I'm neonfizz, a grade eight girl fron Canada. I like sports! Isn't that special;). Anyways, my friends say I'm good at giving advice...so, here I am! I can relate to a lot of problems so don't hesitate to ask.
E-mail: canadian_girl1867@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Canada
Occupation: Crazed Elephant
Age: 13
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Member Since: October 17, 2003
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Help please the last time I wrote to you people was in about March in Oregon... I had run away and was heading for Canada and asked what I should do and most of you said go back but I didn't listen... I'm from California and ive ridden my bike all the way to washington... i'm badly fucked up... I feel really sick... what should I do... I don't want to go back... but I want to feel good again... i've had to steal food, steal things to survive.... anyways i'm on a computer in an internet cafe... please help... what should I do? (link)
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How are you planning to get across the border? They ask you all kinds of questions. Anyways, go get help from a service in Washington. It'll be easier than biking all the way back to California and you'll be better off not biking all that way.
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Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you (link)
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Up here in Vancouver, we have houses for women who have been abused and their children. If you live in the States, this sitehttp://www.baddteddy.com/abuse/index.htm is very useful. Please, get out of there and go to a shelter or somewhere safe.
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I always wanna hang out with people. But when we come over to my house I dont know what to do. Do you have any suggestions for ideas of stuff to do. We always end up really bored!! I have cable but thats not a very fun thing to do when you have ppl over. any ideas would help!!! thnx (link)
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My friends and I do lots of stuff when we're bored. Sometimes, we'll just sit around and talk or read magazines and make fun of celebrities in them. Other times, we end up doing chores because our parents say that 'soandso has been over enough that she' not a guest anymore, you can do laundry while she's here'. It always happens to me and my friends no matter whose house we go to. We're always together. Anyways, sometimes we go to the park and talk out there, other times we go to store or to get icecream and stuff. The mall is always fun. You don't need money, most of the fun is just trying on ugly clothes or clothes we would never wear (we tried on Duff Stuff once...it was soo hilarious).
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is it a bad thing to fall asleep while ur babysitting a 3 yearold in summer while thre in a pool?
~>confused (link)
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Remind me never to hire you as a babysitter when I'm older and have kids.
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I am confused because I like this kid and I think he likes me but i can't tell how do i know? (link)
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Ask him out and see what his respnse is. If you think he likes you, then chances are, he does.
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Chatspeak burns my eyes. How can I jump through my computer and kill people who use it? (link)
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I dunno but if you do figure out how, tell me!
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I am a fast runner you see and I got asked to run this thing called the turkeytrot, but Iave to run in front of the whole school. I am araid of getting lastplace should I still run? (link)
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Yup. People can't laugh at you if you're up there trying. It's better than what they're doing. And hey, with a cool name like turkeytrot, why wouldn't you want to?
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Hey, T'is me, Mordak from spacefem. I wanna know where i should get my next piercing. I have 8 in my ears, 6 in my lieft, 2 in my right, and an eyebrow ring in my left eyebrow. So, where should i next bung a hole?? (link)
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Well, perhaps, if you're willing, a lip piercing? I think that would be harder to keep clean though. Hmm...maybe, a chin ring? Those are pretty awesome.
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I hang out with a few of my friends, but theres this one girl that follows us everywere How do we get rid of her??I dont want to tell her anything though Im just not good with feelings!!! (link)
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Well, I had this situation awhile ago. What I did was acted reluctant to do stuff with her and did more stuff with other people. It took her awhile but she got the point.
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Okay like who did it???Why did you take my chocolate???? (link)
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*cough*iwashungry*cough*
Who? What? I don't have any idea what you're talking about.
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ok i cant stand men here i am again with the third update on kyle ok today was the first day i seen him since i had the fight with him and told him i liked him well today he totally ignored me i mean we shared glances and locked eyes a couple of times but i think i made him nervuose cause he likes my friend but i dont regret telling him i just want him to talk to me help!!!! (link)
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call him...theres nothing he can do there...and by the way, is your name nicole?
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hey im the one wrote about a boy named michael anderson well he aske me out and i said no just thought you would like and update.
p.s. happy i didnt spell any words wrong
lol bye (link)
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Not to be too harsh on you, but this is what you wrote:
hey im just lettin u know wut happen
hey im the one wrote about a boy named michael anderson well he aske me out and i said no just thought you would like and update.
p.s. happy i didnt spell any words wrong
lol bye
Now, as far as I know, 'im' isn't a word. 'I'm' or 'I am', as far as I know those are words but 'im' isn't. Same goes for 'lettin'. I don't believe 'lettin' is in any dictionaries and neither is 'u'. I have also never heard of the words 'wut' or 'aske'. Last of all, the way you used the word 'and' was incorrect. I suggest that, first, you read a dictionary and then repeat second grade.
My apologies for that, I'm not in a good mood.
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Well, when I was in the 5th and 6th grade I went to a middle school in my hometown, but I wasn't enjoying it at all their besides the fact that my friends were there. Everybody else there was stuck up and they did their best to try to humiliate people.
Since I wasn't enjoying the schools in my hometown, when it was time for seventh grade I decided to transfer schools and I got in a big fight with one of my friends about this. But eventually we made up and everything was fine. The point is though, that i felt like my friends and I were growing apart and it was only my first year in this school. Now I'm in eighth grade and I'm still going to the same school I transferred to but I kind of promised my friends from my hometown that I would go to high school where they are going because I seriously thought that's what i wanted. But now I don't becasue something bad happened with me and one of the "popular" girls of the cshool in my hometown and I don't want to go back (not because I'm scared but becasue I will probably do something stupid like punch her out) even though I dont seem like a tough girl. Either that, or I wont be able to focus in school anymore.
What should I do?
I want to go because I want to see my friends again and I DON'T want to let them down.
But then again, I really don't want to go because the people there are stuck up jerks who only care about themselves. I don't care what they think about me but I just can't stand being around people like them. Plus, there is more smoking adn people who get high at the school where my friends go to and I'm totally against that.
Also, how can I break the news to my friends that I may not end up going to the same school as them in high school?
I'm so confused...
What should I do???
Thanks for taking your time to read this long letter.
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I think you should just break it to them slowly, give your old friends hints you might not end up going to their high school then one day just tell them. They may be mad but tell them that you've got attached to yuor school and just don't want to leave. If they're good friends, they won't be mad and they'll find as much time as possible to hang out with you.
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Just so you know, I will be ETERNALLY GRATEFUL if you answered this, I REALLY need help on this matter...
There is a boy in my school. He is studly and flirty and *appears* to be a good guy. I used to admire him (NOT as a crush or anything, just as a person), but now I'm not so sure. This year, we are both freshman and happen to be in most of the same classes. He is kind to me and I apperciate that, but a few weeks ago he asked me what the homework in French class was. I told him and he asked me to see my workbook so he would know what pages to do (keeping in mind that this is the class right before French!) me, being the idiot that I am, gave it to him without question and he eventually gave it back. I was expecting it to be over but it wasn't. At least twice a week he would ask me for my workbook and I would continue to give it to him. One day, though, I was absent and hadn't yet gotten the homework for French and he asked me for my book. I explained that I wasn't there to get it and thus didn't have it done. He looked at me and there was disappointment in his eyes and voice, but that's not what threw me off. What really got me going (although I didn't show it at the time) was the fact that he said: "oh... it's ok then" as if he were FORGIVING me for not doing my homework so he could copy it! I'm angry at him, but I'm afraid if I tell him off then he'll do something nasty (spread a rumor, make fun of me, etc). But then if I don't tell him off, he'll just keep taking advantage of me! What should I do? (link)
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um...right. That confused my half-awake self but from what I got, you shouldn't give him the notebook.
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Me and my best freind really like eacother alot. We have a history of 'relationships' in the past, but it was middle school, and I don't really count it...But anyways, back to the present. He was my date to homecoming (which was a month ago) and at the dance, he told me he still liked me. Well, i've always liked him, so i thought everything would be cool and work out. A week passes by and he says nothing. I confront him, and he tells me he wants to wait for his license. Well, he now has his license, and has for a week. But he still hasent done anything. He acts like he likes me, and I'm posotive he does, but i'm tired of waiting. Hes told all his friends (mostly girls, that ask him whats going on between us) that he was going to ask me out this week, but guess what? HE HASENT. What should I do? (And no, I dont want to be the one to ask him out) Thank you! (link)
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He might just be nervous. Eitehr give him more time or ask him yourself.
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i'm a HS junior. i like a sr. however he's about a foot shorter than me. has anyone ever had a tall/short relationship? how did it work out? (link)
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I haven't had one but one of my friends is not even 5 feet. She is going out with a guy that's about 5'8 and they're fine. no one ever comments about the height difference and nothing bad comes of it.
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how does one ask a friend on a date and make it clear that its a date, not just a couple of friends hanging out? (link)
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Well, i tried to ask out my long time crush by saying "Do you want to go to Anny's on Friday?"(Anny's is an ice cream shop.) He thought it was a friend thing. So, i think you'd have to say "Do you want to go to ___ WITH ME?" The with me makes all the difference.
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Okay. Here's the story. First I'll introduce the people that are involved or I will lose you. Rose is our age but went to a private school about an hour away this year. Another girl, Emily is still going to this school. Her sister Julianne just started going to our school and likes Billy. Last year, Billy liked Rose and found out that he liked her too. They didn't go on any dates or anything and Rose hasn't seen him since the end of the school year. Now, Billy likes Emily. Rose still thinks he likes her. Billy was going to ask Emily to the school dance last week but he didn't get the nerve to. For the first slow dance, he danced with Julianne. After Julianne, he danced all the dances wth Emily. Now Julianne is really jealous and not speaking to Billy or Emily. It may not seem like this is my business but i was there and witnessed it all and Billy asked me post it here after he heard about the site because his computer has a virus. He wants to know how to tell Rose he doesn't like her and how he should fix things up with Julianne and Emily and him. Any ideas? And I hope this made sense. (link)
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no no...billy is a code name as are all the other names so I can protect their privacy.
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ok heres my quesion .......i get good grades in school i look somewhat good......and i have a great voice....but i feel like i need to be somewht popularr.....and plez dont answer " who cares wht other people think" wht do i do? (link)
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OH!OH!OH!OH!
To be part of THE popular group at MY school, you only need to follow a few steps.
1. Become an alcoholic...well...maybe not alcoholic but you have to drink a few times a week.
2. Wear the most revealing shirts you possibly can.
3. Pretend your life is a soap opera.
Now, if you want to be part of the second most popular group, like the one I'm part of, you have to be an interesting or funny person. Every lunch, the guys that the popular group are always talking about talk to us and hang out with us. There's about 20 of us. And 5 of them and they think everyone loves them. And yeah...we're the smart 'nerds'. But we are the second group in school...sorry...had to brag for a bit there....
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What's a good way to pick up chicks? (link)
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Ask them out. No, I mean it. Ask them out. And flirt.
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