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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??
Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed (link)
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it shouldnt matter what race he is, people are jelious because they want your man. you shouldnt have to worry about the laughs and jokes but its life and you will get throw it. you are better then those people because you are the one with your head high and not brakeing up with him because of them! good luck sweetie
*~*Crystal*~*
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Hi well ok see me and my friend were the bestest of friends then all of a sudden I start liking this boy , and he likes me but my friend said that she wouldn't get mad at me, well I called her and told her the news about us going out and she threw the phone across the room......
What do I do?>?? Plz Help me.......And Fast (link)
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well it looks like your friends not a true friend, she shouldnt get mad over you two being together. talk to her about it for sure tell her that its not a big deal. Also tell her that she is over reacting!
Good Luck
Crystal
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When waz ur first kiss? (link)
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my first kiss was in 5th grade, so when I was 9! I know young
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(f, 15) hey i'm really confused right now...my best guy friend in the entire world just asked me to be his girlfriend a couple of days ago. now he has an awesome personality, but i don't think i could get over the lack of physical attraction, so i know it seems really shallow but i said no. supposedly he got over it really quickly and likes my friend sarah now..i know that sounds good that he didn't get hurt, but now i'm really jealous..i don't know if i'm just jealous of her because all the guys like her, or if i really do like him, or i am just being selfish and want everyone to like me..it's driving me crazy..i'm really not a bad person, i just don't know how i really feel..it doesn't matter that much i guess since he doesn't even like me anymore, i just want to figure out my feelings and i don't know how to. please help! (link)
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I am having the same kinda problem, I think whats going on is that you knew he was always going to be there likeing you, wanting you, but he found anouther girl, and it is your friend. Talk to her, tell her how you feel about him, I think you feel like you had someone and now you don't. if she is a true friend she would understand. and if she doesnt even like him, he will get over it really fast. he still got feelings for you. hope this works! Good Luck sweetie. oh and you are not shollow or selfish!
*~*Crystal*~*
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my friend cuts herself because of her ex-boyfriend...ive tryed to tell her not to. she cuts herself all over her body except her wrists. and when her parents ask her what happens she makes up excuses like she ran into something, fell... i dont know what to do!
-signed help my friend out!-
I REALLY NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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you need to tell an adult, some one needs to know even if she gets mad at you she will thank you later. stay by her side no matter what. you need to make sure she is not doing it just to do it or if she is serious about it. also let her know that no guy is worth her tears and the one that is wont ever make her cry. about her parent you tell then that she is cutting her self. someone needs to know goos luck
Crystal
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ok my boobs really hurt if i push directly on top of my nipples. is this normal? wat do i do?? (link)
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its normal. they are either growing or you are about to start your pirod don't worrie you will be fine!
Good luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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Me.Boy.my BFF. U do the math. I really like this boy but he likes my bestest bud, but she likes a boy who likes me! Y cant we all just get what we want.? How can I get the boy I like to like me so my bff can have the boy she likes too and everyone is happy? (link)
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I think you should always put your friends first. let her be happy and you will be happy. also talk to her about it see if she really likes him or the other guy. good luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?! (link)
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you don't have to shower infront of girls unless you are in a sport. but then I don't think you need to. and plus its not a big deal they don't look at you. they don't watn to see you as much as you don't want to see you. good luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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I'm 15 years old & I have an over protective mom. She makes sure my shirt doesn't show my chest at all and my pants do not show any of my underwear. She barely even lets me out with my friends! I mean, its summer and I wanna stay out late with my friends alot. Its not like I have to study or get up early for school! I just want to have a little more freedom since I'm getting older and have always been responsible and never got into too much trouble. What should I do? (link)
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you should deffently talk to your about it. you really need some freedom. my mom was the same why. talk to her and see how it goes. Iam not sure if she will let your clothes go any shorter or anything but if you you talk to her you never know what could happen
Good Luck hope this works!
*~*Crystal*~*
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Well my really good friend doesnt like my new friends what should i do? she always talks bad about them. (link)
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I think that if she doesnt like your friends she is not a true friend. . .true friends wouldnt talk bad about the friends that you have she would understand that things are not ever going to change. and you really need to talk to her about it and tell her that things are not going to change and you are going to be there for her even if she doesnt really want you too
Hope this works for you! good luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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im 14 and well ppl always tells me im pretty...but yet no one likes me...i mean if im so pretty why doesn't n e one like me? i mean i don't get it...and i have friends...so it must mean im not awful or weird...i think im nice...plzz help! i just really really dont get it....so could you help me please!?
~Melissa (link)
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melissa you are 14 you have you whole life infront of you and you don't need a man right now. but you might be so cool that they want you as friends and nothing more. I know how it is. but trust me you don't need a man at all! live you life hunny. hope this works good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
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If I was you I wouldnt worrie about him get a new man. he is not worth yur time if he is not going to talk to you and he thre for you. so forget him. he is stupid. tell him he is cut hope this works good luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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Im a girl and 14...I use to go out with this guy Manuel. We went out for almost 5 months. We were really serious, and we were crazy for each other. At school we were the couple everyone wanted to be. Well...he had told me he loved me. Which might seem kind of weird because we only went out for 5th months of so but he did, and even my mother knew he did. He was great because he would do ANYTHING what so ever for me. I love him I do. But...a while ago we broke up. Because of his bestfriend...which is also my ex.Well i broke up with him, he was really upset. Well he did go out with this one girl Katie but they didnt last. At tha end of this last school year we started talking. After 3 1/2 months of no talking at all. Well i invited him over to go swimming in my pool n later that night we had been flirting alot but then he siad we needed to talk n told me he didnt want to be in a serious realtionship with me. I was really upset but i didnt let it show. We talked fer tha next week on tha phone. And tha least time we talked I had found out that tha previous night he was at his ex-girlfriends house. I got mad but didnt let it show. I havent talked to him now for...almost a month. I still love him n i miss him so much. But im not sure what to do...??????? (link)
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Hunny you have your whole life infront of you and you should not get to deep in the boi thing but. I think you should talk to him and see what he has to say. tell him that you still love him and you want to be together and work things out. you never know what happened at his ex's house maybe they were just hanging out. so don't give up if you want your man back then you can get him back all you have to do is tell him how you feel. hope this helps
Good Luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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well i like this one guy and i think he like me! we talk all the time like on the internet and phone. i asked him one day on the internet if he likes me and didnt answer and signed off! does that mean he and is probebly to shy to answer or he doesnt like me??? (link)
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well if you guys have a good relationship then I am sure he likes you, maybe his computers a POS and got kicked off or was to shy to asnswer as you said. I think you should ask him in person. but tell him that you like him to so he don't feel like maybe she just wants to know. so yeah hope it works out Good Luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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I'm stuck between two guys.. I don't know which one to choose even tho I already go out with one of them. Before I started going out with boy 1, my friend introduced me to boy 2 and things were going great. Then, I went to hershey park with boy 1 (and the rest of my school) and we hit it off! we went of every ride together and he was being such a sweetheart (and still is) and we cuddled the whole ride home! After that, we started going out. The day after we started going out I left for soccer camp and the beach, so I was gone for 2 weeks. When i came back I was hanging out with boy 1 alot and everything was going great... and then I saw boy 2 the other day at the pool.. and OMG he looked so cute! I've started talking to boy 2 a lot now.. i still talk to boy 1 a lot tho.. I'm confused about who i like more tho. I really like my boyfriend, but then i remember that if i hadnt started going out with him I'd be going out with boy 2. boy 2 still has feelings for me.. he was asking about me while i was gone and i do like him too. Boy 2 is also a year older than me, not that it makes a difference. but i like that he's older.. and its not like he's some older badboy, he's a nice guy. I'm just not sure if i should stick with my boyfriend for the summer, or break up with him and be single for the rest of the summer so i can have both, or stay with him and just flirt with boy 2 still? HELP ME! (link)
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hell cheat on him lol I am so just kidding don't do that!! I think that you should talk to boi 1 and see if he would mind if you were friends and you can still hang out. and tell him that you really like anouther guy. tell him the turth. if you lie to him it will bit you in the ass. just talk to him. and tell that other fool that you like him and you want to try to hit it off with him and see what he has to say I would talk to boi 2 first b/c if he says no you can always go to boi 1 so yeah don't try to lose them both lol hope this helps.
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I am sure that this question has been asked before but I'd like some answers pertaining to my exact situation. I ussually hate online advice forums, but thougth I'd give it a try before I critisize it. Ok, so enough, here's my problem.
My best friend is a girl. She (and I) are 15 years old. I've known her for about two years now. We have been through so much together and help eachother out in so many ways that I see our friendship permanent unless I personally screw it up. When we first met, I immediatly liked her and wanted to date her. When I found out she felt the same way, I planned on asking her out. But some stupid girl found out that she liked me and proclaimed it to the school and also wrote a letter from me (which I didn't write) to her asking her out. Then this menace of a girl embarrased her in front of the entire cafeteria by starting a chant of "ask her out (then my name)". After that, we just became friends and never really brought it up again. It's been two years since then and we have both had at least one boyfriend or girlfriend. I am starting to really like her and it haints me that we never even gave it a shot. But I am not sure if she likes me more than a best friend or if she would agree to go out with me. She is the only person I trust and I can't give her up as a friend, which is why I haven't risked our friendship by asking her out. So, where do I go? What do I do? What do I tell her? What will she say? If she refuses to go out with me, will our friendship be awkward and ruined? (link)
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to tell you the turth i think she would give it a try! you never know tell you ask her or tell her that you still got feelings for her and you want to get together and see how it goes. you guys have been friends for a long time and you guys tryed it once and someone ruined it for you. I really think you should confront her and tell her how you feel. to answer your questions. . . . . you go to her, you talk to her about gettin together, that you like her and you want to see if you can be better then bestfriends and try the boyfriend girlfriend thing again, I am not sure but i think she will be more then happy, I don't think so I think you guys will still be best of friends! hope this all works out for you. good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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I am 14 and i am a female. I like this guy and he likes this grl that everyone likes bc she has a butt, a tan, and she is pretty. She is a ditze and sometimes has no clue about anything. She has a boyfriend but is having trouble relizing that he treats her like crap and there r tons of guys who will take her any day. me and this guy r friends and when we were in school, we flirted alot. now that we r out of school we talk online, but dont flirty as much. the most he ever say to me is "OK?'. I wonder what has happened and what i cna do 4 him to pay more attention to me and get things back to normal. pleez help!!! (link)
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I think you sould totaly talk to him and start up a convo see what he likes and see if you like the same thing. also be streight up with him and ask him if anything has changed between you two b/c maybe something has changed and see if there is anything you can do about it! hope i helped you in anyway!
*~*Crystal*~*
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I am learning to play the drums... is there anyway i could play All my life by KC and JOJO on the drums? (link)
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well I don't think i am the perfent person to ask saying I don't play the drums but if you put your heart into it i am sure you can play any somg you want. hope it works out for you good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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Okay well I have this friend Casey that is reallie jealous of me bcuz I know alot of guys and I have a bf and all.Casey goes around calling me the worse names in the book like c*nt and sl*t and a whore and all.ANd the funny thing is I only have one bf and she likes spreading rumor to everyone so now my bestfriend is mad at me bcuz Casey said I fucked her bf and now I dont know what to do and evening Stephaine bf told her that we didnt have sex which we didnt and now I dont know how for her not to be mad at me:(So please help what should I do:(
-Kimmy (link)
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Kimmy,
sounds like you are a really sweet girl and you don't need a friend that is going to say shitbehind your back. if you boyfriend likes you then he wonrt believe you and you really need to tell her that she is jealous of you two and wants to be with him and if he likes you then he will totaly understand. for her you need to confront her and tell her to stop her shit talking and that she needs to get over it b/c she knows as well as you do that you are not a slut and a cunt and she needs to stop her sit. hope this helps you out good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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one of my really good friends (shes 14) has been having sex with this one guy for over a year now. she used to be going out with the guy, and not she's not, but she's still having sex with him. she's been hurt before because of this guy, and i just don't want her to get hurt again or get into a bad situation. she has b.c. but sometimes forgets to take it and doesn't read the instructions on how to make up for lost pills. i don't want her to mess up her life at such a young age. any advice on the topic would be great. thx. (link)
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you really need to tell her that she is way to young to be having sex and needs to stop you are a great friend to be worries about her but you really need to make her stop and also talk to the guy and tell him if he keeps having sex with her then he might get in some really deep shit that he cant get his ass out of! and tell her the same thing! hope this works good luck!
*~*Crystal*~*
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