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What should I do?
Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female
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Wow ... long distance relationships usually don`t work out.. but if you really truely love him then you and him should be able to work through anything. I think that you should stay in contact with him and tell him how much u like him and that you dont mind to be in a long distance relationship
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My advice would be to email/im him! Dont get all lovey dovey at first because you dont want him to be like "woah!" Talk to him and tell him u miss him and stuff and have been thinking about him! See how he responds! If he says that he still think about u and stuff maybe tell him ur still crushin on him, if he doesnt act intrested though, its all good. I promise there is the perfect guy out there for ya~ k sweetie! I hope it all works out but for sure talk to him!!!!
xoxo
*~MALLY~*
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Yeah tru you 2 are both very young. i mean i dont even love anyone but my momma..lol..i never really actually thought bout the actuall word its pretty powerful. i dont know but you should talk to him but long distance is really hard and its not always the best thing to do..
-Stephanie
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Sad and confused,
try emailing him and getting back in tOuch...ask him hOw hes been dOen where he lives and talk tO him...tell him hOw much yOu miss him and then tell him hOw yOu feel...but dOnt jump right intO it sO it dOesnt freak him Out...hOpe ii helped!
-sOccerXstar023
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i think that you should try and contact him..because after all..love it about taking risks..long distance relationships do work out sometimes! and maybe you will be lucky enough that it will! <3/Dakota *hope i helped*
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Well write him and tell him how you feel that way when he reads it he has time to think about it and you wont be sitting there knowing he's reading it so do it by email.-trix
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ok this is what a i would do a email him tell him god its been so long how ru? and ask nice "getta know guestions and try to aquer his # or b tell him hes awful to forget about you and should go to hell and get his act together and emaial you back.
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Hey! Talk to him! Don't be shy! Just tell him what you told me. Let him know your feelings or else how will you find out his? I hope I helped and I hope everything works out w/ you and him.
~Kali
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Well glad to know im not the only onw w/ this problem! Its not quite the same but hey heres a go at it I have this friend too and we never talked so I called him and now we never stop talking and now were like really (really) close friends. You never no what might happen!.............E-MAIL HIM!!!!
Bianca
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First off, in response to anybody that said long-distance relationships don't work: wrong. My freshman year in college, I ended up getting together with a friend of mine who lived halfway across the state. We go to two very different colleges on opposite sides of the state now, but we're still together and very much in love.
Now to "Sad and confused:"
Contact him, certainly. Tell him you've been thinking about him and that you'd like to know what he's been up to. If you're able to, try and orchestrate some way for the two of you to see each other. If it's at all possible and you are able to meet up with him somehow, that's when you should discuss having a long-distance relationship. Unfortunately, if the two of you have no way of seeing each other I would not suggest getting into a relationship because in that case, it will very likely not work out. Call me superficial, but I think a good relationship includes the couple seeing each other, even if only occasionally.
I hope this helped =)
-Maisie
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dear sad and confused,
you should for sure get incomtact with this guy you know you feelings are stong and if you never do it you will never know what you are missing out on. so just seewhat he is up to if he remembers you and what he is doing and all that good stuff keep it casual at first then go and get into the stuff you want to know about him! ;)
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Don't be sad! :-) since you have his AIM then talk to him, but dont rush anything. Just get caught up on eachother's lives. Ask him what he's into and stuff like that. Then as a little time goes on, if you feel the same, I think you should give him hints to tell him that u have feelings for him and tell him how you think you guys could do good with the long distance relationship! See how he feels about it and go from there! If you wanna talk my sn is WsDaNcEr07! I hope things work out! plz rate me
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Dear Sad and Confused,
Well if you love him so much then take that chance. Send him a e-mail, see how he's doing, you never know he could have been thinking about you and never had the courage to contact you. So take a chance for love, you'll never know. And i know no one ever likes to have regrets, so don't regret this.
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alright...well IM him or E-mail him N start talking to him again if you think abotu him liek that maybe theres a chance he feels the same...just start talking again and stuff dont rush anything tho!...and if it dosent work out then theres always someone else!! XoXo Sara
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I have yet to see a long distance relationship work. Several have tried, all have failed. The strength of the love was never a factor in determining whether or not the relationship would work. It would be healthier to move on. Dating him and never seeing him would be too painful.
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try to contact him n see wussup...but from experience LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP DONT WORK!!!but its worth giving it a try ;) see wuts gonna happen if it dont work dont worry u'll have lots of b/f's through the yrs ;) so it shouldnt b a big deal :-D xoxo *effy*
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U should e-mail him he would probably love it and what u would say just say hi how ya doing or like hey whats up and that stuff i know he would love to hear from u
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you should definately talk to him !! if you have feelings that strong for him then i`m sure you will regret not talkign to him ! but don`t come on too fast or he might get freaked out... so just take it slow and let everythign work for the better !
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email him!! just tell him that you have been thinking about him alot and wanna start talking again! if you get a positive response from that, then talk to him...get to know him again and go from there!! maybe exchange numbers?? but def. email him!! good luck! <3
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HELLO THERE! first of all, you better stop worrying and SMILE! And girl! use your head! if he's on your mind of course you should try to contact him! In fact, do it RITE NOW! this may sound crazy..but just think of it this way..what if he's the one for you...what if he's the one your supposed to marry..the PERFECT guy for you is him..and you never contact him!? he could be the best guy in the world for you..but you'll never know because you wont get in touch with him! just try!! if you dont..ur gonna look back on this and regret it! I heard this story about a guy who was in love with this gurl..he'd talk to her sumtimes..and he ate lunch with her sometimes..but never asked her out because he was intimidated..he didnt think she'd go out with him..he was thinking the worst and bein pesimisic..so when they were outta highschool they went to seperate colleges and the guy met up with that girl(lets call her suzie)he met up with suzie's best friend and asked her how suzie was doing..and the best friend goes "well..she got over you" and the guy was like.."what?" and the best friend goes "yea..that day you had lunch with suzie was the best day of her life..she sat by the phone that whole night waitin for you to call and ask her out" and the guy regreted not askin her out. so see! you have to take chances or else you'll never live life how you should! and all you should say to him is "hey! how are you!" and tell him ur doin good..tell him whats beein goin on with you and tell him you miss him and would like to keep in touch..maybe give him ur phone number..tell him to call or write you back..and then maybe after yall start talking more..adn start gettin closer..then you should tell him how much you love him and how much you think about him..and see if the feeling's mutual! well i hope this helps! if you need anythin else just ask! im here..love always..ally!
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Go for it..Im him or email him..he might have a feelin for you and if you like him then you would talk to him..and dont worry ive been through this alot or several times it will work out for you just put a couple of moves down talk to him and it wont be such a common issue in your life hope this works for you..good luck!!
~bubbles~
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yes definitally Im or email him!Just talk to him and see how hes doin.If u wanna tell him how u feel than go ahead!I dont think its crzy at all that u r in love with him!Good luck babe!
*BrittBritt
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the distance will always be a problem but i think u should contact him cause u never know some day it might work so just keep in touch and never know maybe u can like drive to his house one day or somthin once u get ur license
good luck
Gabe
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