Ask a serious question if you want a serious answer. Chances are, I'm older than most of these kids who think they have a degree in psychology. I can offer real advice, just drop me a note. Bullshit questions (and I can tell) will be either mocked or ignored completely, so ask at your own risk.
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how do u get a better voice? (link)
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Take voice lessons. If you can't afford it or simply don't want to do it, then practice constantly. Sing along with a piano or other instrument (be sure it's tuned properly so you know what notes you're hitting) and learn your range, then just go with it. When you've trained yourself well enough you may try expanding your range.
As far as your actual voice goes, I don't think it's necessary for anyone to change their voice. If you want to assert your singing talent and try to cut some sort of record deal (which, I may add, is really friggin' difficult if you live in a small town) don't worry about your voice. Remember: no matter who you are or what you sound like, there will always be people who adore you. For example: some people listen to Mudvayne and Slipknot. Vocal talent? I think not.
I'd like to know if this helped you any, because this is a topic I'm interested in so... let me know if it helped you any.
-Maisie
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this question is kinda complex...but im gonna try and make it as simple as possible...Basicaly i see myself as getting less and less attractive by the day lol, and im getting the idea that the girls are thinking the same thing. See, i used to be pretty damn popular and liked by the ladies, and i still am, but its waring off, and im not getting the attention i used to, which is fine, but im wondering.....is a girl gonna loose interest in me based more on my looks getting better or worse...or are they gonna stick around for my personality????? Thanks, adam (link)
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I haven't read the other answers so what I say may be a bit repetitive. If that's the case, then I'm sorry. Just a forewarning.
Anyway...
First off I'm not calling you ugly because it's apparent I have no idea what you look like. In any case, going off track... bah. My advice: Wait and see what happens. The sad fact of the matter is that girls (and guys, I'm not being biased) can be very shallow. There are exceptions, however (I love exceptions) in which case the person is attracted to your personality and overlooks and unpleasant physical attributes you may have. Isn't this the kind of person you want anyway? If somebody finds you unattractive and therefore will not be with you, then they aren't worth your time. Find somebody who, regardless of what you look like, doesn't care about the way you look. In order to do so, you just have to give things time and hope for the best.
I think what I'm trying to say is don't worry about the way you look and don't change your appearance for anyone. Find someone who likes you for exactly who you are.
I rambled. Forgive me.
-Maisie
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ok so i went out with this girl (we'll call her jane) ok so me and jane started goin out last year march 20th 2003 and we were good for the first 3 months talkin and hangin out like we were meant for each other and really havin a good time then she broke up with me but i kept goin at it and we started goin back out keepin our original date so bout 9 months into the relationship shyt started gettin bad and we hardley ever talked, hung out or nethin but we still loved each other and shyt but when we talked we constantly fought.. so when march 20th came up this year it would have been a year and i thought that was pretty special idk maybe that sounds gay cuz imma guy but i really thought it was special and i wanted to spend time with her and everythin.. but we didnt talk or see each other at all and she didnt even call me so i got mad like ne other person would.. so we talk the next day and shes actin like nothins wrong so i get tired of it and i ask her if she still loves me and all that and shes like i love u but i dont have the same feelings for u nemore so i was like iight well then i dont wann go out with u nemore..... so its been over 3 months since we broke up but im in love with her and i dont wann let her outta my life ya kno so i keep goin at it but she stays at sayin that shes not ready for a relationship and so my question is....should i keep goin at it with her or just move on?
thanx
-Anonymous (link)
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It may not be what you want to hear, but I think you should move on. Don't stop talking to her entirely by any means. Let her know that when she's ready for a relationship with you that she can come to you. You shouldn't waste your time (for lack of better words) dwelling on something that may never happen.
Hope things work out.
-Maisie
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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE? (link)
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My answers to questions like this are all the same:
All people are different. Somebody said this can be both true and false and I agree with them. I know people that cheat all the time and see no problem with it. I, however, cheated once before in my life and immediately knew that what I was doing was wrong and have never done it since. (I'm assuming this question is in regards to relationships, rather than just cheating in general)
If you know somebody who has cheated once before, there's a good chance they won't do it again. Sometimes when I'm getting into a relationship with somebody I'll let them know that I've cheated before but that I haven't since. It's a whole trust factor. If they trust me, they trust me. If they don't, they don't. If you're going to be in a relationship with somebody who has cheated, let him/her know that you're aware they cheated and tell him/her what you feel about it and let them know what will happen if they cheat on you (what happens is up to you).
I lost where I was going with that. I'm starting to develop a really bad habit of rambling and going off topic. In any case, I hope this has helped.
-Maisie
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when ur making out with a guy do you stick ur toung in his mouth or shuold he do it to you first? (link)
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I'm going to agree with Natalie.
If you really don't know who should or even will do it first, you might as well take it upon yourself to initiate it. Personally, I don't think it really matters who goes first, as long as both parties are willing to participate.
-Maisie
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Emotions
I feel as if i'm outside myself watching life. It feels so stange, like a cat in new land.
YOu think I have no emotion, then you don't know me. If you could understand me, just listen you can hear my thoughts. The volume is always hight never quiet.
my smile is automatic, like a machine programed.
I want to tell you more, I want you to understand.
I don't know who I am. Too many voices. too many emotions.
I feel so lost! No one understands. I'm so insecure just waiting for your secure.
I reach out, I yell but my arms don't move not a sound escapes my mouth.
I'm so alone, So many voices, so many emotions....
Copyright ©2004 Kathleen Janette Bare
Is this a good poem? Let me know. I just wrote it.
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I don't know why this question was rated high by the moderators. First off, you're not looking for any kind of advice whatsoever. Second off, it's illegal to say something is copyrighted if it is not.
Third, it's a fair poem, I just find the topic really cliche.
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Okay.. well Ive been with my boyfriend for 16 months (on wednesday) Anyways.. he got drunk last night and cheated on me with his ex.. and he said that he didnt even mean to, he was just drunk.. and that he loved me he just wanted to take a break.. and he came back online, and we were talking.. and it was like.. we were still together.. i mean he still called me "babygirl" and said I love you when he had to leave.. what should i do? :/ Thanks!~ (link)
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It was his decision to get drunk, therefore regardless of how you look at it, he cheated on you.
People should not be given second chances in these situations. "I was drunk" is no excuse for anything. If it is, then all he has to do when he wants to get away with something is drink first. Ditch him.
-Maisie
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wat candy is your fave:
A)Hersheys (with or without almonds)
B)Twix
C)M&Ms (any kind of M&Ms)
D)Other (if you pick this kind wat is your fave)
thanx!! luv ya!! (link)
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So... what sort of advice are you looking for?
-Maisie
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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First off, in response to anybody that said long-distance relationships don't work: wrong. My freshman year in college, I ended up getting together with a friend of mine who lived halfway across the state. We go to two very different colleges on opposite sides of the state now, but we're still together and very much in love.
Now to "Sad and confused:"
Contact him, certainly. Tell him you've been thinking about him and that you'd like to know what he's been up to. If you're able to, try and orchestrate some way for the two of you to see each other. If it's at all possible and you are able to meet up with him somehow, that's when you should discuss having a long-distance relationship. Unfortunately, if the two of you have no way of seeing each other I would not suggest getting into a relationship because in that case, it will very likely not work out. Call me superficial, but I think a good relationship includes the couple seeing each other, even if only occasionally.
I hope this helped =)
-Maisie
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Is 9th grade a good grade and does it go by quickly? (link)
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Each person has a different experience. It all depends on a variety of things: the other students, the teachers, the courses, the school itself, the extracurriculars, etc.
Where I live, we have a Freshman Center (that meaning we have a separate school where all the Freshmen attend classes) so I never knew what it was like to be at a school with a ton of older kids. My brother was a Freshman at the high school before they created the Freshman Center, and he said that while he never had a problem with hazing (the Freshmen being picked on by the upperclassmen) some of his friends did.
So like I said, there's no definite answer. The best advice I can give is typical and cliche, but do your best to enjoy it and do well in your classes and it should be a breeze.
-Maisie
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holaa. ok well i love getten my palm read..tarot cards..horoscopes..all that stuff. ne one kno any cool ways that work and tell ur future or answer a q or anything cool i feel like doing something like that.
thanks :)
hope u all r haven a good 4th cuz mine suckks! (link)
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"The best way to predict the future is to invent it."
-Alan Kay
Frankly, I think palm readings, Tarot, and horoscopes are a load of crap and nothing will ever convince me otherwise. People simply cannot read each other's minds or tell the future.
-Maisie
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Ok i'm going to be 18 on July 10th and there is this dude named Jason who I like and he likes me too...he says that I have all the qualities he wants and in a girl and he just makes me feel real good...but there's a huge problem...He is 27!!!! ahhh I don't know wut to do!! I think when ur 18 ur legal, but still is it bad gettin involved w/him? I'm real confused! (link)
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Yes. At 18, everything (practically) is legal. However, chances are this guy just wants to legally be able to get into your pants. Let him go. Guys are all typical, especially older guys going for younger (much younger) girls. Don't let people tell you the age difference doesn't matter and that it's just a number. When the difference is this much, there's only one thing on this guy's mind and if you have any intentions on being a respectable girl at all, you'd turn him down.
-Maisie
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this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap? (link)
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To each his own. This isn't an advice question, but I'll give you some advice:
Leave them be. Let them like what they want, and you have no right to go and call them "fag" bands. "Fag" is, as I'm sure you know, a derogatory term for homosexuals. Where do you get the idea that you can call someone something like that when you have no idea as to what their sexuality is?
Let people like what they like, and if you don't like it, don't cry to other people about it.
-Maisie
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hey~
i'm 12 and weigh 155 i don't look fat AT ALL but i don't get a lot of boyfriends and i have a chubby face. at the end of my 6th grade year i weighed 160 but i started running and biking every day and lost 5 lbs. but i want to get down to at least 130i still have till august 17 any suggestions i need help i want to look HoT!! (link)
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My advice:
You don't need boyfriends or to look "hot" when you're only 12/13 years old. Wait until you're older, when things like that matter to shallow guys.
-Maisie
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i ned to mastrabte but i cant find anything that works for me can i have anytips? (link)
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The point of masturbation is to do it on your own.
Figure something out.
-Maisie
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Does anyone know any good poems or quotes to write in a note/letter to a boyfriend cause i need some ideas (link)
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My best suggestion and your best shot would be to include original poetry, which means to write it on your own. If you can't seem to do that, I suggest you use Google.com to help you find a good website for what you're looking for.
-Maisie
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can guys be bisexual (link)
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Of course guys can be bisexual. I know many guys who are.
Bisexuality simply means to like both sexes. Anybody has every right to like whomever they want; males and females alike.
-Maisie
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is there anyway that you can see who went to your advice website thing?? thanks
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I've only been signed up for a day, but as far as I know there's no way to tell. In your description you may want to ask people to drop you a note in your inbox to let you know they visited your site, but that seems like the only way to know.
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HEY GUYS WELL I DONT HAVE A HABBIT OF BITTING MY NAILS I LIKE PICK MY NAILS AND THEY GET REALLY SHORT AND I WAS WONDERING IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO 2 HELP M ESTOP? I WANT NAILS!!!! *LUV NIKKI* (link)
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Chew gum, it helps. Sorry I'm not giving an extensive answer, but I've already answered a similar one. View the question/answer in my advice column regarding a girl that sucks her thumb if you want.
-Maisie
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coke or pepsi? (link)
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This site is for people seeking advice. It isn't for polling people. Go elsewhere.
-Maisie
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