~*~ Lotta bout me ~*~ I can answer questions on love life, family life, music, and so many other thing. Please ask me. I have a BF so I can help there. I have a few family probs that I have worked through so I can help you. Ask Alyssa!! ~*~ Mwa :-*
E-mail: queenofboya2005@sbcglobal.net
Gender: Female
Location: Missouri
Occupation: I am a Drama queen
Age: 13
Yahoo: queenofboya2005@sbcglobal.net
Member Since: December 27, 2004
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You never dated him he was your online boyfriend
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OK Kelly get off my case Allright? I know you dont like me but consider this: You never dated him anywayz, He was just your online BF too. Sorry if this isn't Kelly but I have a good feeling it is
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Ron? (link)
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No his name isn't Ron. I've dated a Ron but that isn't my current BF's name. Who is this?
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Hey what is your boyfriends name? (link)
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Why do you ask? I am not going to say his name because it is my business and mine alone.
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Hello. Um, I have a problem with this guy who lives in my neighborhood. Everyday he harasses me sexually. I've tried telling the police, but they said without hard evidence they couldn't do anything. I'm sort of a feminist, so something like this shouldn't be a problem for me. But, I'm too afraid to tell my friends or family. I'm 16 and he's like, 25. So, I know it's illegal.
What should I do? (link)
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Well, since you are a minor, tell a local athouristy figure other than the police. Tell some one who you KNOW can do something
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me and this guy "B" went out 4 a year. he then went 2 a different school, and now starting high school, we go to the same one. were talking again...were eachothers 1st loves...except we didnt lose it wit each other. when we broke up he got with someother girl and they ended up doing it a few times. but when this school year started we have been talking alot laytlee...and well do u think it'll b weird if i lost it with him?! (link)
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Well, no. Not if you guys still have these strong feelings for each other. But I wouldn't suggest have sex until you guys get back together. Unless you guys don't want to ruin ne thing, u kno.. ~*~ LOL
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Ok heres the story,Christmas day is when everything started...my whole family cept for me started fighting, my brother and his friend was over here and my mom started in on my brother and my brother ended up cutting his wrist, blood was running down his arm, i also cut myself that day because i was upset with everything thats been happeneing lately, when i cut my arm i blacked out, and well the story goes on, yesterday and today my parents have been fighting and i mean seriously fighting, my brother and his friend left yesterday and got one of their friends to come and pick them up and after they left my parents started fighting and have been fighting all day today and i cant take it no more, they were fighting so bad my mom was hitting my dad they spit on eachother, one of em pushed the other into the christmas tree and it broke at the bottom and everything on it droped on the floor and broked as well, and they wont stop fighting, i tell them to stop and they wont...they wont listen to me, i told them maybe they do need to get a divorce if they're gonna fight this much because there aint no sence in em being together if they are gonna fight 24/7 and i dont know what to do i cant take it anymore, i wanna get out of here but i have no where to go, no one wants me, and i have no one to talk to about any of i because i have no friends and i dont know what to do...the thoughts of my running away crossed my mind but i wouldnt have anywhere to go and its to cold outside to run away...so if anyone has any advice to give me please do...i need all the advice i can get, sorry this is so long, Thanks to who ever takes the time to read this and send me their thoughts. (link)
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OK, I don't know how much this will help you, but if you can get the phone and a phone book. Try calling a relationship counsler for your mom and dad. I know this may be drastic but if the fighting goes on too much longer, I'd suggest calling the police and getting them to come over and get them to quit or even if you have a grandparent or an aunt or a family member. Call them and ask them to come get you. I have been in this situation. My brother and myself went to my grandma's house for at least 1/2 of the summer and when we went back they had sorted things out. If need be see if you can move in with an Aunt/Uncle/Grandparent so you can get out of that house b/c it sounds like you need to. ~*~ Lots of Luv~*~ Alyssa
P.S Good Luck and PLease please please tell me if I helped you. I hope I did.
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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary. (link)
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Well, you have one friend which Is a good start. You don't have to be friends with people who are JUST in your classes. You can be friends with other people. Join sports, clubs, comitees, these activities all have different people who you could be friends with. Just keep a positvie attitude. By the way, about thet 'rich girls', things arent always what they appear ~*~ Best OF Luck, Alyssa ~*~
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my brother and i used to be extrmely close even though he is 14 yrs older than me. but after he found "the love of his life" he seems lik he doesnt even no who i am. when he got engaged i cried and when he was married i wanted to die. we can never seem to talk about anything and hes always saying how stupid i am for going out w/ my bf bc he doesnt live by me. hes wife is super awasome and i love her and all but sometimes its lik its her fault. everytime someone talks bout my brother i get rele upset and when they compare us i always say since you think hes so much better than me go get him to do it. i hate it bc everyone asks why ben (my brother) and i dont spend that much time together anymore. and hes having a child and im afraid hes going to rele forget about me. he relationship w/ everyone else hasnt changed only w/ me. when i was little and i cried when i had a nightmare hed come in my room and sit w/ me till i went to bed but when i my first bf broke up w/ me he told me to shut up and get over it. and it rele hurt bc i used to be able to turn to him when i was sad but now i cant. i rele dont no what im asking but do you think r realtionship will ever be the same? or how can i tell him how i feel? thanks and sry bout the length (link)
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Well, Becca, I can't help you with that. I ahve a brother but he is only 5 and I am 13. i am the oldest. Well, sweetie, all I can say is since his child is your neice/nephew, then you should see about you, him, his wife and his kid to do something. I don't know if things will be exactly the same, but all you can do is try. I hope i helped. Best of Luck ~*~ Alyssa ~*~
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okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!! (link)
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Oh sweetie, didnt you and your parents have that talk? OK, baby, here's the scoop. Just dont worry. have some other columnist answer this i am only 13 so, i am sorry i coul not help you. Best of Luck
~*~ Alyssa ~*~
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i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent (link)
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OK you wanna kno what to do? Move. Fuck some other guy and say its his kid. Problem solved. But honey, why would you have sex with you dad. I mean, are you a redneck? No offence, sweetie, but that is screwed up.
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ok well my friend (shes a girl)we'll call her krys..shes over for x mas and so is my other friend (he's a guy)we'll call him bob...well krys has a way to kinda like hypnitize guys and i really really like my friend bob but krys did her lil eye thing and now he likes her...she does it to all the guys she see's, she knows she can do that and she takes advantage of it...well at first i wasnt upset becuz i thought maybe she didnt relize she was flirting...then after i talked to her and told her how i feel she still does it...now im mad at her cuz ive told her that i like him and that shes flirting and when i asked if she liked him she said "no" and now im mad at her but im not sure if i should be...PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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Well, that all depends. Is Krys doing it to purposely hurt your feelings? If she is, which it sounds so, then I beleive you have absolutely every right to be mad at her. No offence, but if you've told her you liked him, then she needs to respect that. Obviously she's not and I think you have every right to be upset. Best of Luck,
~*~ Alyssa ~*~
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Well,there's a boy I like and my feelings are so deep for him,and he is my friend.But I don't know how to tell him or should I tell him,because he has a girlfriend.So how can I tell him and what should I say?
I am a female,
and I'm 14 (link)
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Well, I think you should do what your heart tells you. I was friends with a guy for a long time. I told him I liked him and now we are dating. I mean, I know he has a girlfriend, but if you guys are as good of friends as you say you are, he shouldn't get upset with you or ignore you. I am not saying he will respond the same, but don't get down on yourself if he doesn't. Best of luck,
~*~ Alyssa ~*~
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