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i cheated on my boyfriend :(
ok theres this guy at my school whos a junior and im a sophmore and hes soo sweet..hes not really that HOTT but hes not ugly..and he has the BIGGEST crush on me ever...we hang out everyday and stuff and we went to a bonfire together and we held hands and kissed...the thing is...i have a boyfriend of 6 months who i really do love....and ive never cheated on him til now...i totally regret it..and wil never do it again but i feel so bad and now ryan (the guy i kissed) is all upset because i told him i cant cheat on my boyfriend no more and stuff and hes all hurt...but some of my friends knew about what happened and they want me to tell my boyfriend soo bad but i dont want to..i just want to let it go and never do it again :( and ryan calls me 24/7 even when im w/my boyfriend!! idk what to do please help me... :(
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You should tell him before someone else does. and say that you wont do it again and your sorry and that it didnt mean anything.
its better if you tell him calmly and your really sorry and you promice it didnt mean anything and wont happen again
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you've got to tell him, if he finds out from someone else it'll be a million times worse
*~*shan*~*
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Tell your boyfriend what happened. You're boyfriend, as many people have said before me, would rather hear it from you than someone else. Just tell him, and after you do, the guilt will go away over time. And then tell Ryan to bug off. He's what you would call a STALKER. You should call the police on him, that would scare him pretty bad. You should confront him and tell him in your most serious tone that you and him aren't going to have any more contact. Tell him that it was a mistake and you don't mean to hurt his feelings, but you really love your boyfriend and hate to hurt him.
~Hope that helped!~
~K~
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If i were in your shoes i would tell him. Think about it if he cheated on you wouldn't you rather hear it from him than from one of his friends? Plus any guilt you feel will go away. If he does really like you then he'll forgive you. hope this helped.
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tell your boyfriend what happened and that it was a mistake. make sure to include that you are sorry and you regret it, make sure he knows that you ended it with the other guy. It's better for him to hear it from you than anyone else
Sarah
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You don't have too many options.You fucked up and you realize it.Personally,If I was you,I would tell him.Because there would be nothing worse than for your boyfriend to find out that you cheated on him from one of your friends,or even worse Ryan.And I mean sure you can pretend like it didn't happen and not say anything and hope it blows over.But the chance of that is about as big as hell freezing over.If your boyfriend really likes/loves you like you think he does he'll,in time, forgive you.
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Let me tell ya this...Girls talk for a fact, Really do know this. And if you dont tell him before they do them he is gonna feel hurt and if you do end up breakin up he is gonna always throw it up in your face about you not being honest and stuff if you were to actually wanna go out with him. So tell him before stuff gets bad!! Just to be on the safe side!! Just be like Baby I kno this may hurt you as much as it hurts for me and for me having to tell you this but the other night I went on a Bonifire with Ryan and we kissed. Then see what he says if he gets pissed tell him that u didnt mean to hurt him and you care about his feelings soo much and that you dont wanna lose him and exsplain to him how much he means to you!! If that doesnt work then your pretty much screwed!! But if you like ryan and you and your bf breka up you could possibly go out with him!! Hope I helped!!! Best of Lucck!!!
-steph
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You really do have to tell him. you cant hide a secret like this from you b/f. it is hard and it might end your relationship but a relationship without trust isn't a relationship at all. good luck darl
~ANGE
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Ooohhh...Sticky situation. Okay, here's what I think you should do:
1.) Tell your boyfriend before your friends do. He'll take it a lot better hearing it from you for the first time and will probably be a lot more likely to forgive you.
2.) Tell Ryan that you are not doing that ever again and that he needs to respect you for that, and tell him if he ever wants to have a chance with you, he'll cut it out.
3.) Never cheat on your boyfriend again!!!
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i know its hard, but you should tell your boyfriend. wouldn't you want to kno if he cheated on you? and tell ryan not to call you anymore, and that you dont like him in that way- tell him that you just want to be friends. (and dont spend so much time with him like how you used to)...hope this helps!
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you messed up you gotta tell him b4 sum1 else does...
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just tell him. it was only a kiss. tell him that he kissed you and that it didnt even mean anything to you. if that is not true, however, just simply tell him the truth. tell him what really happened. tell him how you regret it and dont ever want to do it again.
but it was only a kiss. not that big of a deal. trust me.
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aww! gurl the SAME thing happened to me...went to a pardy cheated on my bf of 8 months it was the worst mistake ever! well my boyfriend ended up findin out and the worst thing happened we broke up..but we stayed friends and now we r bak together and better then ever! it will be one year next month..i HONESTLY think u should talk to ur boyfriend bout it if it didnt mean nething then hopefully you both will get thru it! best of luck!!
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eh.. tell ryan that you just can't do that kind of stuff, its wrong and you love your boyfriend and you can't help that. i wouldn't tell your boyfriend about it either.. i mean, he never needs to know, right?? haha. well i hoped i helped a little bit.
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