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Yo, wazzup. My name is Matt, I am no longer single, but i shall talk to any one taht still wants to, anyways, I have experienced many things and i am quite knowledgable. I do not judge any one, if you ask me for advice i shall simply give it to you.
Ive taken a look at the categories they have, im pretty good with all of them, minus the stuff that would have to do with adults, so even though my fav category isnt wat your asking doesnt mean i wont answere.
So i guess if ya gots a Problem, jus tell me bout it and ill do the best i can! :-)

P.S. in the pic im the white kid, greg is like my best friend.
E-mail: Anubis989_4life@hotmail.com
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Location: NC
Occupation: unemployed
Age: 17
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k theres this guy that is like obsessed with my butt. he thinks hes slik and tries to touch my butt and asks me out and does stuff to me in front of my mom! i don't like him and i don't kno how to get him off my back. i like his friend A LOT. i just don't kno wut to do cus his friend is so fine but i hate hurting ppls feelings like that ya kno by going out with their friend. what should i do? (link)
well it kinda souns like this one guy is a complete ass so i wouldnt have a problem with you hurting his feeling. if he isnt really an ass jus tell him to back off, an if he dont listen well hten tell him to fuk off. now with his friend. find out if he likes you. if he does i say go for it. it might hurt the other guy but it will get him off you.


ok hey im 14 n im very confused!!!! u c i really like this guy, hes ur typical bad-ass smokes,drinks, fights, gets arrested n all that crap... well i relly though he liked me bcuz he told me he LOVED me and he was very sweet to me n everything... im very stupid as i know now bcuz i lost my virginity to him!!!!!! that was in february!! i felt like it was right at that moment but now i regret it all!EVERYTHING I TOLD HIM N DID WITH HIM most of all cuz he told his friends i was "easy" n now i have a rep! i am always saying that all that is b/s that i never did ne thing with him but still not all of the ppl beleive me! but after all the shit he put me thru is like my heart doesnt want to forget him!!! i still really like him i dunno if its bcuz hes always with his cuzin n his cuzin n me r best friends so i gota c him all the time n then hes till calls n asks me stuff like "so u still fucking guys?" or "i heard so n so wanna fuck u, should i kick their asses?" hes STUPID N I WANNA HATE HIM SO BAD 4 ALL THE SHIT HE DID TO ME WAY TOO MUCH TO MENTION BUT Y DO I FEEL LIKE I STILL LIKE HIM????(by the way i was pregnant but had a miscarrige n he was the dad) ineve told him though. n last time we were talking he was telling me he never knew how pretty my eyes were!! wut kind of b/s is that? IM CONFUSED WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
um, hes not a good person you should be around let alone date. GET THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM.


ok i met this girl named jessie last summer and like over the school eyar and stuff we got really tight i mean people would swear we were lieing when we told them we wern't going out well since like jan she has been like hangin around this this other really stupid chick who does alot of bad stuff and she kinda gets around well i am afriad that jessie is startin to act like her well not really act like her but pick up her bad habbits and like when ever she is in a jam she calls me when ever she needs money ASAP she calls me needs a place to stay she picks up the phone i go and get her my self but like i think i am kinda startin to like her i mean we flirt a whole lot as is but i dunno how to tell her i like her cause one i think she is way outta my league and two with her past i dunno if i wanna get involved but i like her more then i have ever liked people i was goin out with and well it would just be kinda odd if i just came out and told her so i am wondering what i should do
do i ? take my chances with her past and just come out and tell her i like her or should i just let things be so as to not get mixed up in all that or should i attempt to like beat around the bush that i like her even more then she knows?

i really like her and i would like to go out with her and just maybe it would also help her keep clear of some of her other problems?
WHAT DO I DO!
15/M (link)
well, if you liek her find out if she likes you. dont beat around the bush that just longer to find things out. and if you guys dont start to date well it seems you got a good relationship going on so at least you still got that


ok i had sex, ok well i tryed to have sex with my boyfriend and i love him so much and he loves me, i mean he said he wasnt mad or anything but it hurt! so i had to make him stop, how many times is this goin to hurt?! kuz i really wana do it with him. he said it wasnt my fault and it was ok but still! i mean come on ,so how long do u think it will hurt before we can do it? plz help lol* thanks (link)
could take a few times, try having him finger you, ALOT


well to make it kinda short i do drungs. not all the time but i do get high. Well. it seems like thast the only time i can get horny. i mean i know what i'm doing but thats the only time i get "in the mood" and when i'm not i still like making out with my bf. but i'm not horny. and it seems like i dont want ot do anything.. is this normal.. (link)
well it could be that ur that way naturally, alot of ppl when thier high they get really sociable cos they not scared to do anything. id say its some what normal yea.


Okay I put poems on here....and you guys said be careful putting them on here or someone will steal them...how do I make it so no one can steal them?? (link)
there isnt a way to prevent that


there is this boy that loves me but I don't love him and he keeps begging me to go out with him
what should I do?

Love
summer (link)
tell him to fuck off. you dont like him its not ment to be.


My and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 15 months and we have come close to have sex sooo many times... the only thing stopping us is that he doesnt have condoms. We both know that if he did, that we would probably end up doing something if we had the chance, but we are also both worried about pregnancy! Thats why we are hesitant about buying condoms.
I am 16 and he is 17.
What should i do? (link)
if you are really worried. you should go buy condoms, and then also get on birth conrtol.


ok... i like this boy and i think e likes me. sometimes we make like 1 second eye contact or like when we pass by eachother, i can feel a vibe. i gave my friend this note 2 give 2 him and he looked freaked out. so he asked me 2 days later if i wrote it, and i told him no because i guess he didn't like me. ever since said no, he started to bother me again like teasing me and stuff. school ends the 25 and i want 2 know if he likes me or not! plz help!!!!! (link)
be brave. go up to him and actually talk to him. find out for ur self if he does. and if he does then good. if he doesnt, then o-well.


Well... im 130 n im 13 yrs old n im 5'5/5'6 n i want to loose some weight... Im a very sporty girl like everyday i run n do basketball n situps n pushups n w/e else u can think of... My favorite food is salad... thats like all i eat n I want to loose at least 30 pds to be the little 100 pd girl... n i have 3 weeks til summer n i want to be able to wear a bakini n look cute in it.. not fat... im trying to loose my tummy because it bugs me... HELP!!!! (link)
your actually not fat. your more chubby. all you need to do is loose 20 lbs. heres wat you can do. walk 5 miles every day. work out as in lift weights, that work the stomach. and you dont really have to be a freak about what you eat just dont eat bags and bags of doritos and stuff like that.


I got pushed off this hill of woodchips n landed right on my back... I didn't notice at the time but i broke 2 of my ribs... Yes it hurt extremely bad but I wanted to be tough n finished school the rest of the day and actually attended basketball n played it. The physical trainer at my school made me lay on the gym floor and do streches to strech it out.She wouldn't listen to me because i told her i couldn't do that. She told me i had to do 100 times of the streches n now i suffer pain from that. Is there anyway to fix it? I went to the chiropractor. But that didn't work! HELP!! (link)
go to the doctor, broken ribs are usually handled by a doctor. not a chiropracter.


what is a g-string? (link)
its a type of underwear


i really want to go to canada. i want to just drop everything and go there. live my life in a cabin in the middle of the wilderness on a small lake and use a busch plane to get to town when i need to. i could drop eveything in my life and go and not have any regrets. except one. i have a girlfriend and i LOVE her a lot. i really do. im 16 and i could leave both my parents and everything else with out regrets except her. i feel like i have found true love. but on the other hand i feel like im 16 and dont know shit about love and live. i dont care how old you are, i just want to know what you think of my situation. (link)
buddy. ur 16. if you went to canada now and droped everything you would fail. miserably. keep wat you have. fini high school. go to college get some high degree. get a job that pays 200k a yr. save up for 5 yrs. THEN take ur gf and go live in canade in the wilderness.


So, yeah. I don't think I have ever felt so strongly for someone in my life...ever. I think I am experiencing love as much as I can at such a young age or, at least, something very close.

Various people (not me) have discussed this (he knows I am at least somewhat attracted) with him and appears to have no interest back.

What should I do? (link)
dont go off of just "appearing" to have no interest back. actually try and find out. if he doesnt then for all that its worth im sorry. but find out first.


Hi
I really dont know if Im inlove with this person but every day and night I cant stop thinking about him, he never met me before, but I really always thinking about him this gut is an actor. I know your thinking that this is just crush because his famous and popular because he really is a popular actor. I dont know but when im thinking about him I always think of a lot of good things like we will live happy and I will always protect him..and take care of him I know it's crazy but that's how I feel. im 13 years old and Im a girl... I think that I should forget about him but I know that it's not gonna hapen because his always in my heart...
If there's just something or someway that could help me forget about him I will do even though it's painful but I need to try..
I hope you can help me.
thank you... (link)
this may seem harsh but ye you do just have a serious crush on him. hes an actor, he alot older than prolly, you dont quite understand realtionships yet. ur not capable of understand wat the true meaning of love is yet. the best thing you can do is try dating real ppl that you can go out with. learn through experience wat you dont know. eventually ull forget him.


Hi. I am obsessed with anime and manga. Is there any way to turn myself into an anime character and jump into an anime?
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um i dont think so. ur on ur there

*youre on your own there*


My friend has been dating this guy (he's 15 and she's 13)and he wants her to sleep with him. She keeps asking me what to do, but i don't know what to tell her. I know she doesn't love him (i don't even think she likes him) and when ever i tell her what she doen't want to hear(like "no") she gets really mad and goes to our other friend who keeps telling her to do it(but she doesn't even know what she's taking about.) She asks me every day and i'm sick of it! Sometimes i just want to tell her to do it to get her off my back. Please Help! (link)
no not yet. she have hit puberty but jesus loosing ones virginity at 13. make her not do it. and if the bf dont understand then hes not into the relationship. hes just horny.


all my friends say im not fat but when we fight they say im fat an ulgy meanwile when we are friends dey say i look good an mad thin.. im 14 an 130 pounds an i think im really fatt! i tryed everything to lose weight but its not working! i was even thinking about throwing up my food :-/ all my other friends are really thing an are like only 65-95 pounds! it really sux! i really dont know what to do any more! iive even tryed to wear diffrent clothes!

-help! (link)
how tall are you?
130 lbs isnt really fat

lets put it this way
im 6'3" and i weigh 140 lbs
and im skinny as fuck


Okay so I like this guy and he used to be my b/f but now we're just friends. We went out for almost a year and I still like and I think he still likes me. I want to go out with him again what should I do? (link)
talk to him, find out if he still does like you, and if he does then go ut wit him.


i know i'm ready to have sex. but waht does it feel like.. please FILL me in!! (link)
its an indiscribable feeling. alli can say is make sure that your doing it with the person that actually feel is right.




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