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Question Posted Tuesday January 10 2006, 4:58 pm

this girl in my grade i dont like.. well she told us she had sugery and she cant eat.. we asked her sister(who would not lie) said she never got surgery.. and her sister said shes been telling her mom she doesnt eat at school.. i dont like this girll.. and its none of my buiesness... but i need to help her eat.. shes about 5'2 and 75 ilbs.. it looks like you can break her in half

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AbbyMichelle answered Tuesday January 24 2006, 8:55 pm:
Kay, I'm 5' and I weigh about 75-80 lbs, and I know from personal experience how much it pisses me off when people try to force me into eating. I'm not anorexic or bulimic, it's just how I am made. But A lot of my friends have gone through ana/mia issues. I know you don't like this girl but here's my advice: Suck up your sour issues with her and talk to her. Tell her you're worried about her. Tell her that if she wants to talk about why she's not eating (add in the part about knowing she never had surgery) that you'll listen to her. When you're going through a hard time with self-image, you're in danger of doing something stupid. Just because you don't like this girl, is no reason to allow her to become hospitalized or, even worse, die. So suck up your issues and just...be there for another human being who needs someone.

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gabby495 answered Friday January 20 2006, 7:20 pm:
no offense but it sounds like you are kinda jelous of her .who cares if shes heck of skinny,thats her.but if shes your friend than tell her your concerned and shes way 2 skinny:)please rate

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amandax33 answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 6:57 pm:
Tell somone you trust. like your school counsuler, teacher,parent any trusted adult. They will know the right thing to do. To help her . She could be doing this for attention or she could really not like how she looks or other reasons. But if you really are conserned.No matter if you like her or not you need to tell a adult.

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Teza answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 6:48 pm:
The best thing to do is if you tell a teacher or your school counclor. They can't really make her eat or anything but it's good if you tell someone you trust and that's an adult. You might not want to do that and if the girl finds out she might be mad that you did that but it's for her own good. Being 72 pounds is very light and not healthy. She could end up in the hospital. Anyways, her mom might not belive her so if the counslor calls and talks to her about it, maybe she would take interest in the problem and get her help.

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ncblondie answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 6:02 pm:
I would suggest speaking to a teacher you trust or your school counselor about this. It's possible that the mother doesn't believe the sister. If this is the case, perhaps the school bringing it to the mother's attention will have more impact.

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