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dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-sign, flat as a wall
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dear flat as a wall, i can understand your problem, its happend to me too. but now since im 14 they have grown alot. and they arent that big but they are normal. what im trying to say is dont worry about it, just think, so what if my friends have bigger breasts than me i am my own person. well i hope it works for you write me back if it works, ok.
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You're only 13! Don't worry about it! Some people just develop later than others... it's perfectly normal. If your mom was late, chances are you're going to be too. You will grow eventually, so just be patient. If you're still uncomfortable with your appearance, just try to remember to focus on the GOOD things.
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i undsetand your problem. most kids your age a just like you. don't try to grow up to fast. your friends should like you for who you are. try push up bras. don't worry. you'll grow up soon!
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well at 13 it isnt uncommon to not have breasts yet. but there are still guys out there who like girls with small chests as well. um just wait a few years, especialy if your mom has small breasts and was a late bloomer
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Everyone's body type is different. Everyone develops at different times and ages... Trust me, not even super models are happy with their bodies. You will never find anyone completely happy with their body. Since your mother grew at a slow rate, it makes sense why your like that. Your probably growing at a slow rate as well...But, if you really want, you could get those types of bras that have gels or little water filled cups to make them look bigger and if someone accidentially touches you, they feel real too so you wouldn't have to worry! *hope i help*
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I WOULDNT worry about it!! It sucks though, I know. Maybe you can get a padded bra? If your mom doesnt let you, just sneak it. Youre only 13... I didnt start having actual boobs until I was like 15ish, (i was kinda a late bloomer ;) ) and before that I just kinda wore a padded bra..
love kristin
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Your only 13 your still growing!! Dont worry my friend is 15 and shes "as flat as a bored"!! I dont have this problem so i cant really help you but all i know is that your still growing!! Give it some time!!
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Most girls just process right after their mom and that is probably what you are going to do to
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your only 13... when i was 13 i hardly had any boobs either and now they are more lohan than flat... if your young then your probably just havent devopled fully yet... trust me.. i'm 16 and i am still growing. in the mean time... wear padded bras they have aa sizes 2... try that! boobs are genetic too.. so if your mom is a 34B you'll most likely be around there! dont worry! LoL hope i helped!
xOxO, aLeX
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Its not the end of the world, youre just a late bloomer and i have alot of frens that went through that and they hav now, so dont worry. Just wait.
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I think just about every one has a flaw or two with there body. There are certian foods you can eat to increase your breast size. Drinking alot of water is a myth is doesnt work. Alot of girls have this problem though so your not the only one. You can go to a store and buy one of those padded push up bras to make yourself look bigger. Look on the plus side when your older your boobs wont be mearly s saggy as most the big breasted girls out there!!
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