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Help me....
Help please the last time I wrote to you people was in about March in Oregon... I had run away and was heading for Canada and asked what I should do and most of you said go back but I didn't listen... I'm from California and ive ridden my bike all the way to washington... i'm badly fucked up... I feel really sick... what should I do... I don't want to go back... but I want to feel good again... i've had to steal food, steal things to survive.... anyways i'm on a computer in an internet cafe... please help... what should I do?
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ok u HAVE to go back NOW even if u dont want to its gunna make u feel much better nd u cant live ur life stealing things b/c that could make u end up in jail nd make ur life even worse just go back now b4 its too late
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How are you planning to get across the border? They ask you all kinds of questions. Anyways, go get help from a service in Washington. It'll be easier than biking all the way back to California and you'll be better off not biking all that way.
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You should go home. If the reason why you are running away is because they abuse you at home, go home and call the Child welfare. If not, you have no reason to run away. Home is where your life is. I bet the people at your house are worried.
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go home. ya u mite be in trouble but at lesat u wont have to steal food. i mean it cant be that bad at home. or go live with a friend. u cant live like that forever. good luck girl.
kristi
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Well maybe you should first get a job, and get enought to buy some food and maybe a cell phone, call home and say that you are fine (when you do get better) And buy new clothes, maybe find a good home. And get better soon. And want i want to tell you is that everything will be alright, but i can't. I don't know what to say. I am so sorry, but maybe the right thing to do is to call home.
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Yeah I think i remember your question I didn't answer though.
Well first things first. You say that your in WA? I live in WA I live in prosser WA a very small town.
Well I think that it would be fair to your parents that they know that your alright. write them a e-mail, letter anything to let them know your alive and breathing. Your really sick. that makes sence. Riding your bike all the way to WA? You've had to steal to stay alive.
I will ask you this question. how is this better than having a roof over your head,food? I'm not judging im just trying to make my point before I give you my personal advice.
you probly have namonia (can't spell it right) and the only way you can get better with that is medicene and the only way you can pay for it is if you go home. Home life must have been really a disaster to run away.
I really think you need to go home to get better in any way, phisical, mentaly, spiritualy. Honestly. This is hard but know that your parents care about you and a really worried. you want to feel good again that go home.
If you don't go home and you reach canada what then? you still will be stealing for food, and what not, you don't have money to stay in a motel, and you will most deffintaly be sicker than ever, may be deathly sick.
PLEASE I don't know how good my advice has been but please go home. you will be able to fave some real nutrion, a real bed, fresh clothes.
Please I hope I helped in any way possible
sincerely
advice~gurl
Kathleen (kat)
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I'm so sorry, not only about your situation but that you didn't get very good advice, by the sound of it. I need a little more information, but I'll see if I can help you. Do you have any relatives in Washington? If not, you need to call one. If you are or used to be religious, a church can always help you. (And I'm not religious, so no I'm not trying to convert you.) You need to stop this right now. It's gone way too far. Stop stealing. Call information and ask for a local homeless shelter or soup kitchen. They can help you there. Also remember you have already started the road to recovery by acknowledging that you "want to feel good again". Also go to the hospital! Like I said, I need more information so feel free to ask me a private question or email me, tinkerbell_7141@msn.com. I know exactly how you feel, I ran away last June. That's all I'm saying though.
Good luck!
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Try your best to get a crap job for now. Work at a small company, so you don't have to worry about them mailing you anything. How old are you? If I were you, I'd go back, but it's your decision. How bad were things at home? What are your symptoms if your sick? Even if you get to Canada, are you sure you can stay there? You might get sent back anyway. It would be too risky for me to continue, so I'd go back. If home life was terrible, I'd get athorities involved, but that's just me. I hope you do better, I'm truly worried about you.
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listen, if you really feel sick, you should check into a hospital. if going back isnt what you want to do then dont. stealing isnt bad if its for survival. if you need some advice you can IM me at AIM. my screen name is chaoticchildsoul i know stuff about running away. but not a lot. ill send this to you, and if i dont hear from you in ten minutes ill type everything i know in another answer box.
its been ten minutes since i send one in the first time. if you feel sick check into a hospital. they cant refuse you. then when you feel better, leave unnoticed. secondly, if you need food try dumpster diving. its not half bad if you go to the right places. most bakerys throw out bags of bread. but dont get caught. becarefull because most bakerys and stuff that are chain companys will put poisons on the food. (those bastards) another thing is to look for shelters. they can be a lot of help till you get to your destination. ohh and by the way, canada is a great place to go. i want to go there myself. ill talk to the anarchist homeless people i know and try to get more advice for you. if you can give me an email adress. mine is iselizard@aol.com i hope you feel better.
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