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Hey guys it's Kerri. Anytime you need advice, i'll be here. I'm a very thoughtfull, but truthful, person. I love writing poetry, and hanging out with my friends.Thanks guys, enjoy!
Gender: Female
Location: Walpole, ma
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Age: 13
Member Since: July 2, 2004
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I'm 22/m and my sister just turned 16. We're very close with one another and usually can share anything. Recently, however, she has become more sexually explorative, which is fine, but now seems to be obsessed by it. She told me yesterday that she wants to hook up with this 19 year old freshman in college that I know. They're not dating, but are considering getting to know each other. My sister used to be so righteous and moral and I feel that she's going to just end up hurt with this new sexual discovery. She's thinking about getting ahotel room with this guy this weekend. What should I do? I don't want her to get hurt and frankly, I don't want her to turn into a slut. Thanks =Concerned Brother= (link)
i think you should drop hints that its stupid and that this guy could have aids or something.i think its really sweet that you care so just show her how much you do care and hopefully she'll listen. tell me how it turns out


i have a friend who is always complaining of being fat, but she isnt and she always says that no guys like her or will ever like her and all that is not true. she is a great girl and i love her to death. what can i tell her to make her realize that she is fine the way she is and someday she will find someone it is just a matter of time? (link)
Is she actually fat? I mean, what's her weight, height, etc?


Ok, I'm 5'1 and 140 lbs!!! I'm a female, I don't look fat with my clothes on, I look like i'm like 120, i have kinda flat tummy, but when I see myself without my shirt on, I look really fat! I'm very dedicated to weight loss, but I don't want to diet and make it obvious, cuz I dun want my mom to know or anything, so do you guys have any methods, I don't want diet pills, I've stopped eatting sweats and soft drinks, I've been running daily (not to mention playing DDR2 :P). do you guys know any fast methods to loosing weight? getting a flat tummy? thanks a lot, I have a busy schedual, so hopfully the methods might not be too long? thanks, i give 5's!!!!! (link)
haha, i just thought i'd add that DDR kicks ass. :p


is it normal to have little alive white worms in your ass?? im not trying to be sick but i have worms like little tiny white worms, that live in my ass. they make it itch and feel irritable. not to gross anyone out
-silvia (link)
ugh. thats pretty gross, im sorry but you dont say stuff like that online, u dont tell people that sort of stuff unless its a doctor. i reccomend going to see one. ugh thats nasty..


Ok heres the deal....I like this boy and I thought he liked me. It turns out he likes my best friend and is going out with her. Well today me,my best friend,her boyfriend(the one I like),and my other friend were at my friends house. We were in the dark in her room for some reason and her bf got up and so did all of us and he started saying "hugs" and started hugging all of us with his eyes closed. One time when he hugged me his hands went a little lower (not my butt but my hips.)He hugged me like 50 times more then he hugged his own girlfriend.He hugged me all the time and I know he could see who he was hugging. Then I said sumthin to him while I was sitting on my friends bed and he came over and like tackled me so I was laying down on her bed. He also tackled me alot through the rest of the night.I used to think he likes me and now I dont kno wat to think. Everything is so confusing.It seems like he likes me but if he did why does he go out with my best friend and tell her he loves her and stuff?It drives me crazy because I REALLY REALLY like him but I guess im happy for them because she is my best friend. Does he like me or not?¿ If he doesnt then how come he always flirts with me and if you just met him and his gf(my best friend) you wouldnt even be able to tell they were boyfriend+girlfriend. You have to like make him just put his arm around her.
-lost and confused
*I RATE HIGH* (link)
Hey, i kinda no how you feel. The guy i like is going out with one of my best friends too. i dont like the guy all that much but we grew up together so its hard to not notice him. anyways, i joke around with him a lot the way you explained but it doesnt usually get into the hugging and tackling haha. there was this one time i tickled the crap out of him but that doesnt matter hehe. the point is, i thought he liked me. when i found out he liked my friend, i kinda gave up. i cant tell myself to stop loving him when my heart still does and i think you can relate. the only advice i can give to you is to ask him how he feels about you but make it a really serious conversation between only the two of you. i dont reccomend getting all dolled up just to talk to him because believe me it doesnt help. if he likes/loves you, then he wont care about wat you look like, but anyways, just find out how he feels, and tell him how you feel. hopefully things work out., get back to me and tell me what happens. i hope i helped. leave me questions anytime. good luck! :p

xo_always- Kerri


Do you guys notice that ppl are writting poems?? What's up with that? It's not like the poems are bad or anything, but THIS IS AN ADVICE PAGE!!!! NOT A POEM PAGE!!! Besides, not many ppl needs advice anymore.... (link)
THANK YOU! everyone, this is an advice page about writing. not an "is my poem bad" page. and whoever keeps saying "those are self pity poems" blah blah blah just get off the page. if your not looking for advice then dont be on this page.


where is a good place to publish ur poertry? (link)
Hi, i love poetry! i've been published on poetry.com, famouspoets.com, and i think the other one was like americanpoetsociety.com. im not sure about the last one. my school does a thing every year when you can submit and poem and they send u a letter telling you if you made it into the book or not. if you make it in, you can buy the book. its call the anthology of poetry by young americans. i really hoped i helped. if you ever get published, let me know, i would love to read them.
xo_always-Kerri


Is anyone here psychic? I think psychic people are fascinating. I would love to be Psychic! If anyone here isn't Psychic but has read a helpful book about being psychic please tell me. Thanks ;) I know I'm weird but so what?:) (link)
Hey, now i wouldnt say im psychic but a lot of weird things do happen. im not going to go into specific examples but its cool. theres nothing you can really do to promote being psychic but reading a lot about it can get u in the mood. PLEASE rate me, and i really hope i helped. if u need any other advice or wanna talk more about this subject, leave one in my inbox. THANKS!!
xo_always-Kerri


my boyfriends b day is coming up hes 15 what should i get him? he has the 'punk' look, umm likes quads and stuff i just dunno what to get him... (link)
Hey, i think a cd would be nice. Try looking at stores like Hot Topic and Pacific Sunwear. Just go into the stores and if you see something you think he would like,and GO FOR IT! if he has his ear(s) pierced, "boyish" earring would be ok too. But dont just think about stuff like that, spend time with him, maybe even go through pix of you and him, make a colage, or bring a camera, take a lot of pictures, and later on you can make a coplage together. i really hope i helped, if you need anymore advice, put it in my inbox, i'd be more than happy to help you.
xo_always-Kerri
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i have a best friend that told me she moving in 3-4weeks. i wish she wasnt moving, but i dont know what to do. if she moves i'll never get to see her agian or hang out with her. we hang out every day and when she leaves i want get to any more. im really sad. i want to tell her how i feel and i have been but it wont make a diffrence if she moves or not. i cant not make her move, she has all ready bought a house, and selling the one she leaves in now. she my best friend in the whole world. when she leaves i dont know what to do, i'm going to be sad. help me!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
The only advice i can give, is to keep in close touch. talk to her online, send her e-mails, and call her. after a while you may even be able to think of a way to visit her, or her visit you. i hope i helped, please rate me!
xo_always-Kerri


theres this guy and ive known him for a while now ((were the same age)) cuz hes my dads friends son and our familys get together every once in a while and just the other day we planned to go camping and when i got there my mom and his mom both told me to go w/ him and play golf and play games at the arcade w/ my brother and his brother so i did and then we talked for a while n then all the parents and kids went to another cabin late at night becuz they had dinner and me n him n my brother stayed back at our camp site and we sat down at a table and talked for like 3 hours and stuff and my brother like just listened cuz hes younger then us so we were talking n stuff and then he told my brother later on when the parents came back that he rilly liked me and then my brother told me that and then i was like o kewl and then at like 1 in the morning we were doing fireworks cuz its close to the 4th and we were bored and so my brother his brother me n him and there dad all did fireworks for a while and he stood by me and was asking me a bunch of questions like have u ever kissed a guy do u have a bf and stuff like that and i was assuming he wanted to kiss me cuz he was like well have u ever kissed a guy do u ever want to who do u want to kiss n stuff like that so then the next day we had to leave which was today and i mean i already like another guy but i like him to but i dont know if i would want to go out w/ him cuz he lives like an hour away and i dont see him that much only when our familys get together but i mean i like him a lot and idk wut to do! help pleez!! (link)
Hey, that kinda sux that helives so far away. If you really like him, maybe you could ask him if he has an e-mail or an sn. keep in touch. Maybe you could stay friends at the end of the trip, go home, talk A LOT and then maybe he'll ask u out, or maybe you'll even ask him out. This other guy, spend some time with him, see how much you like him, and then ask out the guy u like more. you could alwaysstay close friends with the other guy. i hope i helped, please rate me!
xo_always-Kerri


I have long , black hair ( i'm asian ) , and fairly light skin . What colour should i streak my hair ( keep in mind that i'm only doing three thin streaks , because i'll need to hide this during shcool time )

- army green
- neon green
- electric blue
- turquoise
- purple
- any other suggestions ? (link)
PINK! I just dyed my hair pink last night and i have really dark hair. hope i helped!
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xo_always-Kerri


How should i flirt to let this girl know that i wanna get with her. She is so sweet and nice. But she is a year older and im goin in to 10 and she gona be a senior. and she my bestfriends sister. I don't know if she has a thing for me but the other night she was playin with my phone and then i looked at it the next day and her num was in it. I also was good friends with her when i was lil but we want to differnt school and now im go to the same school as her and became good friends with her brothers (link)
Hey, well all I can say is let her know how you feel! If things were meant to be between you and this girl, it will happen. Just let nature take its course.
~always
xo_Kerri
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