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Liking a boy who is your friend.
Well,there's a boy I like and my feelings are so deep for him,and he is my friend.But I don't know how to tell him or should I tell him,because he has a girlfriend.So how can I tell him and what should I say?
I am a female,
and I'm 14
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well tell him how much you like him and let him no that youll always be here for him , as his friend or sooner - his girlfriend and that you love him =)
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo
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awww! you should go get him! tell him privately how you feel about him. maybe like at a party or new years eve party like right when it turns new years and the big ball in new york drops! awh! that'd so soo romantic! you should really just tell him that you like him more that a friend and find a way to say how much you like him. from the additional info it sounds like you love him! you have to take a chance even if he has a girlfriend. good luck~
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yea u shud wait till they break up.. then tell him how u fel.. and from wut uve sed.. he'll pbly sday he feels the same way,.,, GOOD LUCK! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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I think that you should wait until him and his grilfriend break up, but if you cant wait for that you should definitely tell him. Who knows, maybe he will dump that girl and go out with you..
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Ok, i really thhink you should tell him. But dont persue it..like hit on him or hook up with him..because he has a gf. Just say " i had to get it out.." or something...Its up to him to decide if he wants to break up with his gf or not. I hope everything works out. Just keep being his friend..become a closer friend...
-melissa
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You definitely have to tell this guy how you feel about him. Since you probably can't do this is person, why don't you write him a letter or call him up? You never know, he may have the same feelings for you, since he's the one who kissed you. You never know what can happen unless you talk to him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I had a friend who had this exact same problem a few days ago.And I am gonna tell you the exact same thing I told her.TELL HIM!Depending on how serious their relationship is you can truly change it.In my friend's case the guy she had feelings for was just celebrating his one year anniversary with his girlfriend.So things didn't exactly change.But she felt better about it and now he knows.Which could happen for you too.So next time your alone with your friend.Simply say "________ I like you as more than a friend." And in his little, pea sized boy brain he can take some of the following approaches.#1-He ditches his girlfriend for you.#2-He likes you too,but he likes his girlfriend more.So they don't break up.#3-He completely avoids you now that he knows you like him.#4-He doesn't do a damn thing.He just accepts that you like him.Of course everyone wants the fairy tale ending of #1.But in the addition information you mentioned that you two kissed.Strong hint that he might have feelings for you too.Be careful.Stay truthful.And watch how things turn out in the end.
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Wow...this sounds like something EXACT that happened to me...I liked this guy for 2 years..i basically stalked the boy..so i can tell you one thing..do not start doing that because you 2 wont turn out to be friends any more...but i think you should pull him aside and tell him before he finds out from some one else...then he deffinatly will take it the wrong way...but all i can say is tell him in person...and he probably wont care...but the best thing is to tell him..who knows unlike me..he could like you back...
-Jenn-
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The best thing to do is to tell him how you feel, whether you want to or not, who knows? maybe he has feelings for you too. But you will never know until you tell him, hearts are broken by words left unspoken, good quote. Tell him how you feel, be casual about it, tell him that you really hope it doesnt ruin your friendship. Hope I helped, good luck, keep me posted. -Angel
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Tell him.. unless u think it would freak him out
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unexpectdidly just go up to him and tell him then kiss him and walk away until he stops you!!!!
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Well, I think you should do what your heart tells you. I was friends with a guy for a long time. I told him I liked him and now we are dating. I mean, I know he has a girlfriend, but if you guys are as good of friends as you say you are, he shouldn't get upset with you or ignore you. I am not saying he will respond the same, but don't get down on yourself if he doesn't. Best of luck,
~*~ Alyssa ~*~
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i think u should show him your and tells him that u will make love to him if he goes out with you
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the best way to do that is just to plain out and tell him. be honest with him, be comfortable telling him. maybe he has feelings for you too but wont say it because hes afraid itll ruin your friendship, so just tell him how you feel about him and im sure things will be great! x0
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