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Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you
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i would get away fast!...you deserve a lot better then that...when he is at work..start packin'..call a friend and LEAVE!
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I think u should get sum help, its not right that he beats u and ur 2 year old daughter
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Get out anyway you can! Seek help from Family, Social services, or even the police if it becomes necessary. Please get out, I promise you that it will only get worse...
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You need to contact an Abuse Center or go to one. It isn;t safe for you or your daughter!! Trust me!
(I'm only 13..........)
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well, first of all, im really terribly sorry to hear that a bastard like him is destroying your life. Since your husband is abusive then don't try anything slick in front of him because then he'll just hurt you more...so wait until he leaves the house and when he does, take your daughter and go straight to the police. i know this might be hard for you but if not for yourself then do this for our daughter. Be a strong women and send that prick straight 2 jail. hope i helped out :)
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You need to get help. You may not want to do anything for yourself because you think you love him but think about your daughter. Shes only 2! While your husbands away you and your daughter need to go to the police.
Please get help
I hope I helped
Britt
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Well I am actually only 14 but still you seriusly need to tell the cops! It could get worse and he could severly hurt you! If your able to get out of the house with your daughter go straight to the police. this is so serious! you need to get a divorse (spelling?!) with this man and then you'll be able to start a new life, maybe you could apply for the witness protection thing and they could help you. whatever you decide to do you need to get help honestly! you and your daughters' lives are in danger! Good Luck and stay as safe as possible!
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0ok well im only 13 but listen 2 me when i say TELL THE POLICE! this is serious..u need to tell someone about it and u need 2 get a divorce
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I think that you should get out as soon as possible. If your husband is going to do that to you, then just get out. For you and your daughters sakes
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obviously ur a strict 1700's christian and uve never heard of 911 or a god damn divorce
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leave!! run to the cops!!! u dont have to press charges... but they can take u somewhere and hide you out, or u can go to a church and they will hide you out. your the adult u need to protect the child, and get it out of the abusive home b4 it gets too out of hand!! but just if ur scared to leave him, dont be!! b/c u need to get help!! anything else i can do let me know
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go to the police. get a divorce. get out. do something. you cant stay with him. its a felony to do what hes doing. but you should go to the police and report him. abuse is wrong. and you and your daughter do not deserve that! good luck.
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you need 2 get a divorce and bring your daughter with u even if u have 2 go 2 court. good luck!
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If you have any respect for yourself or for your children you need to get out now! You have already made the mistakes of letting him touch you the first time, get married and then have and most importantly adopt a child!!
My advise to you is to find the nearest shelter for battered women and take your children with you ASAP!
THOSE CHILDREN DID NOT CHOOSE TO LIVE IN THAT SITUATION AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU!
Good luck to you; and for the sake of your children I hope you make the right decision.
Take Care,
mrsknowledge
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You need to leave the house as soon as you can. I personally would do it when he is not home so he can not try and stop you or hurt you any more. If you don't want to do it for yourself, do it for your daughter. You never know how far he is going to take his beating next time on you or your daughter. He could god forbid injure your daughter to any extent. Everytime your husband steps into the house you and your daughters life are at risk. Go somewhere safe and call the police and tell them what is going on. The safe place you go, make sure your husband can not track you down because he will come there. I hope my advice has helped you and your daughter. If you need anymore advice don't hesitate to ask.
*Good Luck...& leave ASAP.*
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ok i may not know much about marrage but i do know that when u r being hurt physically by another person u should get the cops on his ass. If he is hitting ur 2 yr old daughter that is child abuse. Put that asshole in his place and get him in jail. if u need anything else im here 4 you. good luck.
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You have to get out of there and away from him as soon as possible. He's beating you and he's beating your kids. Pack your bags and leave with the kids while he's out and go to a relative's house, a friend's house, or a battered women's shelter. Then divorce him. You'll get custody of the kids if he hurts them too.
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GET THE HELL OUTTA THERE!!! ok im only 13 and may not kno a whole lot but i kno right from wrong and wut ur husband is doing to u is so WRONG!! you are putting yourself at risk by staying there and letting him beat u.PLUS, you are putting your 2 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER at risk of getting severely hurt 2!!! please lady...even tho i dont really kno u just take my advice and get out! u have to b strong and not let "the man" take charge..call the police 2 if u have 2 or stay over sumone elses house that he wouldn't suspect u being at! u just havta move!!!
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Up here in Vancouver, we have houses for women who have been abused and their children. If you live in the States, this [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) is very useful. Please, get out of there and go to a shelter or somewhere safe.
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well i would take all my stuff and leave with the child or even call the police!! well hope i helped!!
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You need to get out of there NOW! Call the cops take your kids and leave NOW! NO JOKE you might think you love him but if he beats you he does not love you! Call the cops and leave! If you can't call you can get on the internet and e-mail a friend and they can call! God bless you
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get out of there fast!! leave your husband,, maybe u love him but don't put yourself or your daughter at risk, what happens if one time he takes it out of hand and really hurts you daughter, shes only 2, she can't defend herself.. i know its hard but if you stay ur endangering yourself and ur daughter.. also if you think he will hurt you if you leave then get the police involved.. its illegal for him to do that to u and to your daughter!!
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i am gonna be a hipocrite here. my story is a have hit my woman. only twice and both times we were both drunk and she started battering me. i have never ever hit my kids. what u need to do is got to a hostel. i dont know if they have them in america but they probably do. this guy needs teaching a lesson. so i am sure if you pay some local thugs then they will do him over for £50 and see how he likes being battered.
also why is she adopted? were u not able to have kids. if not if its his fault that u cant have kids i might feel very low cause he feels useless and not man enough. men have this terrible thing called pride and if he isnt able to father kinds his will have been severly dented. still no excuse so get out of there quick.
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first u have to move in with a friend or realtive... then find a divorce agent and call the cops to put a restraining order on him.... thats all i can telll u to do ... hope i helped
Tommy
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Get away from this guy now! He is hurting not only you but your child. Think of the mental abuse he can leave on her and you as well. No one deserves to be abused. Hope I helped, and Good Luck! :)
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oh im soo sorry but you should call the police and tell them about what happenshope this helps you! -swEetLik3caNdy
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that is a felony..go to the cops or atleast tell somebody! because this is really serious hunny! i really cannot stand it when guys smack around their wives and their kids..its really wrong.. for you and your daughters sake call the police and get out of there! <3/Dakota i hope you are safe!
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well..im only 13.. but i thynk you shuud take ur stuff.. and ur kid and leave him.. if he is frikkin gunna putt his hands on y0u and ur baby.. then he needs to be alone.. and you shuud go to coart and git full guardianship over your kid...
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GO THROUCH A DEVORICE! OR ELSE RUN AWAY TO A DIFFERENT COUNTRY AND MAKE YOUR CHILD FORGET SHE HAD A DAD! SRRY BAD ADVICE
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You need to get out of the relationship, it's onyl going to get worse if you don't and you or your child could get seriously hurt!
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you need to get help.. right away.. dont even put up with that.. ur endangering your life and your daughters by staying with him.. if he has been beating you then theyre are probably bruises on your body and your childs.. try going to the police and showing them the bruises and telling them wut ur husbands been doing.. they will probably help you.. then go to one of those shelters for abused women and move out of the house and stay with a friend.. believe me youll be very happy hes out of ur life if u do all of this and hes put in jail for wut hes done to u and ur daughter.. hope i helped..
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