vent out her problems, because she has a sort of hard life. Her parents like, seriously abuse her, and they might even hate her. So I thought it might help...
But then her best friend commented about how she cut them out of her life. And then she posted a conversation on there that my ex and her had about a week ago. Basically saying how I was a "fucking bitch who fucking bitches at her everyday because I'm such a bitch" and she's telling her friend that she wants to have some days apart and see if I'll come crawling back, because she thinks I'm that pathetic, and she tells them that I bitch at her everytime she hangs out with them...
Truth is, is that I bitch at her because she lies to me about them. I mean, I wouldn't care if she hung out with them or not, but the fact that she has to frikken lie about it is the thing that pisses me off. And another fact is that I tell her at least once a week to hang out with her friends. But she never does. She's so god damned clutchy and possessive (not to mention obsessive) over me. So really, she'd be the one crawling back to me...
So now, she's trying to make a complete 180. She says that she's stopped lying to everyone, and that she really wants me back (because, obviously, I dumped her ass), and that I mean the world to her and how she won't be able to function with out me. But I can't trust her. At all. I mean, the minute I fell in love with her, she backstabbed me. So I decided to give her another chance...
And then she tells me that she's going out with her friend to the mall. She hates the mall. She never goes ANYWHERE with me, let alone the mall. I mean, gah, she hates shopping. So it's like se's been lying to me about this whole thing. Either that, or just neglecting me completely...
So what I want to know is do you guys think I should try it again? Because she won't leave me alone about giving her another chance...
So what should I do?
Sorry it's so long :/ (link)
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leave her a lone for a while, see if there are any other girls that you're interested in. try and become friends with her and work on the trust factor. then give it time and see if she still has the same feelings for you, take it from someone who's been there. if she TRULY has feelings for you, then she can wait for you. if you have any questions IM me xSarah Marie 730
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hey, i like this kid brad who ive liked for a while but juss offically meet todaii. and so does my friend Lindsay n some one went up to brad and told him that linsay like him n so he said taht hell call her tonight im scared that he may like her and taht he might ask her out when i really like him i don't know if ishould say something to him its important please help ! ! (link)
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tell both of them how you feel, tell your friend first and if she really is true to you than she'll think of you before a guy.. if you have anymore questions im at xSarah Marie 730 ((on aim))
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My piano teacher just quit recentely and i am very sad. I have known him for a lot of years. He was great at piano and i liked how he teached. I just got another piano teacher. I like her but i really am sad that my piano teacher quit. What should i do? (link)
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it's only normal to miss someone after nowing them for a long time. you need to understand that things like that happen from time to time. try and keep in touch with your old piano teacher, send him a letter here n there tell him about upcoming residals you may be doing.
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I have a friend. I think theres something wrong that she won't tell me. She is always mad at me. she always takes it out on me when it is somebody elses fault. How can i stop her from yelling at me when it is not my fault? Should i not be friends or should i and should i stop her from taking it out on me? (link)
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tell your friend whats on your mind. but try staying friends with her, if there is something that's TRULY wrong than you want to be there for her, no matter what the sacrafice
-*Sarah
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uMmMMM.. ii like this guy n he said he likes me but.. i liked him at the beginiinq of the year n he broke my heart 3 times be4 sOo ii dont know what i shud do shud i just ask him out or move on since he hurt me be4 (link)
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if he has broken your heart more than once, you shouldn't jump into a relationship. if he really likes you than he should prove that to you and HE should be the one to ask you out. Don't become serious with him to fast. If he truly likes you, than he should be willing to wait
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ok my grandma used to live with me and she passed away(in my living room) and everytime i close my eyes to go to sleep i see her laying in her bed and she is Dead i do not know what is wrong with me! i have not been able to get to sleep for awhile. Does anyone know what i can do without seeing anyone??? Please help me
~~~~~~~I'll RATE A 5 ~~~~~~~~~ (link)
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you're probobally not the only one who feels this way. talk to a family member who most likely is feeling the same pain that you are. it's normal to miss a loved one and it will pass sooner or later
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I cut myself. When i feel super bad i cut myself. And i know it's a horrible thing to do. I need to stop. Does anybody have any suggestions about how to stop? Going to an adult is not an option. Please help. (link)
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talk to one of your friends that you know you can trust. you shouldn't hurt yourself like that. if there is anyone you know who has done this to themselves before and stopped than you should talk to them. they will probobally be able to give you some tips.
Sarah
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ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :( (link)
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tell your boyfriend what happened and that it was a mistake. make sure to include that you are sorry and you regret it, make sure he knows that you ended it with the other guy. It's better for him to hear it from you than anyone else
Sarah
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I have a huge crush on this guy and just when he was starting to like me someone told him i was talking about him behind his back and now he wont talk to me. I've been crying my eyes out for hours now and life isnt worth living without him i dont know what to do....please help me im so upset hes the first guy ive ever cried over :( :( :( (link)
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you need to tell him the truth. if he really likes you then he will believe you when you tell him that you never said anything about him. also you should talk to your friend, people shouldn't do that to other people, especially friends
Sarah
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this one boy who likes me but i don't like him. he is constantly abusing me by hitting me and squeezing my arm really tight. he and his sister are very stockish and i need to get away what should i do?! he won't stop following me. i've asked my crush to talk to him but he's too scared. what should i do?!
signed,
running from a stocker (link)
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you need to tell him the truth, he needs to know that you're not intrested if you want him to stop.
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