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Question Posted Monday January 31 2005, 6:37 pm

ok my grandma used to live with me and she passed away(in my living room) and everytime i close my eyes to go to sleep i see her laying in her bed and she is Dead i do not know what is wrong with me! i have not been able to get to sleep for awhile. Does anyone know what i can do without seeing anyone??? Please help me
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allthebest_lms answered Thursday February 3 2005, 10:16 am:
i think that means you really love and miss your grandma. This is just the beginning. Im sure as time passes, you wil get over it. Maybe you should talk to your family or someone close. Or before you sleep, try to think of happy memories you have shared with your grandma. If all those doesnt work, maybe you should consult a phychologist and see what advice they have for you.

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drjwlc4 answered Monday January 31 2005, 8:09 pm:
well if you see her a lot still it means that she is looking over your family and if you dont want her there and you think that it is her ghost tell it to go away be like your dead go away like 3 4 times it should work hope i helped
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emaleekate answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:57 pm:
ahh that happens with me too! aw hun it sucks like everytime i see a scary movie it like burns into my head and it wakes me every 5 minutes!! and it just freaks me out and i cant sleep but try repeating a song over and over in your head* sounds corny * but like a cute song a nursery ryme and think of like happy stuff and when ur grandma was alive
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xOSarahMarie143Ox answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:54 pm:
you're probobally not the only one who feels this way. talk to a family member who most likely is feeling the same pain that you are. it's normal to miss a loved one and it will pass sooner or later

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AdviceMistress answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:52 pm:
your just going through a difficult time, imean your gandma just passed away so you are just beginning the grieving process and it''s going to take sometime. maybe you just need to take time to yourself and reflect on all the memories of you and your grandma. it's going to take sometime but you will soon realize that she is in a better place. i experienced at the age of 12 when my grandfather died of cancer. i grieved a lot and it took awhile for me to go back to the way things were without him. and still to this day i miss him and i always will and so will you. just give yourself sometime that's all you need. if you need to talk with anyone about what your going through let me know. leave something in my inbox or you can IM if you want to talk.

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charmed-cherry21 answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:50 pm:
All it means is that you really miss her. There is nothing wrong with you. You just need to talk to people that might help you get over her death.

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angieroonie answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:49 pm:
nothing is wrong with you. it's all part of the grieving process. you need to come to terms with your grandma's death... in time you will sleep again but in the meantime the only thing you could do is see a doctor and find out if theres anything you can take to help you sleep. good luck honey.

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