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I'm 19 and my name is sara .s and Im a whit amrekan that cantspel wriet bout my frend thank im cool and i like skary moves and my favrit koler is blak and penk my frend karen ses that se is jullus of me kos im pretyer than her and my parsanlity is beter than hers lataly evary thing that kols go wrong is i just ned a frend to talk to also kos i only have 3 of them and thay are all boys i like to anser questons i koled help

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E-mail: spohnsara@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: caro MI,
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Age: 19
Yahoo: spohnsara@yahoo.com
Member Since: January 18, 2005
Answers: 31
Last Update: February 10, 2005
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I give advice on this site, and yes, I'm also a Wiccan, almost on the verge of being an atheist and lately there has been someone harrassing me about my faith, she has left 2 messages so far in my inbox, about God, and I've given her actual proof about why I don't beleive in God like that. What I wanted to know is, have I been the only one getting messages like that? Thanks.

no i have throw my hole life kos my grama is anonka she owens a wich museam in caro MI,and the howel towen sdos not like her im a atheist and i thank its cool that you are wiccan if you ned help a gen just e male me at spohnsara@yahoo.com

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I am an 18 female and I find myself being attracted to other girls bodies. Not that i want to go and mess around with them, but i just enjoy looking at beautiful girls. Like most other girls, i don't have a problem kissing other girls and whatnot its really not a big deal depending on who it is. But I'm not sure if just because i'm a girl and i see a beautiful girl if the reason i am attracted is because i want to look like that or if it is because i could be bi? I've never messed around with another girl other then kissing, and i don't really see it happening but its not totally ruled out. Does this mean I am bi? please help

yes you kosl be bi its not a big del to be like that i have a friend and she fiends it more fun in her life

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hi honey i miss you to day i just ded this so i kan wriet you

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Okay, this is really odd, and kinda random, but I had an idea the other day. When it's warm enough here to go outside and stay there coatless for hours on end without freezing, I want to grab my boyfriend and do a photoshoot type thing of him. I'm a good photographer, and I have such images and ideas in my head. The only catch is, he won't agree to it unless he can take shots of me...Of course, I'd say okay to this if he didn't want to take them of me nude. Lol.
Now, I hate to admit it, but I really do hate my body. I'm not very comfortable with it, and I don't want any memories of my body...lol. But I'm so utterly determined to get shots of him. I have ideas, and I want to stick with them. I want to see them happen. The thing with him, is he hates his body as much as I hate mine, and is convinced he's not photogenic.
What can I do to convince him to let me do the photoshoot? I just want ideas. I'd appreciate no "lap dance" or anything like that. I'm serious about this, and I'd like ideas as to how to get him to agree or (better yet) want to do this with me.

well you shold not be a shamed of your body kos its somthing that you shold love well you koled do that and tak the piksher wen hes not loking

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ok well i have had a huge crush on this guy, let's call him bob, for awhile now. i have told him this-anonymously- but i can't get myself to talk to him. i tend to be shy around guys, but i'm definitely not hideous looking either. i don't know what to do. any advice??

just weiet them and say hi

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Hey i need some info on teen pregnancy like web sites or hot lines i could call..or even to chat with someone who has been through it !! help me please!

go to www.googel.com and pout in teen pregneabcy
and that miet help you

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they guy i like told me that he likes this girl named Kelsea. Kelsea is a slut and she stuffs her bra and flirts 24/7 with guys AND girls... how can i get him to like me and not her?

well just show hem how nice you are ans if he likes sluts than mabe he is not all gron up yat mabe he is stell a lital boy

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i think that i am pregnant but i don't know! I don't wanna buy a pregnancy test cause i am only 15! I don't wanna go to the doctor because they may tell my parents! If i am pregnant should i abort my baby or just live with it? Please help i am soooo scared!

well if you are you kold pout it up for a adopshen kos ther is a lot of pepal that kant have keds bout wont one and you shold by one so that way you wold know for shore ok kos in 19 and had the sme prblam bout i went and bout one and found out that im not that was wen i was 17 i hop that evary thing well be ok fre you sancarlr sara if you have any more thangs just wriet to me at evan if you just want to talk spohnsara@yahoo.com

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ok well my boyfriend Matt asked me to sneak out at like 1:00am to go to his house because his brother is having a party and his parents are not home. Well i dont no if i should cuz i might get busted cuz its sortof a school tomarrow (delayed opening) . But i really do want to go withim! Plez help!!

p.s im 14

you shold not go kos a lot of bad stuff gold hpen i ent to my bestfiend ans i was droged by on of her frieds and all she did is laf a bout it the next day it was not cool

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Okay....me and my x have been broken up and not talking for about 7 months now....i called him on his b-day and pranked him a few times recently...should i call him and start chatting with him and then be like remember me....I'm your ex and try to get a friendship back up or should i just leave him alone??

live hem a lone.

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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?

shaiina

i have a question to ask you i have tow best frend i live with and she is telling pepal lis a bout me ans she has ben telling me that i dont love my boyfrind ans her boyfrind is myns best frend send 1stgad and she even toold hem that i dont love hem she toled my boy friend that i have ben chiting on hem and she thanks im trying to tak her boy friend from her bout hre bf and i have ben friends for 6y and she sis that im not acool parson how do i tell her that this stuff neds to stop with out geting kect out are making her frek out from spohnsara@yahoo.com

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I have a good friend (Amy), who've been going out with my best guy friend (Jon) for awhile now. Me and Jon do a lot of things together, we're always hanging out. This leads to Amy being jealous of us. Now she's saying we're "together behind closed doors", otherwise, he's cheating on her with me. We both think she's totally crazy, because it's not true at all. She's being super controlling over him. He's not just going to stop hanging out with me, because we've been bestfriends since we were one. He doesn't know what to do, nither do I. He doesn't want to dump her, because he really loves her. But what should we both do to help her realize we're only friends and that's all we'll ever be?

well he kold tell her that you and hem are only frends and if she dos not stop being julis than he will brak up with her than mbe she wll stop

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months, and all we have done is make out. I told him before that i want to do more n he says that he feels the same way. But he never has done nething about it. im ready to have sex like i really love him but i dont know waht to do. Please helpp

-- me

well if you want to do that tan you well have to mak the farst move just toch hem klos to hes p? and mabe he well do samthing and yes you shold tell hem

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Does anyone know how i can find a distance between one place from another like hackensack NJ to garfield NJ?

on a map ther is a dastenc metar like a bonch of nobers that say how fare thay are from are go to www.googel.com and ask and you ken find out

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Well, at the end of the school year, we are having a little "formal" to send off the 8th graders into highschool. My problem is what am I going to wear? Im pretty sure the dress style is formal, but I need help picking my dress/gown/skirt/whatever. Any ideas? Thanks

skir and i coll top

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Hey. Umm well I just started cutting and I don't want to cut my wrists because people will see the marks but where else would you suggest??

i jost to do that bout i stopt try not to plez

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ya my friend all of a sudden ignores me and barely talks to me anymore..and she ditched me and ditches me in the halls..and forgets bout me..and we use to be bffs till xmas break..and then she talked behind my back..what should i do..

well dont talk to her at all if she talk to you just walk a way like you dont even see her and if she trys to talk to you not say anting to her exsapt im sorry bout i dont tolk to pepal i dont know i hop this helps you from spohnsara

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Ok, I go to the tanning beds when I get really pale in the winter and am desperate to get some color back into my face. My only problem is the "tan" (burntness color) that my face gets fades in like 2 days. I wear a little bit of foundation, just a few dots to cover up blemishes and eye makeup but other than that I try not to wear a lot. What can I do to make the tan last? I know so many girls that go to the beds and they are always tan but I can't stay that way like they do.... please helppp

mabe you kan pout som loshen on after are thay have som kied of tanig stuff for you i just dont now wat its caled sorry i kant do more to help you

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My family has always had issues. I've tried to work at fixing them even though my family tells me constantly that its me, not them. We fight over how much work each other does around the house, we fight over who gets to watch what on TV, we fight about almost anything we can think of. I think that everyone in my family has little problems in their lives that they need to work on, but they all seem to think that it's my fault, when I believe all I'm trying to do is help get this family in line because no one else can. Could it all be my fault, or no?

ther is a lot of chojses in this you and your famly can tak a vakashen are you can have a meting like a big sarcil so you all kan talk a bout wat thay and you fill bout youall cant get maed youll just ned to make shanges

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my boyfriend cheated on me with another girl .. we have been goin out for 2 1/2 monthes now .. he says he loves me, but i dont see how you can cheat on somebody you love. he didnt have sex with the other gurl, but they kissed. so i then broke up with him and that same day i broke up with him he kissed another girl .. im so confused. should i stay with him ? i mean we are both only 15 years old . so maybe it was just hormones. but do you think he loves me. he treats me really good, hes boughten me a gold ring and big teddy bear when i was sick he

he is stell just a boy he dos not now woet he is missing yes you sholed brak up with hem you and mabe wen he grows up he maiet have the shanc to be with you you are so moch more macher than he is

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