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help so i have had bfs before and went to movies with guys or w.e but i never really tt my mom about it its just not me. i am 14 btw. so the other day i went to the movies with my bf and came home and then i wanted to go again 3 days later and my mom said no becuz i went before and she doesnt want me going alone with a boy becuz i am too yound and it is so annoying. i need to see my bf or we could break up or something. its just all screwed up. plz help me
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Tell her how you feel and tell her thats what you want to do and you wont do anything stupid because thats just not you... or maybe say a friend will tag along or maybe really do tag a friend along and have him do that to and have the 2 friends sit sumwhere else... -trix ((rate me)) ]
First of all,understand where your mom is coming from.Even tho you're growing up you are still her little baby and she doesn't want anything to happen to you.She's just protecting you,that's what mom's do!!;) Sit down with her and give her some good examples/reasons why she should trust you.Let her know that she has done a good job in raising you and you know right from wrong and all of that.Maybe let her meet your bf so she can see what a great and responsible guy he is!!It's always important to keep lines of communication open with your mom!B/F's will come and go,but you only get ONE mom,and they can be the best friend you'll ever have!!Let me know how it goes!! ]
ok..talk to ur mom tell her how u feel n tell her wussup tell her that ur not young enough if she still the same (like mine) then listen if ur b/f likes u enough or cares bout u enough then he wont mind that u didnt go out one night b/c ur mom didnt allowe u 2...trust me i'm 17...my parents are stricked n i'm not allowed to go out...my b/f (which i lov very much) respects that n we're closer then ever...so dont worry...xoxo effy ]
Talk to your mom and tell her that you really like him! Have your mom meet him..and they can talk! try hanging out at your house while your mom is at home! and soon enough, she'll trust you guys together!! =) ]
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