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Backwards Dance.
At my school, we have this dance where the girls ask the guys (hence the backwards part). I have a few guy friends that I'm thinking of asking, but I don't know how to ask them. Girls, if you could share how you asked a guy out (or to a dance), and guys, if you could share how you'd like to be asked, that would be great. Also, none of these guys are romantically involved with me in any way. Also, if you can think of cute ways to do my hair or other dance tips/tricks (i've never been to a dance, really.) then I'd really appreciate it. Thank you so much, and I look forward to hearing back from you soon. :)
Oh, and also, should I ask a freshman (I'm a freshman) or an upperclassman?
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well, on who you are going to ask, it doesnt matter what class they are in, it is who ever you are most comfortable asking. my geuss is that if you ask a guy, youd probably be more comfortable with a freshman. if you go with a senior guy, a lot of girls will be quick to judge you by that (most likely they are jelous). Its your first dance, so just do what you're most comfortable with!! Second, on asking a guy, that's tough for most girls because their nerves get to them. Most likely f you ask a guy firned they'll accept!! Just say it straight out, do you want to go to the dance with me? dragging it out and making it complicated will just make it scarier!! Just ask him. Okay and third, buns, curls and half up/half downs are all really popular for dances, if you want something more specific, you can tell me your hair style and color and i can help you even more! Have Fun!!
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..well i asked this guy i had a random book and taped "wanna go to the dance with me?" in a page and i was pretendin to be reading the book and then i was like can you tell me what this mean i dont get it. so then he's gonna read it and say yes or no. its kinda cute. good luck
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it doesnt make a diffrence if you ask a freshman or upperclassman just make sure there someone that you would wanna go with. Some ways to ask him are..
-Write your message on balloons and attach candy
- order a pizza saying the message you want. arrange the pizza so it will come during lunch at your school, especially for him. be behind him after he opens it and sees it.
- get a shirt and write on it with permint marker saying your name somewhere on the shirt. then in WASHABLE ink cover the rest of the shirt in a bunch of other random girls names or girls that he would know.. attach balloons and get candy. On each balloon put something like "will you go to the dance" then have a card saying "wash the shirt to see who i am" After washing it he should see your name.
-does he drive?? you can go to like party works or any kinda store that would sell Car paint. Its like foam paint and you can write on car windows. You'd wanna do it like hour and 30 mins before schools out so it can dry.
-you can by a bunch of random candy bars and on a big poster board come up with a story using them and ask him to go with you. EX:hey "big hunk" would "uno" like to go to the dance with a real "sweetart" ect..
-make a scavenger hunt.
-on a white board in each of his classes write a peace of the question.
theres a few to choose from. Its hard to think of stuff thats new when your just asking a guy friend. hope i helped some! (:
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Please remember this fact about the male brain: You MUST be very direct with us. Subtle hints won't work. Strong hints won't work. Obvious hints won't work. Just walk up and say "Hey! Wanna go to the dance?" and you can't go wrong. If you're not looking for any kind of relationship to come out of this then ask anyone! If your friends say no, ask someone from class that you know, or even don't know! It's supposed to be fun and this could be a great way for you to meet new people.
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