Question Posted Wednesday January 19 2005, 9:27 pm
ya my friend all of a sudden ignores me and barely talks to me anymore..and she ditched me and ditches me in the halls..and forgets bout me..and we use to be bffs till xmas break..and then she talked behind my back..what should i do..
Sp0iLeD_SheDeViL answered Thursday January 20 2005, 8:05 pm: Talk to her about it.And don't let her off the hook easily.My ex-best friend did that too, and i realized there are SOOO many other people out there to be friends with, why waste your time with someone like that? [ Sp0iLeD_SheDeViL's advice column | Ask Sp0iLeD_SheDeViL A Question ]
JadedinNowhere answered Thursday January 20 2005, 4:43 pm: If your friend is being like this, maybe she is trying to send you some sort of message? It's possible she doesn't want to be friends anymore, and really I don't think it's good to want to be friends with someone when they don't with you. That never works out. If your friend is really your friend they'll come around for you. [ JadedinNowhere's advice column | Ask JadedinNowhere A Question ]
ballerina04 answered Thursday January 20 2005, 3:13 pm: don't bother with her! a real friend won't treat you badly or talk behind your back.
however, if you feel the relationship is worth salvaging,you both need to sit down and talk about what happenened. good luck! send me something if you need more help! ♥ [ ballerina04's advice column | Ask ballerina04 A Question ]
jodie_272 answered Thursday January 20 2005, 1:29 pm: forget her! who needs enemies when you've got friends like that. if you cant just leave her and go nd hang arounds with sum new peeps then you can speak two her. But if she spoke behind ur back once she can do it again! [ jodie_272's advice column | Ask jodie_272 A Question ]
spohnsara answered Thursday January 20 2005, 12:36 pm: well dont talk to her at all if she talk to you just walk a way like you dont even see her and if she trys to talk to you not say anting to her exsapt im sorry bout i dont tolk to pepal i dont know i hop this helps you from spohnsara [ spohnsara's advice column | Ask spohnsara A Question ]
beautifulstory answered Thursday January 20 2005, 11:58 am: you need to talk to her about it, and see what's going on. if she really doesn't see you as a friend anymore, then it's no fun being in a friendship when the other person doesn't want to be your friend. if she does still want to be your friend, tell her you've been questioning what's been going on, and tell her she should be more friendly if she still wants to be your friend. [ beautifulstory's advice column | Ask beautifulstory A Question ]
DrummeR4LifE answered Thursday January 20 2005, 12:07 am: Well try to talk to her... thats about all i can say, but shes probably trying to become popular (unless she is already) or maybe she doesnt wanna hang with you ne more...
I had a friend do that to me last year and i just got over it... theres better friends out there, but i do hope that you guys get back as bff! Good Luck and hope everything works out with her.
Natily- [ DrummeR4LifE's advice column | Ask DrummeR4LifE A Question ]
Allie1 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 11:02 pm: Honestly make her talk to you and at least explain why she acting so chidish. Why was she talking about you? Part of this is just being a teenager, she will outgrow all of this jeuvenile stuff. But in the mean time aither try to talk to her in a very honest conversation and see how that goes. If not well, ditch her for some nicer, a little more mature group of girls. Life is to short to deal with all that jr. high-high school crap. take control of the situation. [ Allie1's advice column | Ask Allie1 A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 10:58 pm: u just need to talk to her about this. Its hard to go thru this exspeacially when it was with a best friend. just talk to her and see whats going on and if you did anything before you do talk to her think back if you did anything and if u did anything then make sure you concentrate on that and apologrize and see if u can do anything to make it up i hope everything works out!!-trixxie [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
lildiamyn_69 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 10:53 pm: Sorry:(, but if she talked behind your back and seems to be moving on now, then there's no doubt that it's your turn to leave too. Maybe she caught a "growth spurt" and is growing apart from you- and talked behind your back, so you could get the message. dont worry. hope i helped. [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
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