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my boyfriend cheated on me with another girl .. we have been goin out for 2 1/2 monthes now .. he says he loves me, but i dont see how you can cheat on somebody you love. he didnt have sex with the other gurl, but they kissed. so i then broke up with him and that same day i broke up with him he kissed another girl .. im so confused. should i stay with him ? i mean we are both only 15 years old . so maybe it was just hormones. but do you think he loves me. he treats me really good, hes boughten me a gold ring and big teddy bear when i was sick he
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Don't believe him! First off, you generally can't love someone you've only been dating for 2 and a half months, especially if you're a guy - no offence guys, but most of you are scared of your feelings are years of being with someone! :P
You're right, if you love someone, you don't cheat on them. A ring and a teddy bear don't mean anything...they could just be bribes to get you to stay with him. Please don't waste your life with this guy - he's obviously using you (you say he kissed another girl the same DAY you broke up? That's just plain mean), and you should get out of it now when it'll be easy-ish, compared to three or four months down the line when you won't want to let him go.I know it's probably hard to see from an insiders point of view, but it sounds like this guy is using you.
Get out of this relationship and go find someone you can trust and who you'll be really happy with!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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You can believe him or not, but I would not go back to him. He cheated on you. Fifteen or fifty, that's not cool, and if you go back out with him, it sends the message that it's okay to cheat on you, and if you're like most girls I know, that's not okay with you. (Obviously it isn't, as you broke up with him for cheating on you the first time.) This guy obviously does not know the meaning of the word "love" if he says he loves you but kisses someone else. Hormones are no excuse whatsoever for cheating. I mean, my guy has hormones, and he's never even thought about cheating on me. It is possible to be a teenage guy and not cheat on your girlfriend. As far as you should be concerned, he already lost you when he cheated on you. You don't want a guy who will act like you're special on the outside, but go and cheat on you. That's just not right. Never stay with a guy that cheats. He needs to learn that it's not right, and if that means losing you, so be it. This may cause a little pain on your part, but isn't the pain of knowing that he cheated worse? Weigh your choices, and make your decision. I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Look, once a cheater always a cheater. You will hear this saying a lot throughout your life. If you go back out with him, you are sending the message to yourself as well as to other guys that hey we can cheat on her, and as long as we buy her a diamond ring, and treat her nice, and say I love you, then she will take us back. This is a viciouse cycle that unfortunatly many girls go through many times. Dont be a victim of a guy that cheats, because in the end you will loose your self worth. I hope I have helped.
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Well i guess i wouldnt believe him..cause that messed up he did that..your young dont trip over somebody like that and treats ya like that...~*DEZ*~
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i think if a guy cheats on you he really dosn't love you if he did he would have a relationship with you an only you!! i would never give him another chance!!
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You can't really ask a total stranger if you should believe him or not. What you should do is talk to him. I'm sure he does care about you and has strong feelings for you. But if your going to be together, he shouldn't be kissing other people. He did it once, it's okay..But if he does it twice, don't take him back because he'll keep doing it, thinking you always going to take him back. This relationship can work. You two have to have a talk and start all over fresh and new. Remember though, a relationship will never work out if there's no trust. Tell him that!
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no dont go back out with him. because then he'll see that if he can get away with it once...he might do it again. I know its an extremely hard choice to make but dont go back out with him. xO ali
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I think that if you respect yourself and want a relationshpi with someone who is committed to you, then this guy probably isn't the right one.
Hormones are no excuse for kissing other people. Being in a relationship means that no matter the hormones, no matter how attracted he is to someone, no matter if you just had a fight - he should not be messing around with other girls.
Like you said, you're only 15. You have plenty of time to find a respectful guy that makes you feel secure in a relationship. Don't settle for less than you deserve.
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don't get back with him. he may really care for you and stuff but he obviously doesn't care enough to treat you how you deserve to be treated. your only 15 try and find someone else you'll find someone who would treat you right this asshole obivously isn't.
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he is stell just a boy he dos not now woet he is missing yes you sholed brak up with hem you and mabe wen he grows up he maiet have the shanc to be with you you are so moch more macher than he is
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well i was put through the same situation in a way!!! my bf didnt cheat on me but he left me 4 another girl. now we r getting back together and right now we are really happy!!! if you r in love with him then go 4 it but try not 2 get hurt!!! but..... make sure he is really serious about being with you bacuse if he isnt then there is some1 out there WAY better then him!!!!
i hope i have helped!!
good luck,
megan
ps email me and tell me it works out!!!!
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