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me and my brother arent the same
my brother and i used to be extrmely close even though he is 14 yrs older than me. but after he found "the love of his life" he seems lik he doesnt even no who i am. when he got engaged i cried and when he was married i wanted to die. we can never seem to talk about anything and hes always saying how stupid i am for going out w/ my bf bc he doesnt live by me. hes wife is super awasome and i love her and all but sometimes its lik its her fault. everytime someone talks bout my brother i get rele upset and when they compare us i always say since you think hes so much better than me go get him to do it. i hate it bc everyone asks why ben (my brother) and i dont spend that much time together anymore. and hes having a child and im afraid hes going to rele forget about me. he relationship w/ everyone else hasnt changed only w/ me. when i was little and i cried when i had a nightmare hed come in my room and sit w/ me till i went to bed but when i my first bf broke up w/ me he told me to shut up and get over it. and it rele hurt bc i used to be able to turn to him when i was sad but now i cant. i rele dont no what im asking but do you think r realtionship will ever be the same? or how can i tell him how i feel? thanks and sry bout the length <3 becca
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well i have to say, your brother has changed. let him know how you felt back then and compare it with how you feel now. ask him if you can spend more time together.
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Its ok...please...dont be so upset about your brother sometimes families grow apart and at this point all you can do is try to talk to someone about it because you cant change someone unless they truly want to. Its like the phrase "You can bring a horse to the river but you cant make him drink." So just try your hardest and if things dont work out remember its not anyones fault some things just happens somethings and you might just have to try to live with the fact that your brother is happy and thats what you want isnt it?
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I think that you should tell your brother how you feel. He will probalby say that he misses you and your company. You can just say to him "I really miss hanging out with you and it makes me sad when we dont hang out anymore." I hope I helped!
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Maybe when his wife isn't there you can go to his house and talk to him.or set up a play date just you to.Also as simple as a phone call.Call him everynight!that's how me and my bff got closer!maybe try that!XoX ok hun hope i helped!-nicole-
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Well, Becca, I can't help you with that. I ahve a brother but he is only 5 and I am 13. i am the oldest. Well, sweetie, all I can say is since his child is your neice/nephew, then you should see about you, him, his wife and his kid to do something. I don't know if things will be exactly the same, but all you can do is try. I hope i helped. Best of Luck ~*~ Alyssa ~*~
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yeah i'm kind of going through the same thing. me and my older brother were really close, but ever since he moved out and fell in love, i barley see him. it was hard, but i realized he has to grow up and it's part of life. we don't do the stuff we usually did, and we barely even talk! but i know he will always be there for me and love me no matter what! just learn to move on.. life changes and you have to accept that. oh, and about your brother calling you stupid for having a boyfriend who doesn't live by you.. don't listen. you do what your heart tells you to, all your brother is trying to do is just look out for you. and there isn't anything wrong with that!
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Hey, Im really sorry about what youre going through. Im glad that you want to talk to him about it, because that's the only way you will ever get through to him how you feel. I would buy him a little gift for his incoming child, and tell him to meet you somewhere, like a coffee shop or something..give him the present and tell him that you are so happy for him that hes having a baby and that he is happy... say this, "I got you this little present for your baby, I know it's nothing but I really am happy for you. I hope that Ill be a big part of your baby's life because youre such a big part of mine. I just kind of feel lately that Im not any part of your life anymore. I want to be so bad. I use to turn to you whenever I needed someone to talk to and you would always be there to protect me.. I just feel like youre not like that with me any more, Im your sister and I feel like Ive been forgotten.." I know this may be a hard to thing to do, but you have to say something like that... love kristin
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tell him how u feel, and tell his wife how u feel! im sure they will understand!! I hope I helped!!! Happy Holidays!!!
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tell him how you feel and how you want to be closer with him , remind him of the memories that you had and remind him of how mean he treated you since he was married . he will think about it and it will bother him and he will make it up to you ! I GUARENTEE IT =)
hope i helped
-;- jessie xo
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