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Bi?


Question Posted Wednesday February 9 2005, 11:33 pm

I am an 18 female and I find myself being attracted to other girls bodies. Not that i want to go and mess around with them, but i just enjoy looking at beautiful girls. Like most other girls, i don't have a problem kissing other girls and whatnot its really not a big deal depending on who it is. But I'm not sure if just because i'm a girl and i see a beautiful girl if the reason i am attracted is because i want to look like that or if it is because i could be bi? I've never messed around with another girl other then kissing, and i don't really see it happening but its not totally ruled out. Does this mean I am bi? please help

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LadyMacbeth answered Thursday February 17 2005, 9:39 am:
You're not bi, all girls would rather look at pretty girls than the obese and homely members of the same sex... or even the obese and homely members of the opposite sex sometimes... sorry if I don't make too much sense... I think of good explainations, but then when it comes to writing them down...*sigh*

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frootytooty answered Saturday February 12 2005, 11:27 pm:
Hey babe I do the same thing. Your jelous of these hot girls bodies! There skinny and pretty and you just wish you could be like them. Hun i kn,ow how it is if you dont got a prob w/ kissing grl it's no prob not being bi it's just being jelious!
Goodluck
~Maddy~

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xOCarrie answered Saturday February 12 2005, 2:50 pm:
Well I feel exactly the same way except i know im not bi. yeah ive kissed another girl before, what girl hasnt, not really a big deal. and i look at other girls and feel jealousy not attracted. i want to look like them cause there so pretty and i wish i could look like them. if you really dont wanna mess around with another girl then your probablly not bi - you probablly are like me when it comes to seeing another girl and going "woah shes hot, i wish i looked like her"

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shake answered Friday February 11 2005, 8:13 pm:
It means guys will totally dig you

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specialk answered Friday February 11 2005, 4:04 pm:
Totally normal, I'm 18 also and I do it all the time. Girls are a beautiful thing. And the fact that you don't have an interest in going further means you're not bi. Girls that are bi are confused lesbians in denial.. they WANT to have sex with girls. It would be like us looking at guys and fantasizing. Kissing girls is no big deal.. I've done it too and I don't completely rule out a sexual experience with a chick because I like to try everything once, it might be fun. But I would NEVER ever give up guys and if you feel the same way, then you're straight :)

PEACE

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xxsexyinpinkxx answered Thursday February 10 2005, 7:43 pm:
nope not at all! you just want to look like them. i do that too but i don't kiss other girls but i am only 13 your like older and its just a friendly kiss. but trust me your not bi. my mom said some girls are trying to figure out who they are because my friends sister is bi and shes also 18 my mom says shes just trying to find out who she is. so don't worry your not bi.

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BabyBlue848 answered Thursday February 10 2005, 4:23 pm:
no I dont think your Bi I mean lots of girls look at each others butts If you want to be bi you can be but if you dont want to be dont its normal its just like looking at nude woman on the internet or something its not like you bi or a lazbo its jsut you enjoy doing it

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daisy2005 answered Thursday February 10 2005, 3:02 pm:
Hey hun! You know what, i think that all of us girls find ourselves lookin at other girls bodies... mostly to compare them to ours. Whenever i see a pretty girl i look at her and most of the time wish i could have a body like she does!! But that doesn't mean that i'm bisexual, and I dont' think you are either. And i think for the most part a lot of us have had our drunken moments kissing other girls... well at least i have unfortunetly, but thats as far as it goes, and if thats as far as you've gone then i don't think you have a problem!

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ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday February 10 2005, 2:52 pm:
Yes you are.. thats how i was at first.. and still am.. much luv hope i helped

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spohnsara answered Thursday February 10 2005, 12:26 pm:
yes you kosl be bi its not a big del to be like that i have a friend and she fiends it more fun in her life

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girdy_goo15 answered Thursday February 10 2005, 10:25 am:
yes u frikin lezbo

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alisonmarie answered Thursday February 10 2005, 8:59 am:
Being attracted to other girls, feeling that kissing them is natural, and not ruling out the possiblity of being with them does mean that you are probably bisexual.

Girls do look at other girls' bodies - it's part of our culture. Women like to compare how they look to other women. However, when straight women compare themselves to other women they do not experience feelings of attraction.

If you feel a physical attraction to other women, then you could be bisexual or lesbian. Either is fine and completely normal. It's good to keep your mind and heart open and just see what happens.

Best of luck.

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angieroonie answered Thursday February 10 2005, 1:08 am:
all girls look at other girls bodies. within a minute from seeing a girl you have compared her body and looks to yours. this can sometimes be mistaken for being bi. its when you want to touch that body and stuff that your prolly bi.

~ANGE

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LlamaGal answered Thursday February 10 2005, 12:19 am:
No, unless you want to be. No offense to anyone, but i dont think u r "made" bi, you can be whatever you wanna be, it's all up to you.

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bucsbaby6969 answered Wednesday February 9 2005, 11:56 pm:
no u aint bi

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday February 9 2005, 11:53 pm:
No i think your being judgemental towards yourself and you probably want to look like that. Your comparing that could be it. And if you dont plan on doing anything like that then id say there is nothing going on about being bi. I think your just be judgemental on yourself-trix

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