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well im goin out with this guy my mom hates and i mean she really hates him.... and she wants me to stop seeing him but i told her no and i got into this big fight with my mom but i really like this guy but my mom thinks hes not right for me.......what should i do??? ive already tired telling her how i feel about this guy but she wont listen
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She needs to understand that there will be alot of guys out there that arent right for you and thats how you are going to find out who is right for you by dating around. simple as that and everyone knows that and if they dont then they should-trix
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If your mom's uncomfortable with your guy, I suggest you let HIM talk to her (maybe even without you around) and let her find out how much he cares about you. Or, if you don't want to do that, arrange for you and your mom and your guy to go out to lunch sometime and have a get-to-know-you session. Does she even know him?When my dad didn't know and was a little uncomfortable with my boyfriend, I dragged my boyfriend and my dad along with my mom and me to a chinese restaurant for dinner sometime, and let them all talk and get to know each other and stuff. It worked like a charm. Her problem might be that she doesn't see how much he cares about you, if she never sees you together. That was my mom's problem, until I dragged my boy over to my house for dinner one day and she saw us together and all that. Let your boyfriend get to know your mom, and it might change her mind. I hope this helps, good luck!
-Siren =)
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have the two of them meet and/ or with his parents too
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i think you should show your mom that he is realy a nice guy!! if you like him that much then tell her she should give him a chance!! but don't ruin your relationship with your mom over a g uy!! no man is worth that much!!
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You should do a dinner thing and let them get to know eachother a little better. Even though you may think he's the world, mom is a step back and may see something you don't. A mom's experience is invaluable and you'll probably see whatever it is that she doesn't like about him, about 5 years from now.
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Try to keep the good in this. As it was already said, invite him over for dinner..yeah it will be awkward for him and your mom at first..but eventually everything will be calm...get them talking about things they both have in common,i guess..like bring out the good in your boyfriend..if your mom doesnt agree to letting him over for dinner..tell her 'Mom, you have to trust me on this one" ...or 'You're the one that raised me, and you did a good job,I wouldnt bring someone over that you wouldnt approve of"..something like that.
Good luck
-Christine
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i know just how you fell my dad was like that its relly hared to get them to under stand you try to show her all the cool things a bout hem are have hem get her som roses are som kind of flower mabe that miet help
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well i think that you should tell your mom that you are going to c this guy!!! you could maybe try this..... ask your mom if your bf can come over for dinner one night and maybe you guys can all talk or somethn like that!
i hope that i helped
good luck!!!
megan
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Shoot her.. then shoot yourselves.. the world would be a lot less painful without you in it!
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Try to sit down and talk rationally with your mom about this - find out exactly what it is that she doesn't like. Tell her exactly what it is that you do like. See if she's willing to at least hear you out, so long as you'd be willing to hear what she has to say. You might find out that he's not the issue at all, and that the issue is really between you and your mom - as in, she might be more worried about you growing up than she is about him.
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