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this is the most common complaint ever, but i just cannot talk to boys, and boys dont like me. im 14, i am not really into guys, im not a slut, i dont do drugs, i dont go out and party, im on ski team, im not a big flirt and i dont really want to be, i just need good advice about how to feel comfortable around guys...and dont say "treat them as if they are your best friemd!! their onlyt human" come on i really need help!
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You don't want to hear that they're only human, but they are. When you go to talk to a guy, just act like they're your brother. Guys are pretty easy to talk to, it's just getting started. So, try something like "Hey, I like your hair, looks good on you." Or something like that. They have HUGE egos, so give them compliments!
*Guys = Egos*
Abby
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you're young yet so you don't have to be a slut or a flirt or in a long term relationship.. just enjoy life and everyone in it.. here might be a good way to do it..
being a flirt and being "friendly" truly are two different things.. if you're not really that shy then start hanging out with guys like during class and stuff.. make jokes with them and laugh and smile alot.. guys don't like being around moody depressed bitchy girls.. they love girls who know how to have fun and enjoy life.. and it's not flirting it's having fun -- and they'll probably really enjoy you being around.. just pretend they're girls that talk about different kinds of things and maybe these boys could turn out to be your best friends.. hopefully you'll have a lot in common with them (and skiing could be one of those things) and you'll be able to click right away with them..
good luck and I hope I helped!! <33
Lindsey
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i am really comfterable around guys so i might help. if you have a friend that has guy friends then she can introduce you to them. you will end up being pretty good friends. you will talk to boys just fine. also in classes when the guys are messing around start messing with them. then you will end up talking about crazy things.
hope i helped you
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