Let me start off by saying that I have wonderfull boyfrind.I am currently 17 and I am a girl.Michael, he is my soul mate.My mother doesnt like him. She has valid reasons but I love him nad he treats my with respect and loves me. I dont belive that theres nothing that he wouldnt do for me.
I am currently in Virginia. I moved here in August. he is in Virginia. Our plan is for him to come get me on my 18th birthday and for us to get married. I wont be able to see him until next Novenber. I miss him terrribly.
What should I do? I mean my mother would freak if she found out that I was with him again and I cant talk to him on the house phone and I am like the only one in the universe that doesnt have a cell phone.So, should I stay with him and move or should I stay here, in VA?
urs truly
Confuzzeled?
Kay, Stop. Stop everything and really think.
I was where you're at not too long ago. Do you know what happen to me? My boyfriend (who was 21 and a marine) left me and ran off and got married two months later to a whore. Sweetie, you're 17. I'm 18 right now and the best advice anyone can give you is DON'T GET MARRIED! Not right now at least.
You have a long beautiful life in front of you. You don't need a husband holding you down right now. Sure, when you're like 23-25 is a great time to get married. Right now, no. It's not. You've got a lot to look forward to. College, hot guys, dates, clubbing....it goes on and on. And trust me. I made the mistake of walking into college with a boyfriend and I kicked my ass for doing it.
You may love him and he may love you. But a true testimony of love is if he'll wait till you're through with college. You need to be able to stand on your own two feet before you get married. I work with an attorney and I see divorces everyday. If you're trying to stay with someone for your whole life, that's great, but more often than not, it's not going to happen. High school sweethearts are great, but they don't last. About 1 out of 100 actually works.
Walk it out and see how it goes. Don't put that ring on your finger yet. Guys are fickle and the only person you can ever really trust is yourself. Never forget that.
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what is the quickest and easiest way to get rid of a sore that is in my mouth? it REALLY hurts!
Uhh...it's gonna have to heal on it own. But get orajel. It'll numb the pain.
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I just went to the bathroom and I found a little clump of clear stuff on my underwear. I had a lot of discharge on my underwear and It was very wet. Does this mean anything? What can I do? I haven't gotten my period yet.
Hun, that's just your vagina getting rid of dead cells. The only time you should be SERIOUSLY worried about it if it has a STRONG odor. Then go to the doctor and have him/her check it out.
*The female body is beautiful*
Abby
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Hey. This is probably the wrong catagory... sorry. Ok when i was younger i was in an abusive relationship (VERY VERY YOUNG) ((like kid young)) so anyways i grew up kinda withdrawn and alone... i have a very close circle of friends now and a great boyfriend. We've been together for 10 months and i love him so much. Thing is, im a psycho. Honestly. I hear voices in my head and their shouting, always shouting... i can hardly understand them and i have to yell out to make them stop. Im one of the people you see walking down the street alone talking to themselves. I scream out loud randomly for what seems like no apparent reason. I used to be scared of commitment. I used to go out with people, get through all the hard stages, get through the awkwardness, the sex... and breakup with them. Just as they were starting to like me... I couldnt help it. The guy im with now, i actually love. Ive been holding up this barrier of defense so i couldnt get hurt for so long and now its down and i am SO SCARED!! im all vunerable now. He can hurt me. He says he loves me all the time, but i get paranoid and sometimes i get so jealous and i think i annoy him but he puts up with it cuz he loves me. He says he wants to stay with me forever and get married and have kids. But i think im gunna drive him crazy. How can he love me? Im a wreck! Please help. Soon. X (im 15 and female, my boyfriend is 17 and MALE. Lol)
Lol, babe, listen up. Crazy people are great. I'm crazy. Just cuz you hear voices doesn't mean you're loosing anything. It means your a skitzo. They have pills and therapy for that. As for your paranoia...the reality is, that will never go away. You'll ALWAYS be scared that you're going to get hurt. But here's a question you need to ask yourself: If I constantly baracade myself in the safety of my walls...am I going to miss out on life? You're going to. The best part of life is being in love. And even though at the end, you might get hurt really bad, you had the chance to actually love someone and to be loved. There are aspects about you that he loves and enjoys...and I can bet your paranoia and craziness is some of them. Trust me babe, it's better to love and get hurt, than to not love at all. Then, you'll go through life wondering..."What if?" Don't allow that. Do it, and be proud and happy that you took that step.
*I love my crazy ways*
Abby
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How do I tell my mom I don't want her in the Gyno exam with me? Actually, I want her there, but I don't want her to know I have had sex. So I can't have her there. So how do I tell her I don't want her there without sounding suspicious or mean?
Just tell her you're more comfortable without her there. She won't take it as hard as you think she will; I know HER mother didn't go in there with her. Be nice and say, "Mom...I don't really feel right with you going in with me." She won't get mad. Or get suspcious. She'll understand that it's private. Between you and the doctor.
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this is the most common complaint ever, but i just cannot talk to boys, and boys dont like me. im 14, i am not really into guys, im not a slut, i dont do drugs, i dont go out and party, im on ski team, im not a big flirt and i dont really want to be, i just need good advice about how to feel comfortable around guys...and dont say "treat them as if they are your best friemd!! their onlyt human" come on i really need help!
You don't want to hear that they're only human, but they are. When you go to talk to a guy, just act like they're your brother. Guys are pretty easy to talk to, it's just getting started. So, try something like "Hey, I like your hair, looks good on you." Or something like that. They have HUGE egos, so give them compliments!
*Guys = Egos*
Abby
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What do the numbers after a person's name mean in the bible?
ex- Mark 16:16
Mark is the book. 16*:16^ * Is the chapter of the book and ^is the verse....Geeze...I'm not even christian and I know that!
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Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas?
-.- bullshit. Guys will fuck anything with a vagina. You don't HAVE to shave. Do it if YOU want to.
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OK i need to download some good punk rock, emo, music
Will everyone give me 1 of your favorite song.. Just 1 please... your favorite one???????
Hmm...that's a toughy...Pretty Girl by Sugarcult. THE BEST!
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There's this girl that I dated almost before kind of. She really likes me but I dont like her. I really like this other girl. Im not sure if she likes me though. I keep thinking about her though. Yet this all is confusing but I told both of them that I was gay. Which I thought I was for along time.Yet now I think that I really like the girl. I dont know even know what to say to either of them. What do you think I should say to both of them? I really need some advice.
Oh god...I've been there! I dated a guy who swore he was gay..well..he wasn't when I got through with him. Hah! Okay, hunnie, you shouldn't have lied to them but to get out of it, all you have to say is "Yeah...I'm gay...but I'm beginning to question it because I'm crushing on you big time." Or something along the lines of questioning you gay status because of her. Don't be shy...We're just girls. We won't eat your soul...well..They won't. I will.
*Lying about being gay...NOT A GOOD IDEA*
Abby
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The Winter Ball is coming up on Friday and I have an idea for my hair. It's wavy and black, and I want to straighten it and make it curve inward at the end. I think it's called a "J-curl" but I'm not sure. It looks a little like this:
http://www.royalimex.com/Product/image/medium/CO_CO_J_CURL.jpg
only not quite as curly at the end. How do you do hair like this?
Hmm....I'm thinking...just go to a damn salon! That's what I would do. But I dont like to get my hands sticky with hair gel either...lol. It's a cute style though.
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this girl in my grade i dont like.. well she told us she had sugery and she cant eat.. we asked her sister(who would not lie) said she never got surgery.. and her sister said shes been telling her mom she doesnt eat at school.. i dont like this girll.. and its none of my buiesness... but i need to help her eat.. shes about 5'2 and 75 ilbs.. it looks like you can break her in half
Kay, I'm 5' and I weigh about 75-80 lbs, and I know from personal experience how much it pisses me off when people try to force me into eating. I'm not anorexic or bulimic, it's just how I am made. But A lot of my friends have gone through ana/mia issues. I know you don't like this girl but here's my advice: Suck up your sour issues with her and talk to her. Tell her you're worried about her. Tell her that if she wants to talk about why she's not eating (add in the part about knowing she never had surgery) that you'll listen to her. When you're going through a hard time with self-image, you're in danger of doing something stupid. Just because you don't like this girl, is no reason to allow her to become hospitalized or, even worse, die. So suck up your issues and just...be there for another human being who needs someone.
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My boyfirned of 3 years has just passed away. He was doing heroin with me and he took an over dose and his heart failed. I don't know what i can do without him I just loved him so much and I want to die right now. He was only 19 years old and just got out of highschool last year. I loved him so much I even lost my virginity to him and i can't imagine my life without him. What can I do this is the only person I have ever loved because I have serious issues at home. Someone please answer I rate 5's
I swear...if you die, I'll go to your grave and Dig you up. Look little missy, his death is going to make you a thousand times stronger than what you have been. All you have to do is make your life in his name. CLEAN YOUR ASS UP! No more herion. No more drugs PERIOD. Clean up and do something with your life. Write a book on the bad things that happen when you do drugs. YOU know first hand what can happen. So write one. Dedicate it to him. Dedicate your whole life to making his short life mean something to someone, if just yourself. There's support groups you could go to and do a collaboration book. Just..whatever you do, don't die and don't give up. You'll always love him, and the pain will NEVER go away, but as long as you live your life to it's fullest and in his name, you will be so much happier and proud of yourself.
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hi, i loved the books JUST JANE and the BOSTON JANE books, basically i love historical novels that are love stories...so i was just wondering if anyone had any sugjestion!?! I would love your advice! thanks a million
Jude Deveraux is brilliant with Historical Romances. I have to say her best would be A Knight in Shining Armor, Black Lyon, The Velvet Series...gahh theres too many! Her books are the BEST I have read yet.
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My ex-best friend Hana and I used to be really close, but ever since she went down to visit her cousin (who is pretty slutty herself) she's been acting like the only thing that matters in the world is how good she looks. It was really starting to piss me off, so I told her. She blew it off like it was nothing, which made me angrier. So, now she's started hanging out with two other girls that are known as sluts at our school, and they've really been annoying me. She pretty much dropped me for them, which made me sad. Now since she's found out that her only friends are the other two sluts, she's been trying to be friends with me again. I don't know if I should accept her friendship or not because it really made me angry how she dropped me like that. She hasn't even said sorry... Now since she's been hanging out with those two girls, I haven't talked to her at all. It really makes me sad that we're not friends anymore because we used to be able to tell eachother anything. I've made new friends, but in a way I miss my old one. If you have any advice for me then that would be awesome! Thanks
Look, babe. You've got to make a choice. But before I tell you your options...I'm going to tell you that she will NEVER be the same way again. No matter how hard or how deeply you want it, she'll never go back to the way she was before. There will always be something different about her. Now, you're options are: Ditch her and find some new friends, or take her back and explain how you feel to her about the way she's been acting. See...She thinks she's doing nothing wrong. Open her eyes. You're gonna hurt her by doing that...but later, she'll be happier that you did IF she changes her ways. Make her understand that what she's doing is horribly dangerous. Show her pictures of herpes, genital warts, all of them. Show her that if she keeps on this path, she's going to end up like that. EVEN if she protects herself. Only 99% effective against HIV and Pregnancy, but not even close to protecting her from Herpes, Syphilis, or Genital Warts.
Take care, love, and let me know what you do.
Abby
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im 46 male whos been married for 25 trs but my problem is that my sisters boy has this girlfrind whos 24 and hott i mean very beautiful girl but last week she came over she said to see my wife but she was working and so i thought that was it well damit she came out and said she wanted to well umm have sex with me and started to take off my pants i was shocked but at the same time i felt like yes i want her badd but i didnt and all though she dont know how close i was to giving in and doing this with her but now im kinda glad i didnt but sad cause i wanted to should i avoid her or ?? she wants me to hire her and i said i would but that was before this now i dont know what to do or say cause i think next time im gonna let her have her way and thats cause it makes me feel good that this hott young thing wants ME! god now when i see her i get so turned on and she loves givin me them little hints when the familys together that no one sees but me!! is she messin with me or why is she doin this to me?? thanx
Okie look you nasty boy, this little girl is OFF LIMITS. The only reason is because you have a wife that you obviously love. This little girl seems to be a little slutty. Confront her about it. Tell her that you don't think it would be a good idea for her to work with you but recommend a good job for her. Tell her you are happily married and plan to stay that way.
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i know everyone says it all depends on the woman, but from a girl's point of veiw, does "size" really matter?
i'm not saying i'm small, but i am curious.
Well...it doesn't matter to most women. But most men are only 6 inches when hard. That's pretty damn small! Personally, I like my men to be at least 7 inches when hard..8 is better though.
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name?
on here dingle head!!
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im just sayin hi, i guess. u already kno wats up with me (this is ross btw)
What's your name on here?
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with secondary education as a major how many grants and/or loans could i recieve and where do i apply for them?
O.o....I have no clue.
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