okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!!
xOCarrie answered Friday July 9 2004, 12:39 am: Most people have no idea until they try. But to give you a little "sex ed", First off for your first time i highly reccomend the guy being the lead. ( On top ) First the guy get`s an errection, then hopefully if your thinking smart he will slap on a condom (lol), and insert his you know what into your know what, and, it`s really not as hard as you think. Just go with the flow and make sure your ready physically and mentally. Safe sex alwaii`s!!
JamesBaybiGurl answered Tuesday July 6 2004, 6:21 pm: Ha I know what your saying your not clueless I am a virgin still and I dont know my x-boyfriend I still will luv to death he told me there is no right or wrong way to do it..but im still nervous to..lol..its ok!
alderworth1 answered Monday July 5 2004, 10:43 pm: well what do u need to know like how to physicaly do it? cause thats simple when the guy gets a erection he puts a condom on and inserts his dick into ur pussy and moves it in and out and thats pretty well the basics of how to do it and as far as things to do that is pretty much up to u assumeing u are a girl cause u have say over what to do and what not to do if u are a guy then u just fallow the girls lead
kevin1986 answered Monday July 5 2004, 10:07 pm: Well,you could have oral sex,your genitals could be stimuated by his mouth or vice versa. Hand jobs are a waste of time b/c we can do that anytime. There's no right or wrong way,just as long as he's in there. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Monday July 5 2004, 7:15 pm: well i'm not an expert at this b/c i'm a vergin but from wut i hurd i think that comes up automatically n it depends on the situation...to have sex both the gurl n the guy has to b horney...if the gurl is a vergin then it will b best if she is mad horney so it wont hurt as much! so i dunno just give it time...n just go wit da flow...good luck xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 6:47 pm: When the time comes for you to have sex you will know what to do..and obviously since you dont know much about it..you probably arent ready for it..plus the way you have it really depends upon the parthner that you have it with! *hope i helped!* <3/Dakota
Fish answered Thursday July 1 2004, 5:33 pm: how old are you? chances are you shouldn't even be considering having sex. Honestly...my dad puts it best "You put two people of the opposite sex together in a room....they'll eventually figure it out" So don't worry about it. You don't seem to be ready for that kind of thing anyway. And it's something that comes naturally..it's like an instinctual thing. So RELAX. [ Fish's advice column | Ask Fish A Question ]
4M4ND4 answered Thursday July 1 2004, 4:27 pm: Thats ok that you dont kno how to have sex. Sexual intercourse is when a man puts his penis in a womans vergina. but in anycase, just go with the flow hun [ 4M4ND4's advice column | Ask 4M4ND4 A Question ]
MFS answered Thursday July 1 2004, 3:12 pm: Then why are you worried about it? In fact, why do so many worry about sex and what to do when it is clearly something that you are in no way prepared to start having? You're obviously not ready for sex, so stop worrying about it. [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
Maisie answered Thursday July 1 2004, 2:40 pm: My advice is as follows: If you do not know how to have sex or what goes where, you should not have sex. Learn as you go. If you really are "sooo clueless," you should not be having sex. Great responsibility comes with sexual intercourse and if you don't even know how to do it, chances are you will not know how to be responsible.
AdNaMa answered Thursday July 1 2004, 2:22 pm: If you don't kno how to have sex, then ask your boyfriend. I hope thats who your having sex with- even so if your not with your boyfriend and just having it to have it then ask whoever you are with that night...Just be staright up with whoever it is i mean you guys are sharing something so you should not feel the least bit uncomfortable you kno .. No one should ever think that any question is a stupid question the mor eyou aks the WISER YOU GET...
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