Hey, pplz! I know you're supposed to be at least 13 to make an advice column, but I give really good advice for my age I promise you.
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Gender: Female
Location: Houston, TX
Occupation: Still in school
Age: 10
Member Since: July 3, 2004
Answers: 8
Last Update: July 6, 2004
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I just called my boyfriend and he's moving! I know I'm only 11 but I really like him. I've known him for a while and we just started going out a few months ago. We're not breaking up but I don't know. Will the relationship work out? He's got my # and he said he'd call me that way I can get his number when he moves. I know I could write him and maybe, if my parents would let me, visit him in the summer. But what do you guys think? (link)
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Hey! I know it's hard when someone really close to your heart moves. Just make sure to stay in contact w/ him and make sure to not let distance break you two apart. I hope I helped and I hope everything works out for you and your boyfriend. ~Kali
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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Hey! Talk to him! Don't be shy! Just tell him what you told me. Let him know your feelings or else how will you find out his? I hope I helped and I hope everything works out w/ you and him.
~Kali
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i need to no how u find a boyfriend...help me asap.
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Hey! There's really no way to find a boyfriend, but at some point I'm sure the right one will come your way. I hope you find that special guy and everything works out for you. I hope I helped. ~Kali
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Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe. (link)
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Hey! Just sit down and tell her your concerns and feelings. Maybe then she can tell you what her concerns and feeling are also. I hope everything works put w/ you and your friend. ~Kali
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theres this guy and ive known him for a while now ((were the same age)) cuz hes my dads friends son and our familys get together every once in a while and just the other day we planned to go camping and when i got there my mom and his mom both told me to go w/ him and play golf and play games at the arcade w/ my brother and his brother so i did and then we talked for a while n then all the parents and kids went to another cabin late at night becuz they had dinner and me n him n my brother stayed back at our camp site and we sat down at a table and talked for like 3 hours and stuff and my brother like just listened cuz hes younger then us so we were talking n stuff and then he told my brother later on when the parents came back that he rilly liked me and then my brother told me that and then i was like o kewl and then at like 1 in the morning we were doing fireworks cuz its close to the 4th and we were bored and so my brother his brother me n him and there dad all did fireworks for a while and he stood by me and was asking me a bunch of questions like have u ever kissed a guy do u have a bf and stuff like that and i was assuming he wanted to kiss me cuz he was like well have u ever kissed a guy do u ever want to who do u want to kiss n stuff like that so then the next day we had to leave which was today and i mean i already like another guy but i like him to but i dont know if i would want to go out w/ him cuz he lives like an hour away and i dont see him that much only when our familys get together but i mean i like him a lot and idk wut to do! help pleez!! (link)
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Hey! I think it just depends on who you like the most and who you're most compatible with. I hope I helped and I hope everything works out w/ you and whichever guy you end up with. ~Kali
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So me and my ex-boyfriend talk so much becasue we know for sure we are gunna get back together soon, this is just a break. But anyways, he told me that i was a horrible girlfriend which was bull *thats a reason we broke up* .. well, i wanna know some cute things that I can do that will really show him I'm still so in love with him. Any ideas? (link)
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Hey! Tell him that you love him and wanna be w/ him. And like tell him your concerns and ask why you guys broke up and why he thought you were a horrible g/f. I hope it works out w/ you and him. ~Kali
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ok so i had anoriexia for a while and i recovered. i am at a normal weight now, and i have these 2 best friends. 1 went on a diet and is thin now and the other isnt as thin as my other friend but is very pretty and fine the way she is. so now she said started dieting and she doesnt eat alot. like..hardly anything. she always brings it up it seems like she wants attention and she always says stuff like "hey i ate something today!" she also said she is doing this to be thin like we are, and to impress us. no matter how much i talk to her and tell her how bad what she is doing is, she doesnt listen. and she alwwayyss brings it up. i am going to go crazy and idk exactly what to do.
help if u can
xo * (link)
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Hey! Sit down w/ you and that friend alone. Explain to her why you're concerned and why you and your other friend are so skinny. Being anorexic is an eating disorder and explain to her that she wouldn't want to be anorexic becuz she could get very sick and maybe even die. Compliment her and make sure she knows that you think she's really pretty and fine the way she is. Tell her that she shouldn't feel like an outsider becuz you and your other friend are a little bit skinnier and that she's not one (an outsider). I hope I helped and I hope it all works out w/ you and your two other friends. ~Kali
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ik this is dumb but i am really paranoid about my bf. we dont see eachother a ton becuz it is summer and we are both busy. i saw him 4 days ago but today like we didnt talk at all i have relatives over and etc. i really like him and i want to go out with him but if we dont see eachother i get all worried he will dump me or not like me or whatever. it sucks. then he has this pretty friend and blah blah blah i am just overreacting i hate it.
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Hey! Maybe you should share your concerns w/ him so he will now that you're worried. And plus if he really loves you and cares about you then you don't need to worry about his 'pretty' friend becuz itz u he wants. Just make sure to keep in contact w/ him over the phone and on the net. And sometimes ya'll can meet at the mall and hang out or w/e. I hope I helped and I hope it works out w/ you and him. ~Kali
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