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a lil stuck
theres this guy and ive known him for a while now ((were the same age)) cuz hes my dads friends son and our familys get together every once in a while and just the other day we planned to go camping and when i got there my mom and his mom both told me to go w/ him and play golf and play games at the arcade w/ my brother and his brother so i did and then we talked for a while n then all the parents and kids went to another cabin late at night becuz they had dinner and me n him n my brother stayed back at our camp site and we sat down at a table and talked for like 3 hours and stuff and my brother like just listened cuz hes younger then us so we were talking n stuff and then he told my brother later on when the parents came back that he rilly liked me and then my brother told me that and then i was like o kewl and then at like 1 in the morning we were doing fireworks cuz its close to the 4th and we were bored and so my brother his brother me n him and there dad all did fireworks for a while and he stood by me and was asking me a bunch of questions like have u ever kissed a guy do u have a bf and stuff like that and i was assuming he wanted to kiss me cuz he was like well have u ever kissed a guy do u ever want to who do u want to kiss n stuff like that so then the next day we had to leave which was today and i mean i already like another guy but i like him to but i dont know if i would want to go out w/ him cuz he lives like an hour away and i dont see him that much only when our familys get together but i mean i like him a lot and idk wut to do! help pleez!!
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Well maybe it is cool that this was a one time thing. Like you said you really don't see the guy. but in the future if the 2 of you still have this chemistry, maybe you should give it a chance. but I think the only reason you are crushin on him now is because he was the only guy around that was your age on the trip, an dit probably felt good to be noticed like that. Hope I helped and Good Luck! :)
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hi...well thats a tough one...u need to take a time off from guys n try to think wich one makes u feel better n wit wich one u see ur self :) try to figure out wich one u want n make up ur mind...while u doing that talk to both of them...with the kid u just started liking try to keep in touch either by phone calls or talkin online or something..then as soon as posible make up ur mind...when u do that go for the one u like n good luck! just dont take to long n lose both chances...xoxo effy
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Hey, that kinda sux that helives so far away. If you really like him, maybe you could ask him if he has an e-mail or an sn. keep in touch. Maybe you could stay friends at the end of the trip, go home, talk A LOT and then maybe he'll ask u out, or maybe you'll even ask him out. This other guy, spend some time with him, see how much you like him, and then ask out the guy u like more. you could alwaysstay close friends with the other guy. i hope i helped, please rate me!
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Hey! I think it just depends on who you like the most and who you're most compatible with. I hope I helped and I hope everything works out w/ you and whichever guy you end up with. ~Kali
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Oh, such a tricky situation! Well, I'd say how you just stick as friends...even if you like him a lot. The reason why I'm saying that, is this:
Think...in a couple months...do you think you'll still like him? Do you think you'll be able to see him a lot? Do you think your relationship will work out?
You could just stick as GREAT friends, but with benefits! That way you can mess around a little, but you don't have to deal with the whole "I love you!" and boy/girlfriend thing. That's what I'd do if I were in your situation.
Also...summer is just about having fun! Don't get tied down just with one guy. Be friends and kiss a little (or more...you know *winks*) I hope I helped! Please rate me!
Sincerely, Cammie
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