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i have a friend who is always complaining of being fat, but she isnt and she always says that no guys like her or will ever like her and all that is not true. she is a great girl and i love her to death. what can i tell her to make her realize that she is fine the way she is and someday she will find someone it is just a matter of time?
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Maybe getting other people to back you up will help. She may have a problem with self confidence... so you may want to talk to a guidance counseler or a parent. As for what to say to her tell her that shes beautiful and any guy would be lucky to have her. And that shes toog ood for so-and-so. Hope it helps...
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Just tell her that she is not fat and that she will eventually find someone in a matter of time. Or you could just tell her that it bugs you when she says stuff that isn't true. Besta Luck
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Is she actually fat? I mean, what's her weight, height, etc?
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sit her down & talk to her! tell her what you think! speak your mind. don't be rude about it. just tell her how you feel.
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My friend was the same as your friend; she always thought she was fat and that this caused her not to have any boyfriends. I always told her that she wasn't fat at all and that she will find a boyfriend but that didn't help. What I did to help her was I showed her a picture of an obese person from this health website and this made her now realize that she wasn't fat at all. What you need to do is to tell your friend that you really care about her that she will find a boyfriend one. Complaining about her body won't do any good. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Just try to explain to her that she is not fat and that she is beautiful inside and out.If shes not as fat as shes saying,then shes probably just doing it for attention,so just compliment her constantly.Hope I helped.Let me know how it goes and drop it in my inbox:)
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Just tell her shes a great person and that probaly alot of guys like her and that if she isnt fat and she`s saying she is tell her "well when u tell people that it makes them think bad things about you" or something like that..Hope I Helped
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You should also check for anorexia and bulemia - don't be nosy or obvious about it, but if a sign exists note it - and if you see anything that suggests she may have either, consult with her parents about it. Both eating disorders are horrible things to leave unchecked, and she could start at any time as long as she views herself as hopelessly fat.
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Hunny. Tell her how much you like care about her<3 and tell her she is very pretty and her weight is fine.. tell her how skinny she is. Hope I helped XOXO Michelle
PS: if you ever need anything you no where to find me <3
:)just keep complementing her
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Just tell her that she's a lovely person and everyone knows it - and any guys who don't like her are idiots!!
You really can't do anything other than that and keeping on telling her she's not fat. My friend is exactly the same...it's just the mentality they have and changing that would be like changing them - pretty much impossible. Your friend is just probably quite insecure, so compliment her a lot, that should boost her ego a little and make her feel a bit better about herself!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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