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this is gonna sounds stupid..
ik this is dumb but i am really paranoid about my bf. we dont see eachother a ton becuz it is summer and we are both busy. i saw him 4 days ago but today like we didnt talk at all i have relatives over and etc. i really like him and i want to go out with him but if we dont see eachother i get all worried he will dump me or not like me or whatever. it sucks. then he has this pretty friend and blah blah blah i am just overreacting i hate it.
any advice? thank u
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Aww. Well if you trust you're b/f then you have nothing to worry about. But I know how that feeling is you worry all the time huh? Just try telling him what you just told me. Because if he's your b/f you can tell him those things! Just be like since we don't see each other that much, I get really paranoid that i'm afraid you're going to dump me or something and I dont want that to happen cuz I really like you! Stuff like that. Just tell him how you feel! Good luck!
xoxo Kourtney
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Dont worry about it i think everybody has a spurt like that over there bf. i know i do.. but what i did is i brought it up to him and he just said dont worry about it you can come to me anytime you want i love you and that wont change. and that pretty set it for me and yes i did have some worries after that but thats just normal... so bring it up to him-trix
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Maybe you should sit down with him and try to figure out ways for you 2 to spend time together.If necessary,go over each of your schedules and see when you can make it happen.Maybe you could even include him in family plans,like when you say you have relatives over.Let him know tho that you hate not hearing from him.Don't harp,just say something sweet like "I really hate it when I don't get to hear your voice".I would say at least a 5 minute check in call each day wouldn't be asking too much,even on days when you're really busy.One of you should take 5 minutes out of your day to call the other up just to at the very least say hi,and see how the other is.But also remember that going a day or 2 w/o talking is NOT the end of the world and doesn't mean the end of your relationship.As far as his friend goes,if she's really truly a big concern for you,sit him down and let him know straight up how you feel.But if you have no evidence or signs of any hanky-panky goin on between them,it'd be kinda silly to confront him!!Best of luck!!!!
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If he's a trustworthy guy, you have nothing to worry about. Hell, my guy's gonna be in Vegas for the rest of the summer. You may not see each other a lot, but you can still call each other. it's better than nothing, right? Tell him your concerns. He'll iron them out for you. Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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Hmmm,well talk to him about the fact you're not spending too much time together. Don't worry about the whole dumping thing. Relationships end for some other reason besides not seeing one another. But it does contribute. He has a pretty friend? You don't have any guy friends? You're not overreacting much. Does he have a history of cheating or what?
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just relax n try to make a lil more time for ur b/f...i understand ur bussy but make a lil bit more time for him...if he likes u n w/e dont worry bout it cuz prolly he'll wait for u no metter wut...n bout his friend i understand she is pretty and eveyrthing but may be in his eyes she is just a smiple friend...so relax ;) if u guys are ment 2 be u gonna b so :-D good luck xoxo effy
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Hey! Maybe you should share your concerns w/ him so he will now that you're worried. And plus if he really loves you and cares about you then you don't need to worry about his 'pretty' friend becuz itz u he wants. Just make sure to keep in contact w/ him over the phone and on the net. And sometimes ya'll can meet at the mall and hang out or w/e. I hope I helped and I hope it works out w/ you and him. ~Kali
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y dont u call him every so often to k.i.t
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