im just your average teen who has been through almost everything. ask nething personal or stupid it doesnt matter.
E-mail: cali_candysd@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: san diego
Occupation: high school
AIM: calicandysd
Member Since: June 5, 2004
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i've decided to start scrunching my hair, but see..my hairs really really curly, so if i let it dry naturally it juss poofs & i can't seem to get the 'wet look' & i'm not totally sure what to do, so if anyone has any tips er anything to help, its an easy 5 =)
thanks! (link)
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alright so.. i use aussie products.. cheap but works great...alright i take moouse and scrunhc my hair up with that.. then i let it dry just a lil .. probably 10 minutes.. then i use Aussie spray in the aerosal can.. the red i think medium hold.. and spray that alll over then after about aanother 10 - 15 minutes i go back and lightly spray it again to get that finished look.. it works really good. and if u use a tiny bit of BioSilk before you do anything to your hair.. when its wet.. it helps alot with the frizzyness..
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Hey, I've been using tampons for a little while now and it's kind of weird! Are you supposed to feel a little uncomfortable wearing them if there still new to you? Do you think they feel that way because it's not up far enough or something? I know I put it in right, but I still feel a little discomfort when there in! What's wrong? (link)
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ya the first few times usin a tampon is kinda weird but maybe start out with smaller tampons like the slim ones or ones made for teens. make sure u get it up there far enuff cuz if its not sumtimes itll feel uncomforatable
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~Hey I have this cutting problem. I just always wish someone would take me away from this world. My parents just kicked me out...once for smoking pot and sex...and the other reason is becuz they didnt want me. Right before this happened I caught my almost husband in the bed with 2 otha gurls.I almost married him at 17!! I got a new bf though. That is the ONLY reason I am still her. I am living wit him for now. I tried commiting suicide once but my bf stopped me. Life just keeps getting worse. I cut myself to releave myself from deppresion, anger, and nething else. I want to stop cutting myself becuz my bf doesnt like me doing it. I was raped by my ex's friend(my ex set it all up)and my bf doesnt know yet. I am anirexic(food disorder). I am 5'6, 92lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, white wit a tan. Pls help me stop cutting myself~ (link)
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babe well i know that u know this is serious and im so happy that u want to stop. i know it may not seem like it but u have so many people that care for u. i dont even know u but i wanna do everything that i can to help. obviously there is alot to ur life that is making u stressed out and makin u feel like this. i used to try to kill myself bc nothing in my life was going right. by the time i was 15 i was an alcoholic, addicted to pot, taking speed,having sex, got pregnant, had a miscarriage, lost all my friends bc of my bad habits, and i lost my bf and 4 of my closest friends in a car accident. it seems like i didnt even have a life nemore so i would always over dose on pills, one time i ended up in the hospital and was in accoma for like 3 days. thats when i really realized how screwed up what i was doing was. so i just tried my hardest to find new friends and i talked to a councelor about it. my bf really helped too. when ever id get the urge to take pills hed make me talk about how i was feeling and why i wanted to do it. so what helped me is keeping friends around me and not putting myself in positions where there would be alot of the stuff i was trying to get away from. with ur ex idk wut to really say bout him except hes a jerk. just stay away from him he treated u so bad and u deserve so much better. so let me know how things r going and i hope i helped and i hope im not too late.
sorry if this was late i was gone all weekend.
kristi
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i have been having some problems with my friend. we were best friends but we could never trust each other and she is annoying. so her sis has a s/n on this site and i asked her a couple of questions to her about my friend. so later on my friend thought my site was cool and she wanted me to fix up hers so she let me and then she is like lemme answer questions on yours and i said ok but that is all you can do dont look at ne thing else and dont touch ne thing and i am really trusting you. (no clue how i could) and she looked at my freaking questions and one was about her and it was to her sister! and i was so mad and then she told me she found out and i was like idk because i trusted you 4 once and you lied to (thats normal) and then she is like well is this what you think about me?? all i said was is that somedays i dont wanna be friends with her because she is annoying sometimes and she never listens to me when i tell her to stop doing something and she is hyper active like always!. and i meant every word of it. and i dont no what i should do because i want to be her friend still.
jonelle (link)
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hey babe sry i didnt get back to u sooner!!
well this kinda sounds like a friend that i had once. so what i did was i tried not to hang out with her as much, i didnt ditch her or nething i just hung out with different people more. but when ever we did hang out if she started to get annoying and lieing id just tell her and id be like hey u know wut .... blahblah and id tell her exactly how i was feeling and just tell her that if she keeps breaking the trusting bond between u two then u cant be friends with her bc it hurts when u cant trust a good friend like this. just tell her trust is what makes a friendship work. so maybe then she realize that shell be losing a good friend and shell try to change. it may take a while cuz i mean people cant change over nite. so after u tell her and she does it again just remind her in a polite way and hopefully itll work. this is how i fixed my problemo. well im gonna be at camping at the beach all weekend so i wont be able to answer ne questions til like monday. so good luck
kristi
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I just moved into my new house and I want my room to be really cute! Do you have any ideas on decorating it? ThAnKs! (link)
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u should do a theme. like i did my room betty boop it looks awesome!!! just paint it a color or two. if u pic a darker color and u want to lighten it up do the faux painting
(sponge painting)
or my friend josh did his room in jack daniels theme. he painted his room black and then put posters up and went to spencers and got sum like lights and stuff from there. good luck
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Hey! my hair use to be really healthy..i use die it and i strighten it.. do u no of ne hair product to give my life back to my hair...~XOXO~ (link)
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my friend kayla colors her hair every week and straightens it everyday. she uses MATRIX and so do i. her hair looks great and i always get like 5 compliments a day on my hair. so try that i think u can only get it at salons. idk cuz she always get it for me.
kristi
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Im a girl and 14...I use to go out with this guy Manuel. We went out for almost 5 months. We were really serious, and we were crazy for each other. At school we were the couple everyone wanted to be. Well...he had told me he loved me. Which might seem kind of weird because we only went out for 5th months of so but he did, and even my mother knew he did. He was great because he would do ANYTHING what so ever for me. I love him I do. But...a while ago we broke up. Because of his bestfriend...which is also my ex.Well i broke up with him, he was really upset. Well he did go out with this one girl Katie but they didnt last. At tha end of this last school year we started talking. After 3 1/2 months of no talking at all. Well i invited him over to go swimming in my pool n later that night we had been flirting alot but then he siad we needed to talk n told me he didnt want to be in a serious realtionship with me. I was really upset but i didnt let it show. We talked fer tha next week on tha phone. And tha least time we talked I had found out that tha previous night he was at his ex-girlfriends house. I got mad but didnt let it show. I havent talked to him now for...almost a month. I still love him n i miss him so much. But im not sure what to do...??????? (link)
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wow this is crazy. i was in this exact position as u. and *this is creepy* his name was manuel. lol well we broke up last october & we still talk & everything & every once in awhile well still kiss. & to this day i still love him with all my heart. i member hed come over & wed kiss & be all over each other then when hed leave hed be like k im gonna go over to my friends house ( which always was an ex gf)& i always cried but i loved him so much id let him get away with it. & it happened over & over again. now hes moving to florida & to this day i have never said goodbye to him. just the other nite it kicked in that he was leavin & i cried all nite even though im datin this other guy. alot of his friends would tell me that he liks me still & stuff. see manuel was a big player. when he had a gf it was 2 weeks max, but when we were together it was for like 3 months,so everyone knew that he truely loved me. i still am not over him & i really dont know wut to think. all i really know is that we loved each other but bc of *someone* we broke up. idk if i answered ur question but ur not alone. and its gonna take awhile to get over him just surround ur self with friends and get a new bf it does help sum. good luck
kristi
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well tommorrow is my ex's birthday an we madd tite after we broke up an my other friend joe.. is sellin dime bags.. an my ex (nick) wants one so im kinda gettin in da middle of this drug shit an i just dont wana get cought the problem is that nick moved to ohio an im in Ny... am i alloud to send it or will they find it? how do i get it to him? i really like him an hes my bestfriend an everything but i dunno wuh ta do!! plz help nicks b=day is tommorrow! (link)
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number one rule of drug selling is NEVER send drugs through the mail. someone is bound to find out wut it is. trust me i got caught up in the whole dealin thing and its not cool u could easlily get arrested and thrown into jail or juvi. if he wants the goods that bad then he can get sum where he lives.
kristi
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well after seeing my ex yesterday.....today when we were talking he keeps on talkin about other girls and everything and that they are cutter and prettier than me and it really hurts....he keeps on telling me how all the other girls are all over me and it really hurts b/c before i went to see him yesterday, he thought i waz da finnest gurl and sweetest and everything and now everything itz so weird...im so sad...wut do ya think????? am i not good enough for him :(?? he is not that fine but he is okay.... (link)
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babe u deserve sooo much better than him. he is obviously thinks hes a player and can get away with it, but really hes just insecure and he wants to make u jealous so that later on ull want to get back with him and hell think hes the king of the world. dont play his mind games, talk bout other guys when u talk to him. i know if u still have major feelings itll be hard but u cant llet him put u down like that. good luck
kristi
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Help please the last time I wrote to you people was in about March in Oregon... I had run away and was heading for Canada and asked what I should do and most of you said go back but I didn't listen... I'm from California and ive ridden my bike all the way to washington... i'm badly fucked up... I feel really sick... what should I do... I don't want to go back... but I want to feel good again... i've had to steal food, steal things to survive.... anyways i'm on a computer in an internet cafe... please help... what should I do? (link)
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go home. ya u mite be in trouble but at lesat u wont have to steal food. i mean it cant be that bad at home. or go live with a friend. u cant live like that forever. good luck girl.
kristi
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okay.. i have been wondering about this.. do you have to shave {down there}? do guys prefer? which is most common? sorry im very curious! lol (link)
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well u dont have to shave down there. but most of the guys i know do want it shaved. they dont care if u shave every day or if there is sum stubble though. its also good to shave if u have more hair down there bc if ur wearin a bathing suit u might be able to see it at the beach, or like in the locker rooms. sum options r to wax, which hurts realllly bad, or just shave. good luck
kristi
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what does it mean when you ask someone what's their sign?{{try to be descriptive please}} (link)
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when some one asks whats ur sign.. they want to know ur astrological sign thing, like say for instance, im a gemini..this "line" is also one of the cheesiest pick up lines out there. lol so unless this guy is abercromie cute just ignore him. lol
kristi
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i am 14 years old.. i am 5'7 and i weight about 125 pounds!! am i fat? am i above average?? cuz i am worrying about my weight! (link)
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no ur r actually below average. the normal weight for a 14 yr old who is 5'7" is like 140. im 5'8" and i weigh 140 at first i thought i was fat too but then i asked my doctor and he showed me a chart thingy, and ur r just perfect.. so dont worry about it!!!
kristi
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There is a guy I like his name is PJ but Im not sure If he likes me.WE hang out together we share snacks we are both afraid to go off the highdive and we always want to sit next to eachother are we better off as friends or should I start flirting more?? (link)
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well just bc u guys have alot in common doesnt mean u shoud go out. try flirting alittle and if he flirts back then maybe he has feelings for u. dont over do it, that way it wont get weird and if nothing happens u 2 will still be good friends. alot of times guys flirt on accident. like when a guy hugs a girl sumtimes its just a firnedly hug but to us girls it likes " omg he likes me" so just be carful and im sure everything will be great!! good luck
kristi
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i'm 15, and ever since 420 i started smoking weed. i want to stop but it seems like eveyrtime i try to more coms around and i'm like no i'l stop but i odnt. i do want to thouhg but idk what todo.. i really like it (link)
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well i know how hard it can be to stop. i mean id stop for a few months then id start up again, but the way i HAD to stop was b/c i was arrested for smoking pot and being in possesion of. it totally screws up ur life when ur arrested. now its gonna be so hard to find a job and earn peoples trust back and i lost some good friends over this. just dont put urself in a position where theres gonna be pot. i know itll be hard but if u get offered just make up sum lame excuse like" i gotta hang out with my dad or my mom" it works. u may get laughed at but its better than alot of the stuff im going trough... good luck with it
kristi
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i'm a girl and i want this guy to be my boyfriend..what do i do?
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well chick u need to get to know him better and hang out with each other in groups first then after awhile ask if he wants to go somewhere together. take it slow with him, dont rush things cuz it may not be meant to be. flirt with him but not obsessivly.good luck!!
kristi
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well i like this guy, we go to church together but that thing is that i told him that i liked him but he doesn't liked me, but even know i know he doesn't like me i can't get over him i have try so badly but i can't and we still friends, but i really love him and i need a advice of how can i get over him (link)
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well ive gone through something like this.
i liked this one guy collin like forever but hes always been on and off with my friend. i just hung out with my friends alot and went out with different guys, then eventually i got over him, now collin and me are best friends. trust me everything will work out for the best...
kristi
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Has anyone here gotten there tonsils out? If so, what's the best food to eat other than ice cream? I just got mine out 2 days ago and nothing tastes good and I'm in pain -__-|| (link)
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hmm well i got mine out when i was a lil kid but some good things to eat are soup, yogurt, ice cream, and ... idk thats all i can really think of rite now. i just had my wisdom teeth pulled like 4 months ago and for like 5 days i was on the soup and ice cream diet. it sux and i havnt eaten soup or ice cream since. lol but hope u feel better!!!
kristi
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ok i had sex, ok well i tryed to have sex with my boyfriend and i love him so much and he loves me, i mean he said he wasnt mad or anything but it hurt! so i had to make him stop, how many times is this goin to hurt?! kuz i really wana do it with him. he said it wasnt my fault and it was ok but still! i mean come on ,so how long do u think it will hurt before we can do it? plz help lol* thanks (link)
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well the first few times it hurts and gradually the pain goes away. but by havin him finger you by starting with one finger then go up to two then three if u can. that will help ease the pain so it doesnt hurt as much or at all during sex
kristi
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how far do ya'll think is the best to go in a relationship of 5 months. (link)
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well first of all how old are you? if you are too young then i really dont think that you should be going all the way. its really up to you and your partner. talk to each other and make sure you both are ready for this.
kristi
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