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Photoshoots?
Okay, this is really odd, and kinda random, but I had an idea the other day. When it's warm enough here to go outside and stay there coatless for hours on end without freezing, I want to grab my boyfriend and do a photoshoot type thing of him. I'm a good photographer, and I have such images and ideas in my head. The only catch is, he won't agree to it unless he can take shots of me...Of course, I'd say okay to this if he didn't want to take them of me nude. Lol.
Now, I hate to admit it, but I really do hate my body. I'm not very comfortable with it, and I don't want any memories of my body...lol. But I'm so utterly determined to get shots of him. I have ideas, and I want to stick with them. I want to see them happen. The thing with him, is he hates his body as much as I hate mine, and is convinced he's not photogenic.
What can I do to convince him to let me do the photoshoot? I just want ideas. I'd appreciate no "lap dance" or anything like that. I'm serious about this, and I'd like ideas as to how to get him to agree or (better yet) want to do this with me.
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well you didnt give very much info. because I have a question. Are you trying to take them of him nude? If you are then you should realize that if you are not feeling comfortable with him taking pictures of you nude then you cant expect him to agree to you taking his pictures.he might not feel comfortable with it either. if they arent nude then hes just being stupid,you should think of something to make him agree to you taking his pictures like a day trip to wherever he wants like if you live somewhere near a beach or the mountains or someplace fun, your treat or just ask him what he wants in return for the pictures but dont let it be degrading you shouldnt be selling yourself to a boyfriends who wants your nude pictures for his clothed pictures
MY ADVICE: think fair about it,ask him what he wants in return, and dont let it be degrading(like that lap dance thing)
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Do u want to take pictures of him naked? If you don't then I think he's just trying to get something out of it. If he has clothes on then you can't see his body right? Sounds like he's overreacting, just ask him a couple more times and tell him he can get pics of you, just not naked. If he doesn't agree then you could borrow a friend and take pics of him. Good luck!
lyds*
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hes already agreed. all you gotta do is let him take pics of you too. all,well95% of girls are insecure about their body you have nothing to be worried about.
im glad you liked my advice, can i be there lol?
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well you shold not be a shamed of your body kos its somthing that you shold love well you koled do that and tak the piksher wen hes not loking
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First of all if you are not happy with yourself, how is your boyfriend going to trust you to be happy with himself. If you are comfortable being around him and with him then he sees you in a whole different light. The concern you have about your body makes him question his concerns about himself. Be happy for who you are and what you have with him because as soon as he sees that positve attitude it will rub off and you two can take as many pictures as you want and appreciate what you have with each other.
Okay, you are happy with your boyfriend and he is happy with you. Tell him this is something you really want to express your love for him. Let him know you are doing this for him as much as for you.
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Well maybe you both could talk it out and go work out together for like 2 months at the gym or until the time it gets warm out. And you will see results and start to like you bodies better. -trix
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Tell him about your ideas. Give him some confidence by telling him that his body is perfectly normal and you love him so much { or like him if u didnt like get into the whole loveydovey thing}. Good Luck.
~Brina~
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Ok well I am 14 and I guess comming from a 14 year old I don't know if you will take my advice serioulsly(the pics of him are not nude right) but what I think you should do is just tell him how much it would mean to you if he let you take pictures of him and that you wont let any one see them(if they come out bad)and also tell him that since you don't wanna take pics nude you will take pics like modeling and posing for him or something... well hope I helped... rate me...
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