I know this sounds stupid but here it goes..THere is this guy at our school that FLIRTS with all the girls, but he flirts with me the most and all the girls say so to. I really like him too. He always plays footsie ne and like he always drinks out the same cup as me and then he is like oh sorry but I can tell he does it on perpose and he tries to hold my hand. THe only thing is we are not going out, and this has been going on for about 2 months and I just cant stand it why wont he as kme plz type back
NaZy answered Saturday January 29 2005, 10:01 pm: talk to him about it. maybe he won't ask you out because he's confused and doesn't know if you like him just as much as he likes you! *MuCh lOvE*nazY! [ NaZy's advice column | Ask NaZy A Question ]
dragonlover15 answered Saturday January 29 2005, 12:39 pm: well why wont you ask him out he is probily to shy to ask you out see i flirt with my friends and i am shy so maby that is his problem he is waiting for you maby get out there take a chance whats the worst that could happen [ dragonlover15's advice column | Ask dragonlover15 A Question ]
Claire15 answered Saturday January 29 2005, 10:46 am: Maybe he is a little shy when it actually comes down to asking people out. Why don't you try to be brave and ask him out yourself? If he has flirted with you this much then there is not much of a chance that he will say no. However if he does say no then he has been completely using you and isn't worth your time or tears. Go for it girl!! Good luck
advice_all_star answered Friday January 28 2005, 11:20 pm: dera i rate good,
maybe he's not alowd 2 go out yet or maybe if he asks you out he won't know what 2 say to all the other girls at your scool. if this never happens,well,..... ASK HIM OUT! not in a meen way. he could just be scared. but if he never asks u out i don't know what 2 say unless u want to stay intouch with him and AIM him and talk 2 him on the phone. Bye! [ advice_all_star's advice column | Ask advice_all_star A Question ]
Toca_says answered Friday January 28 2005, 10:55 pm: wow...it's so obvious this kid likes you.. maybe he's just shy.. i think he's probably trying to get you jealous when he flirts with other girls... maybe?? idk... but anyways... try to drop little hints that you like him back... if it doesn't work then just go for it and ask him out... hope i helped =) [ Toca_says's advice column | Ask Toca_says A Question ]
4thofjuly answered Friday January 28 2005, 10:46 pm: ok...why dont you ask him out. i no it sounds kinda weird for a gurl to ask a guy out...but. or just enjoy your flirting wiht each ohter...good lucl=k [ 4thofjuly's advice column | Ask 4thofjuly A Question ]
SunShineAngel3 answered Friday January 28 2005, 10:33 pm: well it sounds to me that he likes you,and maybe he just does those things to see if you leave hints that you like him back like flirt back and stuff like that ya know? so i say talk to him and say how come you do this with me and not her and things like that [ SunShineAngel3's advice column | Ask SunShineAngel3 A Question ]
So you've got the hots for a flirtatious cutie? Just how and how much does this boy flirt with other girls? Has he had many, or any girl friends at all?
Sorry to say, but he may just be a player. This boy may just like the thrill of the chase. Many boys are like this, as Im sure you already know. He just doesnt sound like the committing type.
Besides, imagine if you were to see this boy on a romantic level. Do you think you could ever completely trust him around other females? Considering he is already a flirtatious beast, do you really think he's going to stay faithful to you and not continue his natural way? Take what you already know about him and imagine your relationship. Doesnt look too bright does it?
Take my advice, seek a boy who only has eyes for you. Eyes that wonder never stop wondering.
CrayolaJenn210 answered Friday January 28 2005, 10:26 pm: Aww, that is so cute. I wish a guy would treat me like that. Well you should ask him if you really like him. Be bold, if he likes you I guess you really are sure he does. You should sort of try to let him know, secretivly if you really want to. Have fun with this!! IM me if you want to, I can help more.
Ryan_10 answered Friday January 28 2005, 10:22 pm: Well hes probably nervouse. All boys are. You should juust go up to him and ask hey lets call him tim so you go up to him and say hey tim i was just woundering do u like me or do u just like me as a friend. He'll respond [ Ryan_10's advice column | Ask Ryan_10 A Question ]
s3xylilang3hl answered Friday January 28 2005, 9:48 pm: For the most part i think he's kinda of a playa, but since you like this guy... you should ask him out, and i know its hard for a girl to ask a guy out but it shows that you like him. [ s3xylilang3hl's advice column | Ask s3xylilang3hl A Question ]
Drama_Secretary answered Friday January 28 2005, 9:41 pm: Alright I have noticed when guys flirt alot they tend to not ask out girls. Maybe he enjoys flirting with other girls and he's afraid that if he gets tied down he won't be able to. Or he could just be shy. But if you are so concerned about him not asking you out maybe you should ask him out. This is the 21st century. Guys like it when a girl asks them, it also makes it harder for them to say no, especially if you are good friends. So ask him out if you really want to go out. [ Drama_Secretary's advice column | Ask Drama_Secretary A Question ]
MummuM answered Friday January 28 2005, 9:30 pm: He could be too shy to tell you that he actually does like you. Drop him some hints and flirt more then you usually do, maybe he'll get the hint. If he doesn't, tell him you like him, make the first move! Maybe you chould ask him to a movie sometime then see where it goes from there.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
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