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extremely confused
Sorry for the lengthiness ahead of time.
OK here goes, I am a 16 year old curious teenage girl. I have recently gotten a boyfriend, and this is the first time since about beginning of september. However, I have two other infatuations. And I think about them on a regular basis.
So now I will explain in a little more detail about them:
My boyfriend, I just met him at a concert on January 29th. He is a total sweetheart and a complete cutie.
One of the other guys, I have been talking to him regularly and we flirt which is no biggie, however we do talk about hanging out and kissing or making out on a frequent basis as well. however, that is not just recent I was doing that long before I even met my boyfriend.
The second guy, I have been sleeping with on a regular basis since about the end of October, however I havn't since I got with my boyfriend, but I have also failed to tell him about my boyfriend. Except I don't want him to be devastated because I am dating someone else, he is the last person in the world that I want upset or mad at me. He is my best friend, my savior when I need it. However, we weren't in a relationship, didn't have labels, or any form of ties keeping us together. Except I am now seeing that I think I developed real, raw, strong feelings for him.
I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt anyone. If you could help me out I would appreciate it so so much.
Thanks in advance for anyone who helps or even tries to. Because I know if I can get through this I can work through other problems that I have. So thanks again.
-Rachael
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Wow thats tough. But lets get to the point, so you met your boyfriend three days ago.... you barely know him then dump him, One man down......, and the guy your sleeping with on a daily basis... well I dont mean to be rude but thats wrong, but if you like him as a friend and you brake up with him you may no longer have him as a friend. And the guy you talk to about making out and stuff like that, well, I guess hes your friend ;-), so you have a tie between the boy you sleep with on a daily basis an the guy you flirt with. So whichever one you like better keep.
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Hey Rachael! I think you need to come clean and tell them. If you don't want to openly come out and tell them, maybe try giving them a scenerio. Try saying something like "what would you do if i would get a boyfriend" or something similar to that. After you ask for their opinion, break the news to them gently. Let me know how everything turns out! Good luck! Hope my advice helps!
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you have to think about who you have more real fealings for and theese guys have to know that you have a boyfriend but you need 2 tell them at the appropriate time.if they dont mind you lied to them then you may have your answer.good luck!
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Well forget the guy that you jus talk bout kissing and flirting with.. he jus sounds like a friend you might have a lil crush for and thats it.. and the guy your with well you might like him or what not but you have strong feelings for the guy you had sex with thats not going to go away if its real you know.. um you should talk to the guy thats your savior and see how he feels.. he might not really have feelings cause you guys jus sounded like sex buddies to me.. but see whats up with that.. but i would try to get with that guy and try to be friends with the guy your with now.. and in the future if i was you i would try not to get attached or close to other guys when your with somebody.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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