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Im confused.
There's this girl that I dated almost before kind of. She really likes me but I dont like her. I really like this other girl. Im not sure if she likes me though. I keep thinking about her though. Yet this all is confusing but I told both of them that I was gay. Which I thought I was for along time.Yet now I think that I really like the girl. I dont know even know what to say to either of them. What do you think I should say to both of them? I really need some advice.
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Oh god...I've been there! I dated a guy who swore he was gay..well..he wasn't when I got through with him. Hah! Okay, hunnie, you shouldn't have lied to them but to get out of it, all you have to say is "Yeah...I'm gay...but I'm beginning to question it because I'm crushing on you big time." Or something along the lines of questioning you gay status because of her. Don't be shy...We're just girls. We won't eat your soul...well..They won't. I will.
*Lying about being gay...NOT A GOOD IDEA*
Abby
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well first off figure out which one of them you want to be with, no one can help you with that. then depending on how honest you want to be with her tell her you arent gay and want to be with her. if you want to be tricky tell her you arent sure and want her help in finding out if you are gay or not.
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As far as the first girl goes, it's never a good idea to date someone just because they like you. That's not enough. You need to have feelings for them, too. While it can feel uncomfortable to hurt people's feelings, it's far better to be honest with yourself and them.
As for girl number two, if you like her, why not ask her out? Let her know you've been thinking of her a lot and see what she says.
Having told them you were gay might have put the brakes on things, but perhaps you are bisexual. At this point, it's hard to work through your own confusion if you're thinking too much. If you remain honest with yourself about your feelings and follow where your heart leads you, things will work out.
Best of luck.
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