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this guy


Question Posted Monday January 31 2005, 7:16 pm

I have a huge crush on this guy and just when he was starting to like me someone told him i was talking about him behind his back and now he wont talk to me. I've been crying my eyes out for hours now and life isnt worth living without him i dont know what to do....please help me im so upset hes the first guy ive ever cried over :( :( :(

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xosweetiepiexo answered Monday January 31 2005, 9:15 pm:
aww... well i would definetly talk to him. Does he know you like him? If he doesn't go up to him and be like i never talked about you behind your back, i couldn't do that because i like you so much. and then see what he says... explain to him that it is definetly not true. If you don't want to ask him out just be like "so can we be friends again?" this way you get to know him better and he'll learn to trust you more.
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Spark120 answered Monday January 31 2005, 8:46 pm:
okay. first off, who ever said that is pure evil. second, there's not alot you can do. you have got to tell him that those were total lies. look into his eyes, so he sences that ur arent lieing. if he doesnt belive you, hes not worth it!

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redneckstew22 answered Monday January 31 2005, 8:41 pm:
That's no fun. Why don't you try talking to him about it. When my boyfriend get's mad at me and i cry over it i tell him i cried for him and he get's glad fast. So why don't you try telling him how much he means to you. And if he doesn't listen he's a loser and doesn't deserve your time. I hope i helped.

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XSugarPieX77 answered Monday January 31 2005, 8:31 pm:
Aww that totally suck. I cried over a guy i liked a lot, i cried so much there was a ocean LOL. Ok, so talk to him and tell him that you didnt say ne thing and if he doesnt care or doesnt listen then hes not good enough because he doesnt trust you. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, yes you will have feelings for him for a while longer but you will get over him!!! There will probably be others you will cry about and you might make guys cry. Try meeting some new guys. Good Luck Hun
~Brina~

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xOSarahMarie143Ox answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:48 pm:
you need to tell him the truth. if he really likes you then he will believe you when you tell him that you never said anything about him. also you should talk to your friend, people shouldn't do that to other people, especially friends
Sarah

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angieroonie answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:46 pm:
life IS worth living!!! look, just tell him that it was a bullshit story made up by someone thats jealous. if he still doesn't believe it then he's not worth your time or tears. fill me in on how it goes

~ANGE

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charmed-cherry21 answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:44 pm:
Have your friend tell him what happened.

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JamesBaybiGurl answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:43 pm:
Tell him exactly what you posted. That you have a huger crush on and him and you didnt mean talking behind his back. And tell him that like him alot and stuff. But depending on the type of person he is im not sure if he wants to be told your crying cause then that will make him feel like a complete idiot or jerkk whitch insnt soo good!!

-stephie

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Berri answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:43 pm:
Have you tried talking to him one-on-one? You might want to if you haven't. Tell him that you didn't say anything about him, and you're really upset that he isn't talking to you. This might also be a good time to tell him your true feelings about him.....

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AdviceMistress answered Monday January 31 2005, 7:40 pm:
let him know that you really care about him and that you actually need him in your life. you can let him know if you want that you cried about him for hours and hours because you care that much about him. tell him he shouldn't believe what other people say and that you would never talk behind his back. i mean why would you?! you like this guy, right?! good luck and i hope all goes well!

*BeSs*

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