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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months, and all we have done is make out. I told him before that i want to do more n he says that he feels the same way. But he never has done nething about it. im ready to have sex like i really love him but i dont know waht to do. Please helpp
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Go 4 it babe!!!
Just ask him tomorrow or bring it up in convosation. us girls are great at throwing hints! jus make sure you use a condom (lolz, i probz sound like ur mother). All guys want sex, ur man wont be much different. it makes up 99% of their brain power!
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well if you want to do that tan you well have to mak the farst move just toch hem klos to hes p? and mabe he well do samthing and yes you shold tell hem
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aight u are mad young to be havin sex... but if it happens then it does!! dont push it.. and if your not ready DONT DO IT.... wait until the time is right .. because alot of gurls think sex is just sex but it aint... u can get diseases and pregnant.. just wait your time will come... .. just chill ..
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This is a tough one, well if it makes you feel any better me and mine first did it at around 4 monthes into the relationship. I was 14 and he was well...older, im 18 now and we are still together
YUP 4 YEARS LATER. We plan on having a family and getting married soon, we love each other more the life itself and we've both proven that to each other on many occansions. You are young, yes, but listen to your head. What does it tell you, really think about doing this before you do it. Ask your self coudl you love him forever? could you see yourself with him forever? what are his future plans? is he thinking about moving away to a college somewere to a far away place were it would makes things hard on your relationship? I say if you really feel this way then go with it. I did it and we still together, but we are just lucky i guess.
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You are just too young for sex. I promise, there are alot of issues that come with sex that a 14 or 15 year old is really not ready for. I lost my virginity at 18 years old...And I realize now that I wasn't prepared for it then. It is such an emotional attactment for girls and for boys it's just banging another girl. The emotional baggage means nothing to them. Wait until you know you are ready! I mean really know. Wait for the perfect guy that deserves to have your virginity... I know you love this boy, but just think it through. Sex is a BIG deal. It should be one perfect time with the one perfect guy..Just think about it.
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Dont have sex anything else but that that is something you think you may be ready for but you arent so i wouold just hold that off until you are older and you are more sure on the relationship after all you are only 14 and still young and you have only been going out 4 months-trix
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Hey, well, you're ready, but what if he's really not? He may say he is,but i think you should talk more w/him about this.
Boys usually would jump at this chance, and he's not, so something could really be wrong. Try to make a move on him maybe... if he refuses, ask him why because you've been ready.
hope i helped any:)
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p4th3t1c. and disgusting.
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hi i am xo sherry's ox's older sister and i read your question and i just had to answer. please dont think that i am some old lady trying to preach to you because i am not. i am 20 years old and have been through all the regular high school drama with guys and trust me you dont want to have sex with someone your not 100% sure about. especailly at such a young age and 4 months is not enough time to know. TRUST ME YOU WILL REGRET IT because you are going to grow so much and look back at yourself and laugh because later on you will realize, what was i thinking. its not that i dont think you dont love him, you might but are you in love? who can be sure when you at such a young age. you have years ahead of you to find a guy that you will be sure about and you will know who it is because at that time you wont need to ask for advice. you will just know. if he is the same age as you then he is probably not ready either, or he would have tried it. but the bottom line is that it is your choice but you have to remember that you cant undo losing your virginity. are you going to be ok with knowing that this was the guy you did it with first. those are the questions you have to ask yourself. be safe and good luck
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