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uhhhhh Sry itz long but PLEZ read
Ok heres the deal....I like this boy and I thought he liked me. It turns out he likes my best friend and is going out with her. Well today me,my best friend,her boyfriend(the one I like),and my other friend were at my friends house. We were in the dark in her room for some reason and her bf got up and so did all of us and he started saying "hugs" and started hugging all of us with his eyes closed. One time when he hugged me his hands went a little lower (not my butt but my hips.)He hugged me like 50 times more then he hugged his own girlfriend.He hugged me all the time and I know he could see who he was hugging. Then I said sumthin to him while I was sitting on my friends bed and he came over and like tackled me so I was laying down on her bed. He also tackled me alot through the rest of the night.I used to think he likes me and now I dont kno wat to think. Everything is so confusing.It seems like he likes me but if he did why does he go out with my best friend and tell her he loves her and stuff?It drives me crazy because I REALLY REALLY like him but I guess im happy for them because she is my best friend. Does he like me or not?¿ If he doesnt then how come he always flirts with me and if you just met him and his gf(my best friend) you wouldnt even be able to tell they were boyfriend+girlfriend. You have to like make him just put his arm around her.
-lost and confused
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Hey, i kinda no how you feel. The guy i like is going out with one of my best friends too. i dont like the guy all that much but we grew up together so its hard to not notice him. anyways, i joke around with him a lot the way you explained but it doesnt usually get into the hugging and tackling haha. there was this one time i tickled the crap out of him but that doesnt matter hehe. the point is, i thought he liked me. when i found out he liked my friend, i kinda gave up. i cant tell myself to stop loving him when my heart still does and i think you can relate. the only advice i can give to you is to ask him how he feels about you but make it a really serious conversation between only the two of you. i dont reccomend getting all dolled up just to talk to him because believe me it doesnt help. if he likes/loves you, then he wont care about wat you look like, but anyways, just find out how he feels, and tell him how you feel. hopefully things work out., get back to me and tell me what happens. i hope i helped. leave me questions anytime. good luck! :p
xo_always- Kerri
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Talk to him and explain to him what's going on. Tell him that it seems like he likes you and if he doesn't then he needs to stop sending the wrong signals and flirting with you. Make sure he knows that you don't want him to hurt your friend and that he needs to get his mind straight. Don't tell your friend about the whole thing until you have talked to him because you don't want to hurt her. If he doesn't like your friend, then he needs to break up with her because it is wrong for him to lead her on. Then, before you two go out (if that is what you both want) you need to talk to her about how she feels about the situation. Friendships are more important than boys so you need to get that straight. Just talk to the guy and everything should fix itself.
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in my opion hes playing you both. maybe hes not getting hes way with your friend so hes trying to make her jelous by flirting with you.. that way maybe she'will give in to him if she dont he probably thinks he'll have you as a backup. my advice is get rid of him he's a scum
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If I were you, I would try my *VERY* best to try and get over this guy..as much as you like him, he isn't with you, but with your friend.. And theres a reason to that: he has to like her..or maybe she is giving him alot of [sexual] stuff but it doesnt sound that way because they dont even act like bf and gf. Also, just say you two ended up being together he could do the exact same thing to you: end up going for someone else. I personally think he is attracted to you and that he is starting to like you. But that doesnt mean that something has to spark from that because he already is going out with someone, and that someone is ur *BEST FRIEND*.. love kristin
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Read mine, its called "body image"
Ok well from PERSONAL experience here you can't assume anything untill after he has actually said to your face "I like you." and if that takes to long then just straight up ask him, and if he says no and your embarressed just say "yeah because someone told me you did" or something. Just DONT ASSUME! good luck!
-READ MINE-
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well. even if he did like you, i'd lay off. because he's ur best friends boyfriend, and that's really wrong to steal that from her. it ends in bad ways.. believe me, it's happeend to be before.. it seems like hes a big flirt or like you, but don't think about it too much, you might lose a friend in the end.
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