Hey i was jus hoping some one could help me. well u se ive been hanging out with this guy alot and weve made out and done some other things. but were not goin out more like *together*.ok so here the problem. my x boyfriend jus broke up with his girlfriend and hes just been some one i could always talk to. and he other nite we were hanging out and did some shit. so woul that make me a cheater? and should i tell the guy im together with. it was jus a one time thing but i dont regret it.ne advice is good! thankx!
Mackenzie answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 2:56 am: I don't think it classifies you as a "cheater", but perhaps if you could so easily forget about the guy you currently like [even if temporaily]... you didn't like him as much as you THOUGHT you had. On the other hand, you're not dating this guy, so you don't have any obligations to be faithful. If you still feel you have something with the current guy you like... why don't you do something about it? Why don't you ask him out? Hopefully then you'll be able to control your hormones and remain faithful to him. No one likes being hurt -- try to think of others. Hopefully this helped. Goodluck, and take care! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Lizzy answered Tuesday July 13 2004, 1:04 am: It wouldn't make you a cheater, more like a player. I think you should tell him sooner rather then later because then the tension won't build and it's more likely that he'll be less upset if you tell him now. Make sure you tell him that the other guy meant nothing to you and you really care about him
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MissJ1414 answered Monday July 12 2004, 9:00 pm: Follow your heart and do what you think is rite and then don't worry about what the other guy says. Be true to yourself first then worry about what the guys think. But don't feel sorry for the guys if you did what you felt was rite. [ MissJ1414's advice column | Ask MissJ1414 A Question ]
united_python_cheerleader answered Monday July 12 2004, 8:52 pm: well it depends on what kind of stuff he did and no your not a cheater unless you went along with it then yes you are a cheater and yes you should tell the guy you are with about this
Roxybabii922 answered Monday July 12 2004, 8:46 pm: Well you weren't really together, so I wouldn't really consider that cheating, maybe to the guy you were "together" with might think so but I dunno... Just keep it on the low... It's not like you are officially boyfriend and girlfriend yet [ Roxybabii922's advice column | Ask Roxybabii922 A Question ]
LoNeLyYxSOuL answered Monday July 12 2004, 8:43 pm: ok let me think... your *hanging out* with this guy and you do things with him but your not going out. and your ex boyfriend and you did some things too and since your not going out with the guy you hang out with then its not cheating. if the guy and you were going out then it would be and if you wanna tell him that you did stuff with your ex boyfriend thats your buisness. [ LoNeLyYxSOuL's advice column | Ask LoNeLyYxSOuL A Question ]
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