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Q: well Im a virgin-but I was wondering is sex as good as people make it sound?? 14/f
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It can be, but most likely not the first few times because its something new and you may need some time to get used to it. And many people are different, you can like it or not. But make sure you are ready before experimenting.
hope i helped :)
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Q: My boyfriend is the cutest, smartest, sweetest boy i ever met. I was head over heels for him and told him how i feel. He said he feels the same. We were together 6 months now. Well, he just turned 18, and i am going to be 17 soon. My family disapproves because hes 18, but our age difference is pretty small. He is going to college, yale, and i live in california. Hes going to be so far away. Well he told me that he loves, me and i love him. Ever since i agreed that i loved him back, hes been trying to tell me that sex is good when you love someone. He has been buying nightgowns and lingerie for me like every month. I dont want to do it yet, and i want to wait longer, and he says we can wait but next month, here comes lingerie...idk what to do, hes not like physically, but like everyone thinks i should, i talked to my sister, and she called me prude, and i dont want to be and i want to do it with him, but i am afraid. I know i should wait, but by now i just want to get it over with. What should i do?
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sorry if i write too much :)
You need to wait until YOU are ready to have sex, NOT HIM. If he says that sex is good when you love someone...yea that may be true to him,but if he truely loves you then he will respect you enough to wait until YOU are ready. if you are not ready then he has to understand that. This is a big step in a relationship and you should think about it before you take any actions. relationships arent about sex, its about love, and being with the person you love! I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and we love eachother enough to wait until we are married. You may not agree with that, and thats totally fine, BUT you do need to wait until you are emotionally ready. your first time should be
special, not rushed or "get it over with" kind of thing.
Also, if you dont want to have sex then dont!! just say no!! :) if he doesnt understand then thats too bad for him, he's losing something special.
Dont be pressured by ANYONE! boyfriends, friends, and especially family!!
GOOD LUCK! :)
hope i helped!
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Q: you know those icons, some have them in their profiles. tsome move some dont but uh... where do you get them?
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Go to www.iconaotors.com or www.badassbuddy.com
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when you rub a guys dick up and down
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Q: Alright. I'm fourteen-years-old and I'm a Freshman, this year, in High School; just to give you an idea of where I am, as far as maturing goes.
No one has ever really spoken to me about health and growing. And I suppose I'll end up learning about this in Sex Ed. but I figured I would get advice, now, anyways.
This afternoon, I started noticing a soreness on the sides and tops of my breasts. I'm not entirely sure what this soreness means or whether or not it's a good thing so that's where I need help.
Is it normal to have sore breasts? Do you get 'growing pains' as you mature, on your chest?
Thank you, in advance, for your help.
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your breats are most likely just growing...its completly normal, dont worry about it
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Q: hi im 14 yeears old and i hasve had my period for quite awhwile, when i was 13, i have been using tapons for almost the hole time when i was taking it out it hurt and i couldn't get it out i looked and theres like a piece of skin not liek a piece but its suppose to be there, the string got hooked around it and i had to untangle it to get it out, is that normal??
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i really dont think that it is normal...maybe you should go see a doctor...
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Q: When I get period on my underwear, I try to rinse it out in the sink as soon as possible. My question is this-- should I use hot water to rinse it or cold? I've heard both opinios for the following reasons:
*You should use hot water because it will rinse it out better.
*You should use cold water because hot water will cause it to set and then it will be stained. So I guess my question is, is this true?
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DO NOT USE HOT WATER....cold water gets it out right away and the statement it true that if you use hot water it will set and stain...so use cold water always...
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Q: When i use tampons and i go to take them out, there is skin or something that i have to move over in order for me to be able to succeed in removing the tampon. Is this normal or should i get it checked out?
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umM...that is kinda weird..but umm maybe you should go to see a doctor about that..
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Q: We haven't had sex for a couple months and quiet frankly im horny. Last time i asked him for some he told me i wasnt gunna get layed anymore unless i got a gigilo (male prostitute).hes my husband and i want his body?! i wonder if he finds me
do u think i should leave him or ask him to treat me better.
Mrs. iwanttogetlayed
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DO NOT LEAVE HIM....juss tell him to treat you better and that you have needs too...
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Q: What do you do if you know a family member is having an affair and the wife has no idea why he is ending a 30 year marriage. Do you tell her or do you keep your mouth shut and let him hang himself?
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i personally think that you should tell...its not right for it to be hidden in the closet...
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Q: My husband has panic disorder and has suffered from panic attacks his entire life. He is on medicine for them now, but he is having a hard time holding a job. I love him dearly but am afraid if I stay I will never have anything, and I'm afraid of the judgement that will be passed on me by my family. I love him and don;t want to abandon him, am I crazy for staying?
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of course not...if you love him you stay with him. You love eachother and he needs your help...absoltely do not abandoned him that would be wrong but if that what you feel you need to do then do it...but that would not be fair to him...
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Q: I need Advise.Me and my boyfriend want to get married in britain but my boyfriend is not an E U citizin as he only has a working holiday visa. what is the first steps we have to take to become married. I am 18 years. my partner is 20 years.
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heyy there...maybe you are just A LITTLE to young to get married...i htink that MAYBE you should just wait a little bit...maybe go to college ? just a thought...i know this may not be helping...but..you should go to a college..and wait a little on the marriage
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Q: Well been married to my husband for 2 year's been together for 3 year's and he is getting worse, he work's night shift from 9 p.m.-6a.m. mon-thur and he sleep's all day until it's time for him to go to work and than when it's time for him to be off from work he sleep's all day and stay's up all night he spend's no time with me,i feel like he is my room mate and than he just started stop telling me he love's me and kissing me good bye,but we do still make love he never hold's me, please help i cry all the time,don't know what to do.
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maybe you should try talking to him....telling him how you feel...call him once in awhile and talk to him...
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Q: Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you
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i would get away fast!...you deserve a lot better then that...when he is at work..start packin'..call a friend and LEAVE!
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Q: what do I do if i'm in love with another man and I'm married. My husband says we(the man I;m in love with) can be friends but things seem to be more than friends I really love this other man
I want to be with him! Help
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please tell me this...IF YOU LOVE THE OTHER MAN...WHY DID YOU MARRY YOUR HUSBAND!?!?....if i were you i would not talk to this other man...it would be for the best im telling you this right now...and cheating...cheating will only make it worse and make you have a guilty conscience...so plz make a good decision...write me if u need me
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Q: i have a huge problem. everytime i ask a question no one awnsers.. ahhh or they do..but the awsner dont help me at all..
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well if you have ne questions just ask me....write it in my inbox and ill be happy to help you in any way i can!
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Q: i started my period a few months ago...and my mom gave me pads....i want tampons soo i can go swimming etc....soo i decided to ask her...i cant get the guts up to ask her...how should i ask her?
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tell her that you want to switch to tampons because you want to swim and pads are very unconfortable...Honey, its real easy...just come right out and ask her
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Q: my mother is like so evil!!!!!!! Whenevr we r down town in cleveland and we drive past some colored people she locks the doors but she doesnt do that when wer by whites. she is so races. i cant stand her. it hurts me a lot to know that she has a problem with black people. and she yelled at me the other day for wanting a punkish/gothic style and shes like"you do not come from a family of punks or gths so your sticking to aero and other prepy stores" how do i deal with her. sometimes i feel like running away from home. help me!!!!
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you deffenitly need to talk to her and if she does not listen then just write her a little note. that works a lot with my friends, they write notes to their parents because they wont listen to them. But tell her that you feel unconfortable around her because she is races and that you would like it if she got to know African Americans and gave them a chance and see that they are really nice people...i would also tell her not to judge a book by its cover...they are just like the rest of us...
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Q: uMm...i saw my friend make a move on my bf..what do i do ?
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KICK HER ASS!! jkjk..wait a little bit..maybe like 2-3 days and see if ne of them scome to you to confess.but if not well then that shows she has no respect for you and that she isn't really a great friend. so go to her and talk to her..but personally i would not contintue hanging out with her. Then go to our bf and see how he felt and talk to him...but dont make him feel unconfortable about it because it wasnt totally his fault...
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Q: my room is soo boring! i have a dresser, a big desk for homework and all this other stuff, plus 2 twin beds and a small closet! the walls are white and the landlord wont let me paint them, how can i make my room look better? dont say whatever you want, say real stuff!!! thanks a bunch!
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well you can always make mirrages and put pictures of friends everywhere, or you can buy posters and hang them up. There are many ways to livin up your room, just be creative! Good luck!
rate me
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bio
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My name is Sabrina!
And i am here to help YOU!!!
If you are having ANY problems with anything...you can ask me! I will be totally honest! Also, please rate me! I would like to know how i am doing! HOPEFULLY GOOD!
Xo Brina Xo
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Las Vegas Occupation: student AIM: Member Since: August 11, 2004 Answers: 60 Last Update: January 26, 2008 Visitors: 3948
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