Hi
I really dont know if Im inlove with this person but every day and night I cant stop thinking about him, he never met me before, but I really always thinking about him this gut is an actor. I know your thinking that this is just crush because his famous and popular because he really is a popular actor. I dont know but when im thinking about him I always think of a lot of good things like we will live happy and I will always protect him..and take care of him I know it's crazy but that's how I feel. im 13 years old and Im a girl... I think that I should forget about him but I know that it's not gonna hapen because his always in my heart...
If there's just something or someway that could help me forget about him I will do even though it's painful but I need to try..
I hope you can help me.
thank you...
Anubis989forlife answered Sunday June 20 2004, 11:37 pm: this may seem harsh but ye you do just have a serious crush on him. hes an actor, he alot older than prolly, you dont quite understand realtionships yet. ur not capable of understand wat the true meaning of love is yet. the best thing you can do is try dating real ppl that you can go out with. learn through experience wat you dont know. eventually ull forget him. [ Anubis989forlife's advice column | Ask Anubis989forlife A Question ]
QBillion answered Sunday June 20 2004, 11:07 pm: Forget about him. He is famous. Even if he did meet you, he probably has a girlfriend. Try to focus on the guys at your school. People you meet and like.
Good Luck - QBillion [ QBillion's advice column | Ask QBillion A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Sunday June 20 2004, 11:06 pm: Yes, I think it's a crush. I've had a few exactly like yours, just with girls. The way you can tell is that you don't even really know him. if you think you can be friends with someone without these strong feelings then it might be love. Of course, there are instances where this isn't true. When you fall in love, you'll know. It's something totally different. What I think you should do is try to think about guys in your area. When you are thinking about him, try something that requires your undivided attention. Good luck. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
FernGully answered Sunday June 20 2004, 10:39 pm: Oh wow yea, totally relate, sorta. Actors are not only waaaay attractive but their also portrayed in the best possible way - the hero, saviour, kicking ass kind of way that every girl loves.
You get these little infatuations about actors where you think that MAYBE one day you'll just magically cross paths and he'll fall in love with you or something.
This isn't reality though, and those actors aren't really knights in shining armour. They may look good and act great, but that isn't them. Thats the problem with becoming infatuated with someone from TV or movies. You really don't know them, and you don't know their personality. You think you are in love with them but all you know is what they look like and the roles they play. Try and remember that. Focus on people you really know, people that are real. You're allowed to have your fantasies and you are theres no problem thinking about actors because, well, it happens. But don't get obsessed and don't let it go too far. Stick to reality and the people around you. The people who know you and the people who you know.
This infatuation will pass, they always do. Give it some time. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
MapleAdvice11 answered Sunday June 20 2004, 10:24 pm: Look at the guys in your school, focus on guys you know. And maybe you won't forget about him at first, but if you start to notice other guys you know it will be easier to think less about him and more about them. [ MapleAdvice11's advice column | Ask MapleAdvice11 A Question ]
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