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Well, my names Spaz. I'm 14 years old. I'm the koolest person you'll ever meet. I play 3 different guitars. Along with the piano. My favorite bands include Anti-Flag, Bouncing Souls, Down With Roland, Scabby, Pink Floyd, Sum41, Blink182 and many many more.
E-mail: redneckstew22@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: PA
Occupation: musican
Age: 14
AIM: redneckstew22
Member Since: January 30, 2005
Answers: 13
Last Update: January 31, 2005
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lostgurl616
hey! this guy that i like likes me back and he was talking to my friend andhe might ask me out! i would say yes but i have never had a boyfriend and i am in 7th grade... i am the kind of person who thinks we are to young to date... i dont think i want a boyfriend but how do i say no without hurting his feelings, because i still like him?? please help me (link)
If i had this problem i would try asking him to be friends. And wait to become more than that. If he likes you he'll probably be a little disappointed but probably become friends. And then all is well. i hope i helped a little.


I have a huge crush on this guy and just when he was starting to like me someone told him i was talking about him behind his back and now he wont talk to me. I've been crying my eyes out for hours now and life isnt worth living without him i dont know what to do....please help me im so upset hes the first guy ive ever cried over :( :( :( (link)
That's no fun. Why don't you try talking to him about it. When my boyfriend get's mad at me and i cry over it i tell him i cried for him and he get's glad fast. So why don't you try telling him how much he means to you. And if he doesn't listen he's a loser and doesn't deserve your time. I hope i helped.


what do you do when ur a freshman dating a sophomores (14/f) and all the sophomore girls hate you bc ur dating a sophomore? all these sophomores are getting all these other people to be against you, what do you do? (link)
Forget them. If they have nothing better to do then turn people against you then they don't even deserve your anger. Just brush them off. They'll eventually accept it and move on. And it should just go smooth. Hope this helped.


ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :( (link)
If i were in your shoes i would tell him. Think about it if he cheated on you wouldn't you rather hear it from him than from one of his friends? Plus any guilt you feel will go away. If he does really like you then he'll forgive you. hope this helped.


theres this girl i really like but she barely knows i exist. she knows i like her because her friend(who is my friend to) knew all the time. im really desperate on advice on how to get her attention p.s im only in 7th grade so dont be so technical (link)
talk to her. it helps become a friend first. just be a really cool person and don't try to impress her that hardly ever works. i hope this helped.


my friend knows i like him and i gave him my number today cause my friend gave him the wrong number. and i gave him ahug and he gave me one back. he seems to be protecting me by standing up for me when people make fun of me or when people are stocking me like this one boy who likes me but i don't ike him. does this mean anything that he is standing up for me?! could it be a sign of love?! what should i do to thank him? (link)
He might like you as a friend or maybe more than a friend. It depends like my boyfriend and my guy friends stand up for me but that's just me. To thank him just be a really great friend or if it turns out that he becomes more than a friend be a really great girlfriend. that's what i would do. i hope this helps.


ok theres this girl..i dont know if i would consider her my friend but i try to be nice to everyone.well she liked my boyfriend b4 we started to go out.and of course i did 2.well she WAS mad when we started to go out so ever since then shes been butting into our business.like we can be walking down the hall holding hands and what not and she just walks up in between us.after awhile it can get verrry annoying.when me and my boyfriend are on the phone ill get online and she'll IM me and want me and my boyfriend to 3 way her.he doesnt like her and she pisses him off.today she crossed my boyfriends line.she pretty much was trying to invite herself to the movies with me and my boyfriend and that pissed him off so he goes no we want to be alone for once.i cant really blame him but shes allllways on my business.i dont want to be mean to her because im not that way.what are some ways to tell her to back off without being mean? (link)
Me and my boyfriend have a problem kinda like that with this one girl and the way we handled it was dropped big hints we didn't want her with us and when that didn't work i talked to her alone and said something like "okay, we really like our time alone together so if you will please stop inviting yourself to our dates?" and if that doesn't work she deserves to be yelled at.


My crush knows i like him and he likes me too! should i get him something for v-day?! what if he doesn't get anything for me?! what do i do?!
(( i'm so CONFUSED )) (link)
Why don't you get him two gifts. Like a small something like a $5 gift certificate. And also a larger one. Wait and if he gives you a present then give him both the large and small gift and if he doesn't just go give him the $5 dollars and a small hug. That's what i would do.


Hello, I have been going out with this boy for 1Month and 1Week. I like him alot, I have been with many people but never met someone who liked the same stuf as me it was always the opposite..And like we tell each other we love each other..And one day I was on the phone before one of my soccer games and like my friend Robyn was like ohhh so does he mean it when he says he loves you!? And I said yess but how do I know that its not him playin around I trust him alot!!!

HeLP PlEaSe!!!

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Well it seems like he likes you. Be careful cause it has only been one month. But he seems like a pretty cool guy. Guys who say they love you have to like you at least just a little. I hope this helped.


thank you so much! it definately does help! im open to trying anything to help keep my grades up! im going to try the first letter thing for my next biology test!! (link)
I'm happy to help.


In my house, my siblings have about average grades. Since i was young i have done extremely well. Last year i got a 4.0 through the hole year. Now school is getting very difficult for me but somehow i manage to do okay. It is my freshmen year in high school and i got 4 a's and 2 b's and i wish i could do better. I have a hard time memorizing things so when tests come i bomb them. My family is not what you would call rich, but we arent poor either. my parents would have all 3 of us kids in college at the same time when im a freshmen in college. I want to get a schollarship somewhere but as my dad says, "A's will get you schollarships, b's wont." My question is what are some different ways that all of you memorize the hard facts, expecially in biology and history. (link)
My life's the same way. The way i memorize things is make a game out of it. Like I'm a musican so i make a song out of things i have to memorize. You could just have to make them stick. Another way would be take the first letters of the words and make them into something really stupid that you'll remember. I hope this helps a little.


im about 4'11'' and i always have a really hard time finding clothes that fit me especially pants. im like size 1 for most jeans and stuff and i usually wear extra small shirts. where can i go to get clothes that fit me? if u need more info tell me. i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off! (link)
I'm exactly the same 4' 11' and the pants are perfect in the weist but to long. You can really shop anywhere i love Pac Sun but the pants are to long so i just fold them under and safty pin them. It works for me i hope it helps a little.


ok, first of all, let me tell you that i just want to know what y'all think about this - please tell me honestly if you think this guy likes me or not. i usually see answers that 'since i don't know you both, i don't know', but please tell me your gut feeling.

i'm a senior and there's this guy who sits behind me in one of my classes (he's also a senior). i really like him and he can probably tell, but everyday when there's a break in the class or something we end up talking. not just like, 'can you help me with this worksheet' but more personal things. also, when i go through the halls i glance over and he's usually looking at me. from your viewpoint, do you think he likes me? (link)
It seems to me that he likes you. Or at least he seems interested. To find out for sure, why don't you go for it. Try flirting with him and if he bites then he probably likes you.




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