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fat?
my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?
shaiina
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your " best friend " doesnt sound like a best friend or even a friend she sounds like a bitch...you deff. shouldnt be friends with someone who calls you fat...never let anybody push you down or walk all over you...talk to er and ask her why se calls you fat...try to have a serious convo. with her about it and if she doesnt stop or makes you feel bad about yourself then tell her you dont want to be friends anymore..nobody should have to deal with that for anybody....hope i helped..
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i have a question to ask you i have tow best frend i live with and she is telling pepal lis a bout me ans she has ben telling me that i dont love my boyfrind ans her boyfrind is myns best frend send 1stgad and she even toold hem that i dont love hem she toled my boy friend that i have ben chiting on hem and she thanks im trying to tak her boy friend from her bout hre bf and i have ben friends for 6y and she sis that im not acool parson how do i tell her that this stuff neds to stop with out geting kect out are making her frek out from spohnsara@yahoo.com
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just tell her shaiina that is all you can do you just got to talk to her about it and let her know that it hurts you and that you dont want her to call you fat because that really damage someone-trix
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well, if she is your best friend then she shouldn't be calling you fat in the first place. she probable is just jealous. tell her that if she is going to be rude like that, then ya'll shouldn't be friends. maybe if you tell her how you feel about her calling you names then she will stop.
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Sounds like a good best friend! haha Talk to her and tell her what's up and how it hurt's you when she says those things. Maybe she's just jokin' wit ya'?? If not, then find a new friend.
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ok my advice is to sit down and say why do you keep callin me fat?? and see what her problem is !! dont belive her that she says that your fat !! and if she was such a good friend she wouldnt call you fat !! maybe she calls you that because shes jelouse of you !! i dotn know but i hope i helped some !! thanks for your question !!
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tell her how you feel if she takes it the wrong way you shouldnt be with a friend that calls you fat
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Tell her that if she doesn't stop it, she can say bye bye to your friendship. You seriously do not need friends who call you fat!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Look life is difficult enough without people calling us names on a regular basis. Get rid of her. She is a human being just like you. She obviously has something going on in her life that is making her feel low self esteem. She makes fun of you to elivate herself and feel better about herself. With that being said I wouldn't judge her as a bad person, just somebody who is sick inside and expresses it this way. However, that has nothing to do with what you need to do. You need to feel good about yourself as well and it'll be difficult to feel that way with your "bestfriend" as you call her, making fun of you all the time. It's time to make a new best friend. I would sit down with her and explain calmly and nicely that she hurts your feelings when she says these mean hatefull things to you and that you're trying to get rid of the bad elements in your life so you think it's best if you guys don't hang out anymore. I think if you do it that way it'll be a big shock to her. I also think she'll probably stop calling you names whenever you see her around. Just a thought. That's my advice.
John
(bobcohen5309@yahoo.com)
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you should make a comeback like more to love of just tell her she jeolious because your probely popular and shes not or you could be nice and be like how come you say i am fat. you probely just need a new best friend.and she is probely fat and jeolious like you said.
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if hes calling you fat you should dump him cause if hes saying that he must want you to lose wait and you should be happy wat uyou way
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shes not really your bestfriend if she calls you fat! is she thats just mean even if you are a bit big which i dought that i bet your very pretty and slim a best mate should support you and respect you
for who you are not what you look like tell her that what she says upsets you and if she doesnt stop it then you can be friends with her again please rate roxie xxxx
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Tell the girl to shut the hell up...Eazy as that hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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tell that fat ass to get lost cuz u can do so much better!
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maybe your friends are just nice.. maybe ur best friend is trying to tell you the truth so you can fix it. remember that thats what best friends are for to help you with things like that things you need to change.. maybe she is just jealous.. but tell her it bothers you that ur calling her fat.. she might get mad at you for saying that but at least she stops.
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Tell her you don't appreciate her calling you fat. Explain that it hurts your feelings, and you want her to stop.
This should be enough to make her stop - if it isn't, you'll want to rethink your friendship. Friends are supposed to lift us up and support us, not make us feel bad about ourselves.
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your best friend calls you fat? tell her shes rude and she better stop or u wont talk to her xO ali
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She sounds like a typical girl. Talk to her, tell her that it hurts,..if you want to do it the civilized way..but if you want to prove that your not fat without saying anything..let her try on your clothes..or go shopping with her..try something on, and if it fits..make her wear the same exact clothing in the same exact size just to prove a point..
-Christine
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first, ask her why she calls you fat, you dont need to do the emotional thing just tell her to stop because it's annoying and if she doesn't then call her a fatty or a hefer she probaley is jealous and theres nothing you can do about that.
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She probably is jealous, but that's no excuse! I think that taking a break from your "best friend" is in order. Best friends never put eachother down! Maybe she will learn some manners if you have a little distance from her. Good luck shiina
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just tell her that it hurts your feelings....just dont listen to her either.... she will prob. stop if u tell her. please rate!
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