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A big guy problem.
Im a girl and 14...I use to go out with this guy Manuel. We went out for almost 5 months. We were really serious, and we were crazy for each other. At school we were the couple everyone wanted to be. Well...he had told me he loved me. Which might seem kind of weird because we only went out for 5th months of so but he did, and even my mother knew he did. He was great because he would do ANYTHING what so ever for me. I love him I do. But...a while ago we broke up. Because of his bestfriend...which is also my ex.Well i broke up with him, he was really upset. Well he did go out with this one girl Katie but they didnt last. At tha end of this last school year we started talking. After 3 1/2 months of no talking at all. Well i invited him over to go swimming in my pool n later that night we had been flirting alot but then he siad we needed to talk n told me he didnt want to be in a serious realtionship with me. I was really upset but i didnt let it show. We talked fer tha next week on tha phone. And tha least time we talked I had found out that tha previous night he was at his ex-girlfriends house. I got mad but didnt let it show. I havent talked to him now for...almost a month. I still love him n i miss him so much. But im not sure what to do...???????
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You have so many other oppertunities infront of you, so dont spend all your time worrying about Manuel. I can understand you miss him and still love him, but there are so many more fish in the sea. You just need to get out there and explore. So best of luck
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wow this is crazy. i was in this exact position as u. and *this is creepy* his name was manuel. lol well we broke up last october & we still talk & everything & every once in awhile well still kiss. & to this day i still love him with all my heart. i member hed come over & wed kiss & be all over each other then when hed leave hed be like k im gonna go over to my friends house ( which always was an ex gf)& i always cried but i loved him so much id let him get away with it. & it happened over & over again. now hes moving to florida & to this day i have never said goodbye to him. just the other nite it kicked in that he was leavin & i cried all nite even though im datin this other guy. alot of his friends would tell me that he liks me still & stuff. see manuel was a big player. when he had a gf it was 2 weeks max, but when we were together it was for like 3 months,so everyone knew that he truely loved me. i still am not over him & i really dont know wut to think. all i really know is that we loved each other but bc of *someone* we broke up. idk if i answered ur question but ur not alone. and its gonna take awhile to get over him just surround ur self with friends and get a new bf it does help sum. good luck
kristi
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He sounds like a guy I know, *looks over shoulder* Trust me He isn't worth it.
Your doing exactly what I did. Trust me he is just going to keep on playing you, Thats exactly what he is doing to you Playing you.
I know its hard to think of ever getting over him, But you will. Try to do things that make you not think of him. I know that he may be on your mind all the time but what you need to do focus on the postives and slowing but surely he will dissapate from you mind and you will be able to have a real relationship with a great guy.
Just keep busy and don't go around watching tear jerker movies like I did. BAD IDEA!
Good Luck *HUGS*
I'm always here if you need help!
sincerely
advice~gurl
kat
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Hunny you have your whole life infront of you and you should not get to deep in the boi thing but. I think you should talk to him and see what he has to say. tell him that you still love him and you want to be together and work things out. you never know what happened at his ex's house maybe they were just hanging out. so don't give up if you want your man back then you can get him back all you have to do is tell him how you feel. hope this helps
Good Luck
*~*Crystal*~*
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he is scared you will dump him again so thats probally why he dosent want to get serious with you i feel you should talk ot him about how YOU FEEL
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Just try to move on, it will be hard, but try... It's not worth waiting around for something that isn't gonna happen you know? There are plenty of other guys out there... Just be patient and one will come along for you
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well im realy not sure what to tell you lol. im kinda confused why you broke up with him and what his best friend had to do with it but i think you should tell him that your sorry and that you want another chance and if he saids no, well your only 14 youll have plenty of time to meet other guys! i know it may seem like the end of the world but things will get better. time heals wounds
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