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*~cAuStIons~* it hurt
ok i had sex, ok well i tryed to have sex with my boyfriend and i love him so much and he loves me, i mean he said he wasnt mad or anything but it hurt! so i had to make him stop, how many times is this goin to hurt?! kuz i really wana do it with him. he said it wasnt my fault and it was ok but still! i mean come on ,so how long do u think it will hurt before we can do it? plz help lol* thanks
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Ouch...I feel your pain. Literally. *sends sympathy in your direction.*
Lol. For me, it hurt the first two times, and the beginning of the third. After that, it was perfectly fine.
The problem with me was that I never used tampons, or fingered myself or anything, so it wasn't stretched, like, at all. and he's BIG. If the guy's big and you're a virgin, chances are it's gonna hurt a few times.
Try to relax. It helps the pain a little bit. Make sure he's gentle. It actually might not hurt anymore after this. Don't be surprised if it does, though. Brace yourself for pain...then if it doesn't hurt, rejoice! Lol. Good luck!
-Siren =)
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well the first few times it hurts and gradually the pain goes away. but by havin him finger you by starting with one finger then go up to two then three if u can. that will help ease the pain so it doesnt hurt as much or at all during sex
kristi
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could take a few times, try having him finger you, ALOT
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ok usually its only the first time (thats wut happened to me) and then the second time its still A LITTLE BIT painful but nothing at all compared to the first. i think that if u want to u should try it and make sure to use protection im really sure this time u wont make him stop
here to help, luvs ya *ANABEL*
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This is quite common, it usually hurts the first time because your vagina is being "stretched" however it usually doesn't hurt after the first time. Good luck!
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