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Hi and welcome. My name is Taylor, and i just want to let you know that if you don't want to anyone to know your question, i won't tell them. Well tell your friends about me. Thanx
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okay, well me and my husband got married like almost a year ago. the problem is im ready to have kids, but he says he doesn't want to have kids..ever! i really love him, and we have so much in common and we always have fun together, but this is like the first thing we have disagreed on and i really don't no what to do. please help. (link)
Maybe foster a child then maybe he will fall in love with it and maybe adopt it. or you can talk to him and ask why he doesn't want a kid. I am be 11, but i know that a child brings a marriage closer together. It worked for my mom and dad. I was adopted, and my family couldn't be closer. Maybe a child would make everthing better. Tell him that and see what happens.


so my good friend jack is going out w/ my x-girlfriend and they are IN LOVE. well me and his gf Liz are still good friends and we always tell each other that we look good if we do. well yesturday @ my bday party i texted her saying she looked really good....cuz she did. well Jack read that text and now hes really mad @ me. but he knows thats how we are so i dont see why hes mad. someone help! please!

*text guy* (link)
Dear Text Guy,
I think that maybe Jack thought that you and his gf are doing something behind his back. or if they are really in love, maybe he doesn't want anything to happen. I mean you and her are over and he thought that you still have feelings for her. Try talking to him, or maybe get Liz (whatever her name is) to tell him that you two are just friends and that you say to each other that hey You look good.

Talktotay
Taylor S


would having sex with your clone be consider gay or a new form of masterbation??? (link)
wwweeeeeeelllllllllllll i think that it is totally wrong for 1 thing and also, WHY THE HELL UR CLONE? that is like mary-kate and Ashley doing it. Now can you picture it? and if you can, ok then ur just gay or lesbo, so don't.


well the past 3 years me and my ex have been talkin every single day on da phone.. he calls me everyday and he is so sweet to me and so am i but we havent seen each other for 3 years never.......i kno its weird but i kinda liked da way he waz with me and how he called me everyday anywayz today i went to see him and omg i think i like him alottttttttttttttttttt......but i dont know what to do he called me today and we were talking about each other and eerything please help me i like him alot (link)
i think that you should go back to him. Tell that you have found out that you really love him asnd that you really love him alot! And if he says no, mail me back


ok im kinda in a bind here. there r these two guys that like me, and i have feelings for both of them. they both have qualities that i love and it seems like they are equal with positive and negative things. they both have these great qualities:
makes me laugh
football players
tall
tan
great personalities
just everything about them is perfect. how do i know how to choose the right one??

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All i can say is to follow your heart.


okay..well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now..and hes had a lot happen in his life lately (parents divorce and stuff)..but hes been takin' it out on me..and he'll promise me something and then break it saying he cant bc hes too upset..but he only says it when he doesnt feel like hanging out..and it really upsets me bc he lies a lot..should i break up with him or what?? i need HELP! (link)
No you are doing nothing wrong, these kind of things take time. When he is good and ready he will talk, but until then hang in there. And right now he needs a gf, so whatever you do, DO NOT BRAKE UP! maybe say ________ (his name) can we talk and if he says nothing, say i am here to help, still nothing, I love you and i want to be there for you. You know you can tell me anything, asnd i can help, and if nothing, tell him maybe about this website and say talktotay. and masybe he will talk.


i really want a bf does ne 1 have ne advice on how i can get 1 (link)
Just be Yourself


But he doesnt even know who his dad is. He just turned 2 last monday and last month when my fiance went to go pick him up to put him in the car he started crying for me.. (link)
ok well then there is a problem. I think that maybe you should take him and his dad out for dinner and get them to know eachother. And maybe talk to ur bf, cuz he has a kid, and the kid don't know him! that is sad.


Hey my name is Kelly and i have a boy friend that isnt really there all the time hes always out with his friends and this girl named chris. But he says chris has a boy friend but i dont know if i shopuld beleive him or not because hes always hangin on her a nd stuff. I have cried sometimes because hes never there for our kid and on my sons b day he wasnt even there. Should i dump him? he has proposed to me but i dont know what to do know more. Hes real sweet and everything but he just doesnt spend any time with me no more. Please help! (link)
I think that you should trust him for your kid. I mean, are making this kid never sees his dad. I think that at least let him know he has a dad by getting married, and work your problems from there.


How do you loose weight the easy way??? Im confused i have been going to a gym regually and still i haven't seen no change in my weight. Im annoyed and im starting to want to give up but i really want to loose weight. Is there any other ways of loosing weight faster??

Luv Shelly (link)
Well Shelly,
R u reayy fat? or do you think that? Well eat fruits that you like and do lots of outdoor activies



i hate to ask too many questions but, in addition to my other problem, my parents are arguing every day and whenever they go near each other they yell and get mad. Does this mean they are going to divorce or is it possible they will work things out? (link)
No it doesn't. My mom and dad did that too. That is really just settling things.


I am 18 years of age. My family and I have dreamed of moving to another country for 12 years. We finally have the opportunity to do so and we have taken it. However, my sister now has a boyfriend and is threatening to stay behind. She wants to marry him as soon as possible. She is 16 years old. This boy is 19, has quit school, has been unemployed for most of the last 3 years as he is continually fired, and is known to lie frequently. How can i make her see that she is too young for this and that he is not worth giving up her family and her future for? (link)
I think that you should tell her that if she wants to be sitting around waiting hand and foot on this jerk, then she can. But she has known her family for 16 years, her his 19. Her is to old and around this age they are complete jerks. That she will get her feelings hurt and who knows what this guy is hiding. He has no job (they need money for bills) Has quit school (needs edu. for jobs which = money =bills) and lies! what if he comes home one night and is drunk and has lipstick all over his face, and smells like perfume, and says, i went to my old gf's house. We did nothing, and is lying? then what? this guy is not right for her. and she knows it.


My friend has been dating this guy (he's 15 and she's 13)and he wants her to sleep with him. She keeps asking me what to do, but i don't know what to tell her. I know she doesn't love him (i don't even think she likes him) and when ever i tell her what she doen't want to hear(like "no") she gets really mad and goes to our other friend who keeps telling her to do it(but she doesn't even know what she's taking about.) She asks me every day and i'm sick of it! Sometimes i just want to tell her to do it to get her off my back. Please Help! (link)
I think that you should ask questions, like why would you date some one much older than you, do you love him, and what do you think. And if she says
1) dunno
2) no
3) dunno
then say from those answers tink about it.


Help please the last time I wrote to you people was in about March in Oregon... I had run away and was heading for Canada and asked what I should do and most of you said go back but I didn't listen... I'm from California and ive ridden my bike all the way to washington... i'm badly fucked up... I feel really sick... what should I do... I don't want to go back... but I want to feel good again... i've had to steal food, steal things to survive.... anyways i'm on a computer in an internet cafe... please help... what should I do? (link)
Well maybe you should first get a job, and get enought to buy some food and maybe a cell phone, call home and say that you are fine (when you do get better) And buy new clothes, maybe find a good home. And get better soon. And want i want to tell you is that everything will be alright, but i can't. I don't know what to say. I am so sorry, but maybe the right thing to do is to call home.


I got pushed off this hill of woodchips n landed right on my back... I didn't notice at the time but i broke 2 of my ribs... Yes it hurt extremely bad but I wanted to be tough n finished school the rest of the day and actually attended basketball n played it. The physical trainer at my school made me lay on the gym floor and do streches to strech it out.She wouldn't listen to me because i told her i couldn't do that. She told me i had to do 100 times of the streches n now i suffer pain from that. Is there anyway to fix it? I went to the chiropractor. But that didn't work! HELP!! (link)
Maybe you shouldn't h ave stayed at school, asnd went to tell a teacher, but you didn't do that. You can't always be tough, you have to think of what is right. You have to think of your life. I mean, by doing that that could have caused a lot of damage. And if i were you, i will be running to the dr! And if you what t o long, something could happen so that you can't run to the dr, go to school, or even get out of bed! so go to the dr. And if your friends say that you are a sissy, then they are lying. that is the right thing to do.


OK um so there is this girl i lyk nd she just graduated in mi skool..there is an age difference...lyk a year lol..so i lyk her but i already ahv a girlfrned nd she's a lil more mature than me i guess ...nd so i just had a realy confusing dream that we went out..so wut should i do?? (link)
Well i think that if will be happier with the non gf, hen go out with her. Maybe just maybe (i am not saying do this) But maybe when ur gf is away, ask her out, and t ry to remember u and ur gf's first date, and find out which one is better. Loook for the following
1) which one is the funniest
2) who is more comfortable around you
3) Ask questions that you want to know and look for good good answers.
I am not say to do this, but it is a idea, and advice which is what your looking for right? this isn't so dr answer.
Thanx for reading,
Taylor
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my 2 best friends an me always hang out an like whenme an one are chylllin the other storms off an gets pissed off... she curses to much an she talks behind our back to one another an we are reallygettin fed up!like rite nowme dana and andria..( (link)
Well i think that if she is acting this why then she is mad that there is so many people in the bunch, and maybe you guys would be better without her. she sounds like one of my friends olivia. Like i have other friends, and we all like to hang out and she gets all mad because we are like best friends. She doesn't like me having bff's but yet she is allowed! All i am saying is that maybe you shouldn't be hangin out with her. Maybe hang out with the other friends. I hope that this helped. And if so, come back and ask for more.
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Tay


i live in a small town with nothing to do, where can i go to meet a new friend? (link)
anywhere, all you have to do is to keep your mind opened and watch for people your age. Talk and there you have a friend. I lived in a town where there were only 3 girls my age. but before i moved, i had 15 friends. because there were boys my age and there were girls and boys like one year younger than me, but we were still friends.


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Over and out,
Talktotay
aka= Taylor


my friend thinks that she is better than me at evrything and i got so pissed off one night and she pushed me and i pushed her back and then we startd makinout and we did *it* (lol) i dno how to tell my gf... should i?. I NEED HELP (link)
Well first of all, if your gf really loves you she will understand. But if she yells and dumps you. then she isn't right for you. Tell her word for word for what happened. And maybe ask the girl that you did it with to go out with you. Maybe you are better with her.
Hope i helped and didn't cause troble.

And email me back with what happened.
Taylor Stemle


okay well...my mom and dad got a divorce a few years ago..so i have to go back and forth like..one week i'll be with my mom and the next i'll be with my dad..but i cant stand my dad and his new girlfriend..personally i think he deserves better than her but what do i know i'm only 14...okay well..how do i tell my dad that i dont want to go over there anymore because he changed and i dont like his girlfriend? (link)
I think that you should tell him that you don't like his girlfriend. Beacuse i mean, the divorce means alot to you and what your stuck in the middle. Asak him one day (when his gf isn't around) if you can talk. First say please don't yell or take this the wrong way, but i really don't approve of his gf and that you think he should get better than that. There is notthing wrong with that.




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