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my damn husband
We haven't had sex for a couple months and quiet frankly im horny. Last time i asked him for some he told me i wasnt gunna get layed anymore unless i got a gigilo (male prostitute).hes my husband and i want his body?! i wonder if he finds me
do u think i should leave him or ask him to treat me better.
Mrs. iwanttogetlayed
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DO NOT LEAVE HIM....juss tell him to treat you better and that you have needs too...
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ok what does it take for you to see your husband is getting it from some where else ,he dosent want to b bothered with you while he is in this new relationship, thats the way most men work when they r cheating on there spouses,do your self a favor get a life, find a new friend and get yours,he sees you are not begging anymore he's going to wonder what is going on with you it will either better your relationship or you will be freed up to do what you want good luck.. anissa
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Maybe your husband is afraid to be intimate with you, you should go to married counseling for advice (or talk about it with him)
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just pretend to give him a massage and chain him to the bed and then be kinky!! lay on top of him and talk to him and if he agreas then there you go!!! in other words chain him to the beb so he doese'nt get away!! so you can have a good chat!!
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Mrs. Iwanttogetlayed...Ask your husband why he doesn't want to have sex with you. Most of the time, if your husband is denying you sex, somethign is wrong. He may have a problem performing...or...the one we never want to think about...He may have another girl. Just ask him to be honest and tell him you need sex. It's natural and if he doesn't want to give it to you, buy a vibrator and use it in front of him. THAT should make him pay attention.
*Kinky by nature*
Abby
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Well when you finally do get him onto bed a great move is get a crispy cream donut slide it on his penis then take bites off it(once in a while licking the frosting off his penis)once it is small suck it off.It is so hot and will make him have a humongus orgasum!!!To anserw your question get him a prostitute you guys can have a three some it is so much fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dress in something sexy if you feel like you need to appeal to him more. There's nothing wrong with that. Plus, if you dress in something sexy and start you know..."putting the moves" on him, then you will go too far that he just can't say no.
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P.S. Why would you leave him? If anything you get a divorce...and you shouldn't even do that without discussing him about this situation.
Do you have any kids? If you have any kids then DON'T leave your husband just because he won't do things like that to you...talk to him about it. You will never know what is up with him if you don't ask, and part of a marriage is getting to know eachother even better...and if you don't ask you will NEVER know.
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Before you start packing all that you own, ask him why he feels that's the only way you'll get laid. Have you recently undergone physical changes that he may find unattractive? If that's the case, then it may be salvageable. Not that I would tell you to change for him. But. if it's something of an emotional issue with him ( he may no longer be emotionally comitted to you, he may have someone else, he may be under alot of stress at work, etc., etc., ) then it's something that the two of you may want to work on in counselling. If you try all that you can and he's still not willing, THEN you may have to determine if it's worth staying. I think it's great that you still want HIS body, not someone else's. That says alot about your character. As for getting laid.... until things can be resolved to your satisfaction...there's nothing wrong with masturbation. As for asking him to treat you better...WITHOUT A DOUBT. If you'd like, feel free to drop me a line at my private e mail.
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You need to talk frankly to your husband about how his behaviour makes you feel. The sexual problems aside, the fact that he tells you to just go and use a gigolo suggest to me a basic lack of respect that you need to work on to have any hope for your relationship. A counsellor would also be a good idea, but fixing your marriage is likely to be a long process. Keep working on it, and hopefully you and your husband will be able to work through your issues together.
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Kick his ass?
Or maybe marriage conselling, either or.
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Well if you love him you shouldnt leave him just because of this reason. Maybe hes got something to hide that he doesnt want you to know about. Talk to him about how you feel and let him explain his reasoning for his feelings about this. You're his wife and you have the right to know why.
-shay :-)
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That's not good. You mean, your married and he says he won't do it with you, at all?? How... strange. You could always touch yourself, but it's not as nice as being next to your husband. Ask him why he doesn't want to. IF nothing else, see a counselor. If he won't go, go alone.
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