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My names Alyssa and my favorite hobbies are basketball, singing, dancing, and giving advice to you guys! Hair color: Brown and carmel, Eye Color: Brown

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Sorry for the lengthiness ahead of time.
OK here goes, I am a 16 year old curious teenage girl. I have recently gotten a boyfriend, and this is the first time since about beginning of september. However, I have two other infatuations. And I think about them on a regular basis.
So now I will explain in a little more detail about them:
My boyfriend, I just met him at a concert on January 29th. He is a total sweetheart and a complete cutie.
One of the other guys, I have been talking to him regularly and we flirt which is no biggie, however we do talk about hanging out and kissing or making out on a frequent basis as well. however, that is not just recent I was doing that long before I even met my boyfriend.
The second guy, I have been sleeping with on a regular basis since about the end of October, however I havn't since I got with my boyfriend, but I have also failed to tell him about my boyfriend. Except I don't want him to be devastated because I am dating someone else, he is the last person in the world that I want upset or mad at me. He is my best friend, my savior when I need it. However, we weren't in a relationship, didn't have labels, or any form of ties keeping us together. Except I am now seeing that I think I developed real, raw, strong feelings for him.
I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt anyone. If you could help me out I would appreciate it so so much.
Thanks in advance for anyone who helps or even tries to. Because I know if I can get through this I can work through other problems that I have. So thanks again.
-Rachael

Wow thats tough. But lets get to the point, so you met your boyfriend three days ago.... you barely know him then dump him, One man down......, and the guy your sleeping with on a daily basis... well I dont mean to be rude but thats wrong, but if you like him as a friend and you brake up with him you may no longer have him as a friend. And the guy you talk to about making out and stuff like that, well, I guess hes your friend ;-), so you have a tie between the boy you sleep with on a daily basis an the guy you flirt with. So whichever one you like better keep.
Love, ~*~***>>>AlYsSa

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Im soo confused I have two problems if you answer them I will rate you good!!

Anyway There is this boy I like named James and I like him alot, but we go to different schools. And last year I went to his school and like I never been inlove with anywun the way I love him. Anyway we have been talking on the computer alot and he told me that he has regretted everything And he never met to hurt me and wants to be with me. But I have a boyfriend we have been with each other a month and a half...I have no clue what to do!! So advice PLEASSEE!!!


*SECOND ADVICE*

My friend katie likes this boy named josh, and everytime she sees him she is like obsessed not with him but his looks. And I already tryed hookin them up and he said he didnt like her like that. So yeah then like after school everydayy we meet up and see each other and now like Josh has the same class so she like power walks infront of him so he can see her. And it pisses me off and then like after he notices her she comes up to me and shes like Stephanie why didnt u wait with me. And im like I dont wanna be talked to by a ditcher. And like she does it everyyydayy now after school. I dont know what the heck to say cause I dont wanna hurt her feelings but I know if she is my friend she will mayb understand. And she also likes this boy at my school named AJ and I always talk to him about Basketball cause he plays on the Basketball team, and she went talkin to this girl and she said something bout me and I went over to Katie and im like Katie I dont like him ok I have a bf. And shes like I dont care blah blahh blahhh but its soo annoying, And sometimes when we are at lunch we all stand up and talk and stuff and like it was cold on friday and she was all feelin on my bf, and she was like commee herreee imm sooo collddd...and hes like umm gett off of me..and I meen I just dont know what to tell her


THANKX FOR READING.....ILL RATE YOU HIGHH IF YOU CAN HELPPP MEEE!!!!!!

Dear x0x COnFUsEd x0x, well for your first question, if you really like this boi you SHOULD do somethin about it... although you have a boifriend. So i think you should decide which boy u like betta. And when you pick for example if you like James better just tell your boifriend your sorry but you like james better. And dump him.
For your second advice, You should probably tell your friend how you feel about her being "obsessed" in the boi she likes. And of course if i were u id probably tell her to try to stay off your boifriend.... :-0
~*~AlYsSa~*~

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